{"id":43604,"date":"2019-09-26T21:52:47","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T21:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43604"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:09:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:09:45","slug":"solo-perche-si-e-innamorati-non-significa-che-sia-quello-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/solo-perche-si-e-innamorati-non-significa-che-sia-quello-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"Solo perch\u00e9 siete innamorati, non significa che sia quello giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fin da quando eri una bambina, sognavi di trovare il vero amore.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you didn\u2019t want an ordinary kind of love.<\/p>\n

Volevate un amore totalizzante, senza tempo, che durasse tutta la vita.<\/p>\n

Un tipo di amore che ha il potere di sconfiggere ogni ostacolo e affrontare ogni sfida.<\/p>\n

Il tipo di amore che si vede nei film e si legge nelle favole.<\/p>\n

You wanted your Prince Charming \u2013 someone who will rock your world and never fail to remind you Come si sentono le farfalle<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And you weren\u2019t ready to settle for less.<\/p>\n

Volevate fuochi d'artificio e passione, non una vita noiosa con qualcuno che sopportate a malapena ma che sulla carta vi va bene.<\/p>\n

Avete rifiutato che la vostra mente vi guidasse in queste questioni di cuore e non avete mai dubitato delle vostre vie.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"il<\/p>\n

Ora, dopo tutto questo tempo, finalmente sentite tutto ci\u00f2 che stavate sognando.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve finally found a man who rocks your world and has awakened every possible emotion inside of you.<\/p>\n

At last you\u2019ve met a man who makes you tremble every time you see him \u2013 one who moves the floor beneath you every time he looks at you and you\u2019re convinced you\u2019ll love for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no doubt \u2013 you\u2019re head over heels for this guy. <\/b><\/p>\n

He makes you feel more alive than ever and you don\u2019t want this sensation to ever stop.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not a little girl anymore and real life is nothing like a fairytale.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, non voler accettare niente di meno del vero amore e cercare il romanticismo \u00e8 fantastico, ma la dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che, a volte, \u00e8 cos\u00ec, l'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente<\/a>, as much as we\u2019d like it to be.<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re in love with a man, it doesn\u2019t make him the right one for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t necessarily make him your soulmate or forever person.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Rifiuto<\/p>\n

That isn\u2019t to say that the two of you will automatically have a happy life together just because you share strong chemistry and intense emotions, nor does it mean that he\u2019s someone you could grow old next to or that you would get along with.<\/p>\n

Mi dispiace rompere la vostra bolla di sapone, ma ci sono cose pi\u00f9 importanti da cercare quando si pianifica un futuro con qualcuno.<\/p>\n

Ci sono molte altre qualit\u00e0 che il vostro uomo giusto dovrebbe avere oltre all'essere amabile.<\/p>\n

Quello che deve fare \u00e8 togliersi gli occhiali da sole colorati di rosa e iniziare a vedere quest'uomo per quello che \u00e8 veramente.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il vostro migliore amico oltre che il vostro amante? \u00c8 affidabile e degno di fiducia?<\/p>\n

Realisticamente, \u00e8 un uomo che ti merita e che pu\u00f2 darti tutto ci\u00f2 di cui hai bisogno?<\/p>\n

Il tipo di uomo che vorreste che vostra figlia o vostra sorella sposasse?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not telling you to look for perfection because something like that doesn\u2019t exist and, let\u2019s face it, you also have your share of flaws.<\/p>\n

That said, your feelings can\u2019t be the only criteria when it comes to choosing your forever person.<\/p>\n

No, you shouldn\u2019t settle for a loveless relationship either just because you think someone is a good catch or he\u2019d suit you well.<\/p>\n

To be honest, a man can be the greatest guy in the world, but if you don\u2019t love him, you\u2019ll never be happy beside him.<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

However, if a man doesn\u2019t respect you as a woman and as his partner, doesn\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices, doesn\u2019t make you feel safe, doesn\u2019t treat you as his equal and, most importantly, if you two aren\u2019t compatible and can\u2019t seem to reach a compromise regarding important life issues, all of your emotions mean nothing because they won\u2019t be able to defeat your differences. <\/b><\/p>\n

In pratica, love is crucial \u2013 nobody can argue with that \u2013 but it can\u2019t make up for everything else. <\/b><\/p>\n

Therefore, if you love a man but don\u2019t have all of the above, I hate to disappoint you, but it\u2019s time to rinunciare a lui<\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s not easy to go against your heart, but trust me, it\u2019s better to do it in time before it becomes too late.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even though it doesn\u2019t seem that way at this moment, I assure you that you will manage to overcome these emotions you\u2019re having right now.<\/p>\n

Not only that, sometime in the future, you\u2019ll be grateful to yourself for making the right choice, if you come to the conclusion that this is not the guy for you.<\/p>\n

And once you find a man with whom you experience both love and compatibility, you\u2019ll be proud of the fact that you were strong enough to defeat yourself, despite it being one of the hardest things you ever had to do.<\/p>\n

\"Solo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ever since you were a little girl, you dreamt of finding true love. Nevertheless, you didn\u2019t want an ordinary kind of love. You wanted an all-consuming, timeless love that lasts a lifetime. A kind of love that has the power to defeat every obstacle and face every challenge. The type of love you saw in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_573172159_800x.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43604"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43604\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}