{"id":43439,"date":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43439"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","slug":"basta-con-i-giochi-mentali-per-una-volta-siamo-reali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/basta-con-i-giochi-mentali-per-una-volta-siamo-reali\/","title":{"rendered":"Basta con i giochi mentali: per una volta siamo realistici"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non voglio indovinare cosa sta succedendo nel tuo cuore.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to studiare il proprio comportamento <\/a>verso di me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know.<\/p>\n

I want to know whether we are on the same page or not, that\u2019s all. <\/p>\n

Fidati, qualsiasi cosa tu dica di provare andr\u00e0 bene per me.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Even if you give me an answer I wasn\u2019t hoping for, even if it\u2019s bad news and you are not into me as much as I am into you, I will make my peace with it. I promise I will. <\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 anche la verit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 dolorosa \u00e8 meno dolorosa dei giochi mentali. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to pretend like you care if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want hot and cold games.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to share my soul with you one day and pretend like we don\u2019t know each other the next. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want your lips imprinted on mine if you have no plans to stay.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be your emergency call when you are in need of some tender love and care.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be there only when it\u2019s convenient, and you have nothing better to do. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to get my hopes up just so you could crush them.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to chase you if you are not chasing me back. <\/p>\n

Al diavolo tutti i giochi mentali.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had enough of sleepless nights because of uncertainties I was living in.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve spilled enough tears because of men who weren’t genuine and honest. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to be one of them. I don\u2019t want you to be my \u2018almost love\u2019.<\/p>\n

Non sto dicendo che dobbiamo capire subito se siamo fatti l'uno per l'altra.<\/b><\/p>\n

Voglio semplicemente sapere che siete disposti a fare una prova. <\/b><\/p>\n

Voglio una relazione che scorra lentamente.<\/p>\n

Una vera e propria, composta da due persone che investono allo stesso modo e si impegnano allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n

Two people engaged in each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

Due persone che si mandano messaggi ogni giorno, che vogliono passare spesso del tempo insieme. <\/p>\n

Le etichette sono importanti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even try to sell me some shitty story about how we know what we have, and it\u2019s nobody else’s business.<\/p>\n

Il fatto che ci prendiamo cura l'uno dell'altro e che abbiamo una relazione \u00e8 qualcosa che tutti intorno a noi dovrebbero sapere. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t do games. I am a terrible player. I am too sincere for that. <\/b><\/p>\n

Non sono bravo nelle tattiche. Odio tenere traccia di chi ha chiamato per primo.<\/p>\n

Odio fare il freddo quando \u00e8 evidente che ho una cotta per te.<\/p>\n

Sembra una perdita di tempo e di energia. <\/p>\n

I never play mind games because I\u2019ve been on the other side.<\/p>\n

Sono stato preso in giro e so quanto fa male.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve invested so much into someone who never really made me a part of his life. <\/p>\n

I was always kept at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n

Ricevevo pezzi e pezzetti mentre davo tutta la mia anima in quella quasi relazione. <\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

I was living in hope that something will change, that he\u2019ll see my worth, that he\u2019ll feel my love because he was giving me just enough of his attention and affection to make me hold on but never enough to call me his. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to go through that again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to do that to anyone else either.<\/p>\n

It seems so cruel to play games with someone\u2019s heart. <\/p>\n

My heart is not a toy. My feelings aren\u2019t something to be messed with. <\/b><\/p>\n

Non permetter\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9 a nessuno di mi ha fatto da filo da torcere<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If I learn right from the start that there isn\u2019t even a prospect of a relationship there, I am out. <\/p>\n

Devo proteggere il mio cuore dalla rottura.<\/p>\n

Devo proteggere la mia anima dal soffrire invano.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I refuse to deal with anything half-assed in this life, especially love. <\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, siate sinceri con me. <\/b><\/p>\n

Siate la boccata d'aria fresca in questo deserto pieno di uomini falsi.<\/p>\n

Siate onesti con me fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n

Ditemi cosa pensate di me.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trick me into thinking you care if you don\u2019t. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow me to wait for your text for days.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t treat me as a stop along the way and drop by only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

Fare uno sforzo. Siate vicini. Siate sinceri nelle vostre intenzioni verso di me. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all I am asking. Either you are in this with me or you are out.<\/p>\n

Non ci sono vie di mezzo.<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 troppo breve per questo, e per quanto tu mi piaccia, il rispetto che ho per me stesso \u00e8 pi\u00f9 grande. <\/p>\n

Mettete tutto sul tavolo. Il buono, il cattivo e il brutto.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec so qual \u00e8 la mia posizione. Cos\u00ec so se possiamo avere qualcosa di concreto.<\/p>\n

\"Basta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t want to guess what\u2019s happening in that heart of yours. I don\u2019t want to study your behavior towards me. I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts. I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know. I want to know whether we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43506,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43439\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}