{"id":43665,"date":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43665"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","slug":"la-verita-sulla-ragazza-che-ama-sempre-piu-di-quanto-sia-amata-a-sua-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-verita-sulla-ragazza-che-ama-sempre-piu-di-quanto-sia-amata-a-sua-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 sulla ragazza che ama sempre pi\u00f9 di quanto sia amata a sua volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono sempre stata quella ragazza che ha dato il centodieci per cento a qualcuno che mi ha dato meno del cento per cento. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been that girl who had to find a little extra love to compensate for the lack of affection I was given in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying I have never been loved, nor am I saying that I can\u2019t be loved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But what I\u2019ve come to realize recently is that I always have to be the one who gives more because otherwise I fear I would get <\/span>nulla.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

And this is a hard thing to say out loud, which I\u2019m sure anyone who has struggled with this dreadful feeling can understand. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I would never say this to anyone face-to-face. I\u2019m too ashamed that I feel this way.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s my truth and I have to live with it.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if there\u2019s something wrong with me that makes me difficult to love completely and irrevocably\u2026 but it sure as hell feels that way at times.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Anche con il mio ultimo ragazzo \u00e8 stato esattamente cos\u00ec. Sapevo che gli importava in una certa misura. Sapevo che provava qualcosa per me. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I just wasn\u2019t enough. I wasn\u2019t <\/span>la sua priorit\u00e0<\/span><\/a>. I was never the one he\u2019d leave wherever he was in an instant and come to be by my side.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ero pi\u00f9 che altro un'opzione decente, ma se c'era qualcuno l\u00e0 fuori che era pi\u00f9 bello e pi\u00f9 da top model, io ero sicuramente in secondo piano. <\/span><\/p>\n

E faceva un male cane.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma il mio problema \u00e8 che non ho mai parlato. <\/span>Non ho mai detto nulla. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho accettato quella situazione di merda per quello che era, perch\u00e9 ho pensato che fosse meglio ricevere amore a pezzi e bocconi che essere completamente soli.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the real truth about constantly being the girl who loves more than she is loved back is that she\u2019s <\/span>stufi e stanchi di questo<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

She no longer accepts only half of the attention and half of anyone\u2019s love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vuole tutto o niente! Perch\u00e9 indovinate un po'? <\/span><\/p>\n

Quegli idioti a caso che la ritengono indegna di tutta la loro attenzione sono quelli che hanno dei problemi.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Non lei.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those who treat the people they\u2019re supposed to cherish as an option are the ones who are eventually going to get stung.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per tanto tempo ho vissuto con questa sensazione di prurito dentro di me, come se fossi difettosa in qualche modo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Per tanto tempo mi sono sentita non abbastanza bella, non abbastanza intelligente o non abbastanza interessante.<\/span><\/p>\n

For too long I accepted far less than I deserve and I know I\u2019m not alone in feeling this way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

So che ci sono tante ragazze l\u00e0 fuori che temono il rifiuto al punto di accettare qualsiasi amore su cui possono mettere le mani.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But the truth is that those who refuse to give you everything that you deserve and don\u2019t treat you with the utmost respect are nothing but assholes in disguise who are not worthy of a single tear of yours!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Sono loro che dovrebbero sentirsi cos\u00ec, NON voi. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 una donna perfettamente a posto, gentile, intelligente e bella che trover\u00e0 il suo lieto fine. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And those jerks are going to end up alone because they can\u2019t give their whole heart to any one person.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In a way, you should feel sorry for them. So what if that idiot couldn\u2019t give you all of his love?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

E se si presentasse solo la met\u00e0 delle volte in cui avete bisogno di lui? <\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re at fault. It means he\u2019s a no-good type of idiot who couldn\u2019t see a good thing if it stared him right in the face!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>So don\u2019t worry about him and all those like him.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Sono loro che finiranno per elemosinare le briciole del vostro amore, un giorno. Ve lo assicuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Forse non domani e forse non per qualche anno. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when enough time has passed and he is still living that superficial single life that got him nowhere, he\u2019ll come crawling back.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the only difference is that this time, you\u2019ll be the one turning your back on him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be the one who decides that he isn\u2019t <\/span>abbastanza buono<\/span><\/a> per VOI.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that is going to be one of the most satisfying feelings you\u2019ve ever felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Looking him straight in the eye with a short and sweet, \u2018\u2019Nope!\u2019\u2019 while showing him the door.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, you never have to think about him again. Because he\u2019s too big of a wuss to face you ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

The truth is that being a girl who loves more isn\u2019t all that bad when you really think about it.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ti insegna la pazienza e ti mostra quanto sei resistente. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You learn to be the best and strongest version of yourself and isn\u2019t that something to be thankful for?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t gone through all that, you wouldn\u2019t be aware of what you\u2019re capable of enduring.<\/span><\/p>\n

If all those jerks hadn\u2019t been such assholes, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to appreciate the good in your life the way you do now.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 questo che vi rende migliori di loro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You learn and grow from this. And them? They stay the same immature boys who can\u2019t appreciate a good woman if their lives depended on it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And ultimately, you\u2019re the only one who comes out of this a winner<\/span>\u2014<\/span>in tutti i modi che contano davvero.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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