Avete presente quello che vi fa perdere la testa e vi fa formicolare la pelle?<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n That\u2019s the one. And this guy was something special. He knew just what to say and how to treat me, and I felt like this was the one for me, no doubt about it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Anche se all'epoca ero in difficolt\u00e0 (una leggera dipendenza dall'alcol e una situazione di vita non proprio ideale), decisi che ero pronto per la vita. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Sentivo di aver incontrato l'uomo con cui avrei dovuto passare l'eternit\u00e0, nonostante gli ovvi segnali di allarme (che erano soprattutto da parte mia).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n See, I was in no place for a stable, healthy, love story. I wasn\u2019t equipped to deal with that all-encompassing love that takes you for a spin and makes you want to commit for life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Ero un pasticcio caldo.<\/a> Ero in una situazione cos\u00ec brutta che anche il solo pensiero di prendermi cura di una relazione mi faceva girare la testa, ma mi sono illusa di essere all'altezza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I went against myself and ignored all of his pleas to get help. I just thought I knew best. In my head \u2013 I was fine. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Who doesn\u2019t drink every now and then? So what if I couldn\u2019t find a permanent place to live? Isn\u2019t that the way it\u2019s supposed to be when you\u2019re young?<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n But it wasn\u2019t, and it took me a few years to come to terms with it. I thought I knew what I was doing. I thought I could flip a switch inside of me just like that and make everything okay\u2026 but I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Inutile dire che la mia relazione si \u00e8 sgretolata prima di avere la possibilit\u00e0 di fiorire. Non abbiamo mai avuto una possibilit\u00e0. Vorrei solo essermene resa conto prima.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Devo dire che \u00e8 stata una pillola difficile da ingoiare, ma era necessario che accadesse per farmi acquisire questa prospettiva tanto necessaria.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Now I know that God is the only one who knows what I need. And He won\u2019t show it to me until He knows that I am ready. And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Perch\u00e9, in tutta onest\u00e0, cosa sappiamo davvero della vita e dell'amore? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n You learn as you go. You make your mistakes, and only after you\u2019ve learned from those mistakes does God show you the one you\u2019re destinato ad essere<\/a> con.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I know it might seem a bit harsh, but that\u2019s the truth. I\u2019ve stopped thinking I know everything. I\u2019ve stopped believing that I know what\u2019s best. I don\u2019t, and it feels so good to be able to say that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n It\u2019s all in God\u2019s hands. And trust me \u2013 He knows what He\u2019s doing.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n At times it might feel like you\u2019re lost. And in those times, you need to keep your faith that this is the path you need to walk in order to make your mistake and learn a valuable lesson from it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Quando smetterete di vedere i vostri errori come qualcosa di negativo e comincerete a trattarli come esperienze di apprendimento, le cose cominceranno ad andare meglio per voi. Per me \u00e8 stato cos\u00ec.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n![\"Dio](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1100960654.jpg\")
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