{"id":42224,"date":"2019-08-20T11:06:32","date_gmt":"2019-08-20T11:06:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42224"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:59:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:59:42","slug":"12-cose-che-ho-deciso-di-fare-mentre-aspetto-la-mia-persona-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-cose-che-ho-deciso-di-fare-mentre-aspetto-la-mia-persona-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"12 cose che ho deciso di fare mentre aspetto la mia persona per sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. First of all, I\u2019m not going to go on a hunt.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non ho intenzione di ossessionarmi sul fatto che stia arrivando o meno. \u00c8 dietro l'angolo?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quanto tempo ci vorr\u00e0 prima di poterlo incontrare? Sono giorni o anni che mi separano da lui? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Who cares! It\u2019s true what they say. Your forever person will elegantly walk into your life the moment you stop trying to find him. And that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m going to do. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. I\u2019ve decided to embrace my single life and make the most of it!<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I\u2019m going to party and do whatever the hell I want because there is no going back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I don\u2019t want to end up old and bitter because I didn\u2019t try everything I wanted while I was young. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being single is awesome. I\u2019m going to enjoy it while I can.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. I\u2019m going to hang out with myself for a while.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The best company I can sometimes get is myself. I\u2019m going to treat myself to a dinner and a movie, I\u2019m going to go for a stroll in the woods or on the beach.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m going to walk in the pouring rain. I\u2019m going to sing in the shower, even though I\u2019m tone-deaf. I want to make my life interesting and fun to live.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. I\u2019ve committed to love myself more.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I\u2019ve always wondered why there is no luck in my love life. I\u2019ve always wondered how I manage to sooner or later screw everything up. Well, I got the answer to that one, alright!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non mi sono mai amata veramente. Non sono mai stata veramente soddisfatta di me stessa, del mio aspetto e dell'impressione generale che gli altri hanno di me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quello che pensano gli altri \u00e8 sempre stato cos\u00ec importante che ho perso il mio vero io nel tentativo di piacere a tutti gli altri.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fuck that! Now I know I\u2019m interesting just the way I am. Now I understand that I have to love myself for who I am in order to ever be able to love someone else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. I\u2019ve chosen to give true love a chance.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sono sempre stato troppo scettico sull'esistenza del vero amore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I never really believed that something like that could ever happen to me, or to anyone else. I mean, it\u2019s the love you see in movies; it\u2019s fake and too perfect. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Prima era cos\u00ec, ma ora ho capito che il vero amore pu\u00f2 esistere se ci si crede.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Perch\u00e9 sarebbe cos\u00ec ridicolo supporre che esista una persona che si adatta a me in quasi tutti i modi possibili? Qualcuno che si divertir\u00e0 a passare del tempo con me, qualcuno che sar\u00f2 in grado di rendere felice?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. I\u2019m going to build myself to become the person I always wanted to be.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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This time there\u2019ll be no distractions. Nothing will keep me from becoming who I want to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m going to meditate and devote a lot more time to myself than I\u2019ve done thus far.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m going to set up goals and complete each and every one of them. I\u2019m going to challenge myself constantly and I\u2019m never going to give up!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. I\u2019m going to take responsibility for my life.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

My life is a creation on the move. Every day I\u2019m creating something new. Every day is different from the day before.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And I\u2019m responsible for everything that happens because I\u2019m the creator of my future. I call all the shots. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. I\u2019ve decided to do things I\u2019ve never done before.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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There is no point living life if you don\u2019t dare to do things you’ve never done before, maybe because you\u2019re scared and you haven\u2019t had the courage to do anything to bring some excitement to your life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, I decided to dare life and take on all the challenges it throws at me \u2013 as long as they are within reason of common sense. That\u2019s where I draw the line. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. I\u2019m going to ignore the ugly feeling of jealousy.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, fuck it! I AM a human being after all. I can\u2019t just switch off my feelings and pretend they aren\u2019t there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vede, anch'io ho amici che hanno gi\u00e0 trovato la loro persona per sempre e, devo ammettere, una parte di me \u00e8 un po' gelosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Yes, a bit of jealousy hasn\u2019t hurt anyone, but I\u2019m going to learn to control that feeling when it rears its ugly head\u2013 it\u2019s only making me feel worse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. I\u2019m not going to rush anywhere with my life.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I\u2019m going to enjoy one day at a time \u2013 not wait anxiously for the next period of my life to begin.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Life is now, at this moment, and I\u2019m going to enjoy it! I don\u2019t want to wake up one day and regret not living the life the way I wanted when I still could.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

11. I\u2019ve resolved to take care of my mental health.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dopo tutto questo tempo, ho capito che il mio stato mentale vale il mio tempo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019ve realized that I need to take care of myself and prepare myself for life\u2019s challenges. If a battle starts and I\u2019m not ready, I\u2019m going down from the first bullet. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, d'ora in poi, metto me stessa al primo posto e il mio lavoro pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 diventare la versione migliore di me stessa che posso essere.   <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

12. I\u2019m going to work on my relationships with other people.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I want to become more approachable. I want to help more people and create great contacts with every person I meet. So when I meet the person of my dreams, he\u2019ll fall in love right that second, as will I.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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1. First of all, I\u2019m not going to go on a hunt. I\u2019m not going to obsess about whether or not he\u2019s coming. Is he around the corner? How long will it take before I get to meet him? Are days or years keeping me apart from him?  Who cares! It\u2019s true what they say….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":42239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42224","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1097408837.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42224"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42224\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}