{"id":41960,"date":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41960"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-un-narcisista-non-puo-durare-a-lungo-in-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-un-narcisista-non-puo-durare-a-lungo-in-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tra una moltitudine di caratteristiche indesiderabili, tutti i narcisisti hanno un'altra cosa in comune. Che ne siano consapevoli o meno, non sono fatti per le relazioni a lungo termine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Nella loro mente contorta, non c'\u00e8 nulla di sbagliato che possano fare. Se chiedete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-tuo-culo-narcisista-ha-abusato-del-mio-amore-e-lo-ha-trasformato-in-odio-verso-se-stesso\/\">il vostro narcisista<\/a>, he would probably insist that his relationships with his family, friends and co-workers couldn\u2019t be better. When in fact, that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A narcissist\u2019s inability to empathize with other people and understand where the majority of their emotions come from makes it extremely challenging for them to form long-lasting, healthy relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They don\u2019t see it the way other people do but they lack in the emotional department and since they are unable (and unwilling) to go through the daily motions of the average Joe, they simply cannot last in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tutti i narcisisti hanno un modus operandi simile. Il loro comportamento pu\u00f2 essere facilmente previsto perch\u00e9 fanno le loro cose a ripetizione in ogni relazione sentimentale. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And that right there is the main cause of their romantic downfall. (Ironic, isn\u2019t it?)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Due to this peculiar occurrence, it\u2019s easier to understand exactly why they cannot form relationships that can actually stand the test of time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They are the ones standing in their own way and if it wasn\u2019t for their manipulative behavioral patterns, their luck in love would perhaps increase! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ma fortunatamente per tutte le donne l\u00e0 fuori, esse si attengono al loro programma ed ecco esattamente come sabotano i loro sforzi romantici.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. I narcisisti trattano le persone (e i loro partner romantici) come oggetti<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>As we are all already familiar with, narcissists cannot feel empathy, therefore have zero regard for other people\u2019s well-being. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non possono cadere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-cose-che-luomo-ama-follemente\/\">follemente innamorati<\/a> the way you, I and the rest of the world can. They aren\u2019t wired that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>What they can do is fall for a person in an extremely unhealthy, obsessive manner, let their delusion of love overcome them and within days return to their \u2018normal\u2019 self who treats people like objects.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>They use their partner\u2019s emotions for their own gain and discard them when they no longer serve their purpose.<\/li><li>Prosciugano il partner delle sue energie e lo lasciano vuoto e con un disperato bisogno di una ricarica che non avviene mai.<\/li><li>Invece di scendere a compromessi, prendono ci\u00f2 che vogliono e non danno nulla, a meno che non abbia senso per il proprio profitto e il proprio benessere.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. I narcisisti affrontano la vita con la testa tra le nuvole<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41972\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Narcissists don\u2019t care what\u2019s happening around them. They don\u2019t care what you think or feel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Hanno ideali particolari che si distaccano dalla realt\u00e0. Puntano troppo in alto e si aspettano molto pur non essendo disposti a offrire nulla.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cercano un partner che sia solo un accessorio carino da portare al braccio. Vogliono qualcuno che soddisfi ogni loro esigenza, credendo di averne pieno diritto. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They don\u2019t care what you want. The only thing that matters is what they have imagined in their head and working on achieving it (no matter how delusional or far-fetched it is).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A narcissist doesn\u2019t make it easy on their partner. You will always look over your shoulder wondering if you did something wrong and how to make amends.<\/li><li>La loro costante insoddisfazione nei vostri confronti giocher\u00e0 brutti scherzi alla vostra mente e vi trasformer\u00e0 in un pessimista sbiadito che ha perso la voglia di vivere.<\/li><li>Non faranno mai la loro parte per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-persona-giusta-non-ti-fara-passare-linferno-per-essere-felice-2\/\">essere felici<\/a>. They will ALWAYS expect you to do that. You will be the one in charge of your narcissist\u2019s happiness and it will be extremely difficult living that way.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. I narcisisti non si fidano di NESSUNO<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41973\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They don\u2019t put their trust in anyone\u2019s hands but their own. They see it as a weakness because they have never let themselves depend on anybody. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Unlike other people, who trust their nearest and dearest, narcissists don\u2019t have that luxury.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They don\u2019t understand how people give away their trust that easily as it can backfire within seconds. And this is why their relationships end way too prematurely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>L'incapacit\u00e0 di fidarsi del partner rende difficile il coinvolgimento sentimentale, poich\u00e9 la fiducia \u00e8 l'ingrediente principale di una relazione d'amore sana e felice!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>To them, trust equals vulnerability and they don\u2019t allow themselves to be weak. Not for their partner, not for anyone.<\/li><li>Non riescono a capire che la fiducia aumenta la forza di una relazione e aiuta a costruire il legame e ad avvicinare due persone.<\/li><li>Fidarsi delle persone significa dipendere da loro e i narcisisti non dipendono da nessuno se non da loro stessi.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. I narcisisti sono eccessivamente controllanti e manipolatori<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41977\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I narcisisti devono sempre avere il controllo delle persone e delle situazioni in cui si trovano. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non si lasciano mai sfuggire l'occasione di dover rimettere insieme i pezzi, perch\u00e9 sono sempre all'avanguardia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E questo, insieme al loro bisogno di manipolazione, rende difficile per loro avere una partnership impegnata con qualcuno. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Faranno tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 in loro potere per apparire nella luce migliore e, se necessario, vi getteranno sotto un autobus. Il loro bisogno di perfezione ha la meglio su qualsiasi altra cosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>If a certain situation doesn\u2019t appear to be in their favor, they will make shit up and lie to get their desired outcome.<\/li><li>They don\u2019t respond well to being criticized, so they will resort to many manipulative tactics to drive their partner insane, such as being passive-aggressive and giving you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-modi-per-reagire-al-trattamento-silenzioso-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/\">il trattamento del silenzio.<\/a><\/li><li>They never own up to their shit. The blame always falls on somebody else\u2019s shoulders and they will make sure never to be responsible for any shit they cause. They are masters of covering their tracks.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. I narcisisti possono diventare aggressivi molto rapidamente.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41980\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If they don\u2019t have their way, they can turn violent just like that. Narcissists are known to be abusive to their partners and don\u2019t even recognize it as bad behavior. To them, you provoked them, therefore you got yours.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If their partner doesn\u2019t please their every need, they may resort to domestic violence. And if your narcissist possesses any of these problematic traits, the chances of him turning hostile are higher than in any other situation:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Il vostro narcisista soffre di un ego fragile?<\/li><li>Ha l'abitudine di usare chi gli sta vicino per il proprio tornaconto egoistico?<\/li><li>Manca di empatia?<\/li><li>Si sente superiore a voi e a chiunque altro intorno a lui?<\/li><li>Il suo comportamento \u00e8 spaventoso e spesso difficile da decifrare?<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you have answered yes to the majority of these, it is probable that things may take a turn for the worse and sooner than you think. Don\u2019t let your fear keep you with him. If he hasn\u2019t shown signs of major aggression yet, take it as your chance to leave and never look back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui un narcisista non pu\u00f2 durare a lungo in una relazione\" class=\"wp-image-41992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Among a multitude of undesirable attributes, all narcissists have yet another thing in common. Whether they are aware of it or not, they are simply not made for long-term relationships. In their twisted mind, there is nothing they can do wrong. If you asked your narcissist, he would probably insist that his relationships with his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":41989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1064722256.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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