{"id":42589,"date":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","date_gmt":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42589"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","slug":"5-segni-di-un-amore-da-adulti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-di-un-amore-da-adulti\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segni di un amore \"adulto"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you were a kid, the idea of love was probably a fantasy you didn\u2019t know much about, except from what you saw from your parents and Disney movies you watched.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da adolescente, probabilmente vedevi l'amore in modo un po' diverso e sognavi di incontrare il tuo persona per sempre<\/a> in school, hoping you\u2019d be able to tell your kids all about how their parents were high-school sweethearts who withstood the test of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now, you know that love isn\u2019t as movie-like as you imagined it to be way back when and meeting your soulmate is a little more complicated than that. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you just hope that you meet a guy who will be exactly what he appears to be\u2014honest, kind and open to love. A guy who will treat you with respect and prioritize you at all times.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you don\u2019t need that love from the movies. You know that\u2019s not real. You just want to know that the guy you\u2019re with isn\u2019t playing games and cares for you the way you do for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re with a guy who you feel is your forever person, the following 5 signs will probably make you that much more sure of your relationship, as they are all clear indicators that you finally have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 love we all eventually long to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Le vostre priorit\u00e0 sono completamente cambiate<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Quando eravate pi\u00f9 giovani, probabilmente volevate solo un fidanzato sexy con un corpo da urlo, da esibire con orgoglio e godervi il fatto di essere riuscite ad agganciarlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But now, all that is lower on your priority list. You understand now that life doesn\u2019t work that way and appearances are most definitely not everything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you found a guy who you actually liked and who was at the same time good-looking, you know that it doesn\u2019t guarantee anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Solo il tempo ci dir\u00e0 se \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec bravo come sembra sulla carta. Perch\u00e9 ora apprezzate un cuore gentile e un uomo onesto al di sopra di qualsiasi altro aspetto superficiale che prima desideravate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Ora vedete la differenza <\/strong>tra lussuria e amore<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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All'inizio di ogni relazione, un po' di lussuria \u00e8 sempre ben accetta. Significa che tra voi due c'\u00e8 un'innegabile chimica sessuale, il che \u00e8 sempre una gran cosa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E quando eravate pi\u00f9 giovani, probabilmente questo era tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avevate bisogno e che volevate da un amante. Ma ora vi rendete conto che avete bisogno di un legame pi\u00f9 profondo, che vada oltre il desiderio sessuale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important, for sure, but in order for a relationship to last, there has to be a real connection with your partner that is about love, life and your mutual plans for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t sustain a healthy long-term commitment that is based solely on sex. That\u2019s not love and now you know that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Il vostro futuro comune \u00e8 diventato pi\u00f9 importante delle vostre esigenze individuali.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Ora vedete che per far prosperare e sostenere questo bellissimo amore che avete con il tuo uomo<\/a>Sia le vostre esigenze che i vostri desideri devono avere la stessa importanza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le vostre esigenze passano in secondo piano, perch\u00e9 vi rendete conto che il compromesso \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi spinge ad andare avanti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You used to think that what you wanted was of the utmost importance and if a guy couldn\u2019t handle it and please your every need, it was time to call it quits. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E nessuno ti biasima, tutti noi abbiamo avuto le nostre priorit\u00e0 stravolte in giovane et\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The important thing is that now you see that your partner\u2019s needs are just as important and finding a common ground will help you maintain this love you now share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.\u00a0You have started thinking more long-term<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Vi piace la situazione in cui vi trovate ora e le cose stanno andando molto bene, ma perch\u00e9 rimanga cos\u00ec, sapete che dovete iniziare a pensare a come muovervi se questa \u00e8 una cosa a lungo termine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You keep finding yourself thinking about where you\u2019ll be in a few years and how things will turn out for you two. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siete concentrati sul dare sempre all'altro ci\u00f2 di cui ciascuno ha bisogno e sull'essere un partner veramente presente e impegnato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sapete che le cose che vi terranno insieme si basano sul compromesso e siete irremovibili nell'essere sempre presenti per il vostro partner e nell'ascoltare le sue esigenze per trovare la cosa migliore per entrambi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>You know it\u2019s not always going to be perfect and you\u2019re okay with that<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Now that you\u2019ve finally found l'amore della tua vita<\/a>, you know that it\u2019s not always going to be sunshine and rainbows. You know that it\u2019s childish to expect things to always be perfect and nothing ever to go wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been together long enough and you\u2019ve been through a lot together as a couple, so you know that life will sometimes throw you a curveball. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma a differenza di tutti gli altri ragazzi con cui sei uscita, sai che per questo vale la pena lottare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pretendere che le cose siano sempre perfette \u00e8 inverosimile e sapete che tutto ci\u00f2 che potete fare \u00e8 essere presenti l'uno per l'altro e cercare sempre di capire da dove viene il vostro partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been through too much to give up at the first sight of trouble. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now that you know you have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 type of love that everybody is dreaming of, be sure to nurture it and cherish it. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo amore \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi manterr\u00e0 sani di mente in questo mondo di imprevedibilit\u00e0.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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