{"id":42622,"date":"2019-09-04T10:51:16","date_gmt":"2019-09-04T10:51:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42622"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:03","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:03","slug":"8-cose-da-fare-quando-si-beve-e-si-compone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-cose-da-fare-quando-si-beve-e-si-compone\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cose da fare quando si \"beve e si compone"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bere e mandare messaggi \u00e8 un problema. Ma bere e telefonare \u00e8 una ricetta per una vera catastrofe (almeno nella mente di chi lo fa).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s interesting how we\u2019re rarely tempted to do certain things when we\u2019re sober but when alcohol kicks in, we find ourself doing things we never imagined doing beforehand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And after you\u2019ve done it, you feel like the only thing you can do is recall the shameful event and pray to God that they didn\u2019t take you seriously. You swear that you\u2019ll never get drunk again and you\u2019ll get rid of your phone for good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But we all know that these are lies and the chance that you\u2019re going to repeat the same mistake is pretty high. But even if it comes to this again, there are some things that can help you cope with this act of incidental embarrassment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ricordare l'atto vergognoso<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 cercare di ricordare ogni singola parola detta al telefono ieri sera. So che tutto sar\u00e0 confuso nella vostra testa, ma sforzatevi di pensare a ogni singolo dettaglio accaduto ieri sera e questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a ricordare anche la telefonata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In order to deal with the issue, first, you need to understand the situation and then cope with it. And you need to understand that it\u2019s not the end of the world, whatever you\u2019ve said to them, and you shouldn\u2019t punish yourself for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Effettuare una valutazione<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Once you\u2019ve recalled the \u2018sinful\u2019 act, it\u2019s time for an evaluation. Pay attention to the context of your words and whether you\u2019ve offended them in one way or another. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you realize that what you\u2019ve done is not that bad after all, you\u2019ve got nothing to worry about. Just forget about it and move on with your life as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Mandare un messaggio<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re not sure whether you\u2019ve done something wrong or not, you can always text them in order to test it. Ask something unrelated to your call and wait for them to text you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they don\u2019t reply immediately, don\u2019t start panicking because this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that they are mad. Perhaps they\u2019re occupied with something else at that moment. Be patient and play it smart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Considerare la possibilit\u00e0 di scusarsi, se necessario<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If they text you back or you\u2019ve somehow figured it out on your own that you fucked it up last night, consider apologizing. You can call them again (but make sure that you\u2019re sober this time) and simply explain that you didn\u2019t mean the things you said to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure they\u2019ll be more than happy to accept the apology and they will understand the situation. After all, I\u2019m sure they\u2019ve done the same thing when they were drunk and they have no reason\u00a0 to blame you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Lasciare il passato<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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After you\u2019ve apologized to them, leave this thing in the past. Even if you didn\u2019t apologize, there\u2019s no need to overthink the same situation again and again because nothing good will come of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Know that shit happens and it\u2019s totally normal to commettere errori<\/a> from time to time and that doesn\u2019t make you sinful. You\u2019re a human being just like everyone else and you\u2019re allowed to fail and rise, fail again and so on. You\u2019re allowed to learn from your mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Chiedere aiuto agli amici<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re afraid that you\u2019re going to repeat the same thing once you get drunk in the future, ask your friends to keep an eye on you when you\u2019re in the act of drinking and having fun with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potete anche chiedere loro di togliervi il telefono per qualche ora, in modo da essere sicuri che non sarete tentati di comporre quel numero sfortunato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Liberare la mente<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Assicuratevi inoltre che la vostra mente sia priva di sensi di colpa o di emozioni represse<\/a> and that nothing\u2019s bothering you because when we drink, we do the things we\u2019re afraid of doing when we\u2019re sober.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have some issues with someone or with yourself, make sure that you deal with them when you\u2019re sober so that they don\u2019t reappear every time you get drunk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Bloccarli e cancellare il loro numero dal telefono<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Se tutto il resto fallisce, prendete in considerazione l'idea di bloccarli sui social network e di cancellare il loro numero di telefono. Sapete come si dice, \u2018out of sight, out of mind\u2019<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you\u2019ve deleted or blocked them, just keep being persistent not to unblock them because that way you\u2019ll never break free from the curse called \u2018Drink and Dial\u2019. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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