{"id":43273,"date":"2019-09-20T08:58:28","date_gmt":"2019-09-20T08:58:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43273"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:26:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:26:06","slug":"6-tratti-enfatici-che-vi-rendono-irresistibili-per-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-tratti-enfatici-che-vi-rendono-irresistibili-per-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"6 tratti enfatici che vi rendono irresistibili per un narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ci si libera di un narcisista e presto ci si ritrova in una relazione con un altro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You start believing that only narcissists are what are left of living creatures on earth and that\u2019s why you meet only them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You lose all hope of ever meeting someone normal (it doesn\u2019t even have to be that famous, unicorn \u201creal man\u201d<\/a>) who will treat you the way you deserve, respect you, and won\u2019t play the fucking games with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And every time you think you\u2019ve finally met the right one, it turns out that he\u2019s a narcissistic manipulator in disguise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi suona familiare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next step is accusing yourself of bad decisions and making poor choices in men, but what you probably didn\u2019t know is that it\u2019s no coincidence that you\u2019re a magnet for these toxic, narcissistic manipulators. These 6 emphatic traits make you simply irresistible to them:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Vi fidate naturalmente di tutti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You don\u2019t divide people into two categories: those who cannot be trusted and those who need to earn your trust. You\u2019re somewhere in between the two because you naturally trust everyone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You believe that others will treat you with respect, just as you do yourself, and that they won\u2019t do any harm to you (mentally or physically).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re naturally trusting because of your pure soul; you always think positively, which is the main reason why you\u2019re the chief target of narcissistic manipulators.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedi anche: Ecco perch\u00e9 un narcisista odia vedervi felici<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Credete nella reciprocit\u00e0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Credete che se trattate qualcuno con rispetto, lo fate sentire speciale e vi impegnate costantemente in una relazione, il vostro partner far\u00e0 la stessa cosa per voi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You believe in reciprocity with your entire being because you don\u2019t know any other way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma i narcisisti credono l'esatto contrario. Abusano della vostra convinzione di reciprocit\u00e0 fingendo di volere la stessa cosa e di essere disposti a fare uno sforzo e a ricambiare (almeno all'inizio di una relazione).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Non ci si arrende mai cos\u00ec facilmente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"6<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You see good in others and you don\u2019t give up at the first small obstacle. You don\u2019t throw in the towel even if someone hurts you once, twice \u2013perhaps multiple times. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La vostra determinazione a non arrendervi mai cos\u00ec facilmente nella vita e nelle relazioni \u00e8 come una droga per un manipolatore narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si divertono a ferirvi e a manipolarvi e sono ancora pi\u00f9 eccitati quando sanno che non vi arrenderete tanto facilmente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si divertono a vedervi soffrire e poi tornare da loro come se nulla fosse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You\u2019re honest and compassionate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You\u2019re like an open book to everyone because you\u2019re not afraid to speak your mind and you have nothing to hide. You\u2019re not afraid to be vulnerable in front of others, even though you know they could use it against you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re also compassionate to the core. You feel other people\u2019s pain and you always want to be with them and help them at any cost. Narcissists know all of this; they also know that honesty and compassion are two vulnerable traits to have, which is precisely why they exploit them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everything you say to narcissists, they will use against you and somehow you\u2019ll keep being compassionate with them, despite them hurting you. That\u2019s why you\u2019re their key target.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedi anche: 5 modi a prova di bomba per tenere i narcisisti fuori dalla vostra vita<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Amate incondizionatamente<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Amate incondizionatamente. You have a big heart that\u2019s been broken many times<\/a>, but you still don\u2019t lose hope for better days. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You still care more about others than yourself. You still care more about other people\u2019s happiness than your own. And narcissists are fully aware of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They know that no matter what they did to you, you won\u2019t judge them or accuse them of being assholes. They know that you\u2019ll show compassion and always forgive them, no matter what they\u2019ve done to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Usano i vostri tratti innocenti ed empatici a loro vantaggio e fingono di adorarli, mentre elaborano un piano perfetto per il loro gioco tossico e manipolativo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Avete un forte desiderio di guarire gli altri e di aggiustare le persone.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Avete un forte desiderio di curare gli altri e di aggiustarli, se necessario, perch\u00e9 credete che chiunque possa cambiare se solo lo aiutate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E questo lo sanno anche i narcisisti. Sono molto abili nell'agganciare l'interlocutore stronzi immaturi e manipolatori<\/a> che hanno bisogno della vostra assistenza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non sono mai stati n\u00e9 saranno disposti a cambiare. Questo \u00e8 solo uno strumento che fa guadagnare loro tempo per potervi manipolare pi\u00f9 a lungo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The plain fact is that you cannot change anyone unless they themselves are willing to change \u2013 this applies to narcissistic manipulators too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You get rid of one narcissist and soon you find yourself in a relationship with another one. You start believing that only narcissists are what are left of living creatures on earth and that\u2019s why you meet only them. You lose all hope of ever meeting someone normal (it doesn\u2019t even have to be that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":43280,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_600311720.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43273"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43273\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}