{"id":43411,"date":"2019-09-25T18:14:44","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T18:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43411"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:16:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:16:35","slug":"non-so-se-ti-ho-mai-amato-o-se-ero-solo-innamorato-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-so-se-ti-ho-mai-amato-o-se-ero-solo-innamorato-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Non so se ti ho mai amato o se ero solo innamorato di te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Si potrebbe pensare che essere innamorati di qualcuno e amare qualcuno siano esattamente la stessa cosa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But actually, they\u2019re not. Those two terms are related, but that doesn\u2019t mean they are interchangeable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando si \u00e8 innamorati di qualcuno, ci si sente in cima al mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Si sentono le farfalle per tutto il tempo e si attraversano le montagne russe delle emozioni.<\/p>\n<p>You are constantly excited about this person, and you can\u2019t keep your hands off them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43416 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7185495641.jpg\" alt=\"Una coppia felice si diverte per le strade della citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7185495641.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7185495641-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7185495641-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are always scared that you\u2019ll lose them, and you are more likely to be jealous without any apparent reason.<\/p>\n<p>Queste sono tutte le emozioni che si provano all'inizio, quando si incontra per la prima volta una persona nuova e quando questa ci lascia a bocca aperta.<\/p>\n<p><b>D'altra parte, amare qualcuno \u00e8 completamente diverso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/so-che-innamorarsi-fa-paura-ma-con-luomo-giusto-ne-varra-la-pena\/\"><b>Innamorarsi<\/b><\/a><b> di solito avviene da un giorno all'altro, mentre la crescita dell'amore per qualcuno \u00e8 un processo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quando si ama qualcuno, questa persona \u00e8 quella che ci rende tranquilli.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the person you can be yourself around, the person who has seen you at your best and at your worst.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the person you trust and someone you can spend an entire day with without saying a word.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your home and your peaceful harbor.<\/p>\n<p>Nella maggior parte dei casi, si cresce e si ama qualcuno, ed \u00e8 un sentimento che rimane dentro di noi, anche quando tutte le farfalle dello stomaco sono volate via.<\/p>\n<p>And if nothing remains when the initial excitement goes away, it means that this wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n<p>At least, it wasn\u2019t true love.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43417 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471.jpg\" alt=\" Bella coppia giovane che lega e sorride mentre \u00e8 seduta in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>They say you can fall in love numerous times but that you don\u2019t grow to love every person you fall in love with.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And whenever I think of you, I don\u2019t know which of these things I felt. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tutti, compresa tu, sanno quanto fossi pazzo di te.<\/p>\n<p>It is a well-known fact that I was ready to do whatever it took just to be with you and that I\u2019ve made a lot of sacrifices for your sake.<\/p>\n<p>You know very well that I\u2019ve always acted like I couldn\u2019t live without you and that you were the only person who could have made me happy.<\/p>\n<p><b>That had to be love, right? But what if it wasn\u2019t?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> What if I\u2019ve never loved you, and what if I\u2019ve been in love with you for all this time?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che noi due abbiamo passato anni insieme.<\/p>\n<p>And you will probably think that it\u2019s impossible to be in love with someone you have been with for that long.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 anche che non ti ho mai avuto completamente.<\/p>\n<p>Siamo sempre stati un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-am-done-with-this-on-and-off-thing-i-can-walk-away-too\/\">accendere e spegnere la cosa<\/a>e io ti ho sempre inseguito.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non abbiamo mai trascorso una quantit\u00e0 di tempo decente insieme, senza alcuna tensione.<\/p>\n<p>Non ho mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di vedere se mi sarei stufato di te.<\/p>\n<p><b>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non sei mai rimasta con me per darmi la possibilit\u00e0 di capire se ti amavo davvero o se tutto questo era dovuto al mio ego.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Was all of this actually passion I couldn\u2019t control and which I\u2019ve mistaken for love?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43418 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7051884311.jpg\" alt=\"La coppia felice \u00e8 sdraiata a letto insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7051884311.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7051884311-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_7051884311-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ho fatto tutte le cose che ho fatto perch\u00e9 dovevo dimostrare a me stesso che posso sempre averti, a prescindere da tutto?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 dovevo dimostrare a me stesso di essere speciale per te?<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 dovevo dimostrare a me stessa che mi amavi?<\/p>\n<p>Se ci penso bene, ho passato la maggior parte della nostra relazione ad analizzare i tuoi sentimenti per me.<\/p>\n<p>Ero sempre cos\u00ec concentrato su di te e su ci\u00f2 che provavi per me che sono riuscito a trascurare completamente me stesso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se ci penso bene, non mi sono mai fermata a riflettere sui miei sentimenti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> I\u2019ve never once asked myself if this was the real deal and if I really loved you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A dire il vero, si \u00e8 sempre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ne-ho-abbastanza-di-te-che-te-ne-vai-e-torni\/\">lasciandomi e tornando da me<\/a> didn\u2019t give me a chance to reconsider my emotions.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43419 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_5875167891.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia che balla insieme all&#039;aperto al tramonto \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_5875167891.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_5875167891-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_5875167891-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Noi due eravamo sempre in procinto di lasciarci o di tornare insieme.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Entrambe le situazioni mi hanno sempre consumato al punto che non ho mai avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di riflettere seriamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And maybe that is why you\u2019ve always remained so special for me\u2014because I could never figure you out, and I could never figure out myself, when I was with you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-43427\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel4-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Non so se ti ho mai amato o se ero solo innamorato di te\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel4-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel4-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel4-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel4.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People might think that being in love with someone and loving someone are exactly the same thing. But actually, they\u2019re not. Those two terms are related, but that doesn\u2019t mean they are interchangeable. When you are in love with someone, you feel like you are on top of the world. You feel butterflies all the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":43415,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_3916630601.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43411"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43411\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}