{"id":4205,"date":"2017-09-07T09:48:33","date_gmt":"2017-09-07T09:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4205"},"modified":"2022-10-11T22:05:14","modified_gmt":"2022-10-11T22:05:14","slug":"il-lato-brutto-di-farsi-amare-dalluomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-lato-brutto-di-farsi-amare-dalluomo\/","title":{"rendered":"Il lato brutto di dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When we first enter a relationship, we build bridges and we try to connect with our chosen person in every possible way we can. When we end a relationship, we burn those same bridges and we cut our ways to that person so we won\u2019t have the temptation of reaching to our past.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to go back, you don\u2019t want to relive your past, and you don\u2019t want him back. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/please-dont-go-back-one-abandoned\/\">Il tuo ritorno da lui \u00e8 fuori discussione.<\/a> La determinazione che avete nel non tornare dal vostro ex e nel dimenticarlo dovrebbe essere ammirata, ma c'\u00e8 un'altra storia da raccontare. Quello che si tende a dimenticare \u00e8 che il processo di dimenticarsi di qualcuno \u00e8 pieno di sentimenti e ricordi.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato negativo del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo sono tutti quei ricordi che si condividono.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Regardless of how long your relationship lasted, there are memories that remind you that it happened. No matter how many bad moments there might have been, they don\u2019t make those pretty ones vanish, and those nice memories you got are the biggest problem here. They keep coming to your door while you\u2019re trying to cut all strings you have with your past.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/9-things-breakup-pick-move\/\">9 cose da fare dopo una rottura per risollevarsi e andare avanti<\/a><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato negativo del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo sono i continui ricordi di ci\u00f2 che significava per l'altro.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Everywhere you turn, there is a little part of him staring at you. Even if he\u2019s not really present around you anymore, your mind and your heart make you feel like he\u2019s there.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato negativo del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo \u00e8 la lotta per liberarsi delle abitudini sviluppate durante la relazione.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You catch yourself often staring at your phone\u2014with his name ready in your contacts\u2014and you need just a small push to call him and tell him how your day went. You wake up and check your phone to see if there is a good morning message from him, and you have trouble falling asleep because you always waited for him to wish you goodnight before going to sleep. Those messages are never coming, but you still keep waiting from them unconsciously.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ways-youre-making-fking-hard-get\/\">Ways You\u2019re Making Yourself F**king Hard To Get Over Him<\/a><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato negativo del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo sono tutte quelle domande che la gente ti fa su di lui.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Since you broke up, you\u2019ve been working your ass off to just continue your life, and you just wish to forget the feelings you had for him. But how could you do that when there are people constantly reminding you of what you had? How could you do that when people are constantly invading your privacy while they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-mi-fissa-cosi-intensamente\/\">fissarti<\/a> aspettando di vedere qualsiasi segno di emozione che possa rivelare che provi ancora qualcosa per lui?<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato brutto del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava un tempo sono le canzoni che si ascoltavano insieme.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sometimes, you wish to dance to the songs you two listened to together, but emotions keep you from doing that. Sometimes, you wish to play the song you really like, but you can\u2019t because that song was playing when he first kissed you. And what about those songs that remind you of him? It\u2019s better not to go there.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>The ugly side of getting over the man you once loved is all those \u201cwhat if\u201d questions.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4207 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140.jpg\" alt=\"Donna che guarda l&#039;orizzonte\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/noorulabdeen-ahmad-353140-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>These are not questions other people ask you\u2014\u2018what if\u2019 is the type of question you keep asking yourself. What would happen if you had done something differently? What would happen if you called him? What if he still has feelings for me? What if he didn\u2019t mean all those things he said? What if we had fought harder for what we had? The list of these questions is never ending and the ugliest part of it is you won\u2019t get a single answer to any of them.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Il lato negativo del dimenticare l'uomo che si amava \u00e8 il tempo.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You need time to get over him. You need to get used to the reality that he&#8217;s no longer around and that you can&#8217;t rely on him anymore. The ugly part is that the feelings don&#8217;t go away overnight. The good part is that the feelings go away with time\u2014so you do get to move on.<\/p>\n<p>Moving on and getting over the man you once loved will be the hardest thing you&#8217;ll have to do in life. But you have to wake up each morning and continue your life without him. It&#8217;s easier said than done, but let time heal your wounds. Allow yourself to be sad. Allow yourself to be angry and then allow yourself to let go. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/effettivamente-guadagnato-perdendo\/\">One day, you&#8217;ll wake up free.<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we first enter a relationship, we build bridges and we try to connect with our chosen person in every possible way we can. When we end a relationship, we burn those same bridges and we cut our ways to that person so we won\u2019t have the temptation of reaching to our past. You don\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":4206,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/aily-torres-19206.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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