{"id":43632,"date":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43632"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","slug":"non-mandare-mai-messaggi-al-tuo-ex-di-merda-ma-se-lo-fai-mandagli-uno-di-questi-5-testi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-mandare-mai-messaggi-al-tuo-ex-di-merda-ma-se-lo-fai-mandagli-uno-di-questi-5-testi\/","title":{"rendered":"Non mandare mai un messaggio al tuo ex di merda, ma se lo fai, mandagli uno di questi 5 messaggi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Now, let\u2019s be honest. How many times have you thought of texting your (shitty) ex to tell him everything that\u2019s on your mind and make him feel sorry for not treating you right?<\/p>\n

Una volta di troppo, giusto?<\/p>\n

But at the last second, you decided not to do so because you didn\u2019t have any idea of what to specifically text him because all the words in your head were screaming and you couldn\u2019t pick out the right ones.<\/p>\n

Il giorno dopo, l'impulso a mandargli un messaggio si \u00e8 ripresentato ed \u00e8 diventato ancora pi\u00f9 forte di prima e anche se avete gi\u00e0 letto tonnellate di articoli che sottolineano the importance of the \u2018no contact\u2019 rule<\/a>, you still can\u2019t help but imagine what a relief it would be to make him feel at least a bit of pain that he caused you.<\/p>\n

Ti capisco perfettamente perch\u00e9 una volta ero come te.<\/p>\n

Ero seduta accanto al mio cellulare, scrivendo e cancellando messaggi a ripetizione.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t decide which one to send or whether should I send one at all.<\/p>\n

Poi ho raccolto il coraggio e ho scritto un messaggio perfettamente ragionevole che lo ha fatto sentire una merda e gli ha fatto capire quanto fosse stronzo nei miei confronti.<\/p>\n

In quel momento, mi sono sentita come se avessi finalmente chiuso la questione e potessi continuare a vivere serenamente la mia vita.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se volete far sentire il vostro ex di merda come voi e trovare la vostra pace interiore, prendete in considerazione l'idea di inviargli uno di questi 5 messaggi:<\/p>\n

1. A fargli provare dispiacere per averla data per scontata<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

Volevo solo farti sapere che ero consapevole di tutte le cose di merda che mi hai fatto, ma sono rimasta lo stesso. <\/i><\/p>\n

I stayed because I\u2019m not a coward who gives up at the first obstacle.<\/i><\/p>\n

I believe that there is good in all of us and I wanted to believe that you\u2019d change. But you never did.<\/i><\/p>\n

And even though you replaced my smile with tears, you left me waiting for hours and you broke my heart, I\u2019m still happy with myself that I stayed.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy that I still see good in others and at the same time, I\u2019m sad for you because you\u2019ll never be able to do the same.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. To show him that you\u2019ve never been happier (without him)<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

Mentre camminavo per strada, ho notato il tuo ristorante preferito e ho deciso di ordinare qualcosa come ai vecchi tempi, ma questa volta da solo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Prima non avrei mai osato fare una cosa del genere perch\u00e9 avevo sempre paura di sentirmi sola e che tutto mi ricordasse noi.<\/i><\/p>\n

I was surprised that this didn\u2019t happen! I\u2019ve realized that <\/i>I\u2019ve actually never been happier<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie, the first few days I felt horrible but today I can say for sure that this was the best decision of my life and I\u2019ve never felt calmer or more blissful in my life. <\/i><\/p>\n

Grazie!<\/i><\/p>\n

3. To remind him of all the shitty things he\u2019s said or done to you<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

As I\u2019m writing this, you\u2019re probably devising a plan of how to destroy another innocent human being like you did to me.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably devising the perfect plan of how to steal another human being\u2019s happiness and feed on their selfless love and innocence.<\/i><\/p>\n

I will not tell you not to do it because I know you\u2019d never listen to me but I want you to imagine how it feels to be broken inside, how it feels to be left on your own knowing that tears and sleepless nights are the only friends you have.<\/i><\/p>\n

Can you imagine how it feels to be convinced that you\u2019re <\/i>indegno di amore<\/i><\/a> and that you don\u2019t deserve better treatment than a toxic one?<\/i><\/p>\n

Riuscite a immaginare un cuore che si lacera in migliaia di piccoli pezzi che si disperdono dappertutto?<\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what you did to me and that\u2019s what you\u2019ll probably to do someone else again. <\/i><\/p>\n

But before doing it, think about these words that might save another innocent human\u2019s life.<\/i><\/p>\n

4. Per fargli sapere che ora qualcun altro vi tratta come meritate.<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

I have to admit to you that I was scared that I\u2019d never meet anyone else like you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pensavo che tu fossi la cosa migliore che mi fosse capitata e che nessuno sarebbe mai stato in grado di sostituirti.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ho pensato tutto questo anche se mi hai trattato come un pezzo di merda.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I was blind and a fool to believe that I deserved the treatment you gave me. <\/i><\/p>\n

Mi sbagliavo. E sapete come l'ho capito?<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized it because someone else is treating me the way I deserve.<\/i><\/p>\n

Someone else is showing me what real love really is and I have to admit that I\u2019ve never been happier in my life.<\/i><\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie per non avermi trattato bene, perch\u00e9 finalmente vedo la differenza tra un uomo che \u00e8 degno di stare nella mia vita e uno che non lo \u00e8.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Per fargli sapere che \u00e8 stato solo un errore<\/a> sotto forma di una lezione dolorosa<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

Nel momento in cui ci siamo lasciati, ho pensato che il mio mondo stesse crollando davanti ai miei occhi.<\/i><\/p>\n

Credo di aver avuto bisogno di un po' di tempo per capire che eri solo un errore e una lezione dolorosa che dovevo imparare per aprire gli occhi e rendermi conto di tutto quel tempo, <\/i>I\u2019d been taking my own happiness for granted<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Per quanto possa sembrare strano, voglio ringraziarti per tutte le cose che mi hai fatto, perch\u00e9 mi hanno reso pi\u00f9 forte e coraggioso di prima. <\/i><\/p>\n

Grazie!<\/i><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Potete perdonarlo, ma non permettetegli di tornare nella vostra vita<\/a><\/p>\n

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