{"id":43674,"date":"2019-09-27T14:06:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T14:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43674"},"modified":"2022-02-11T04:15:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T04:15:05","slug":"questo-e-il-modo-in-cui-un-narcisista-usa-la-proiezione-per-portarti-dove-vuole-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questo-e-il-modo-in-cui-un-narcisista-usa-la-proiezione-per-portarti-dove-vuole-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come un narcisista usa la proiezione per portarvi dove vuole lui"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Che cos'\u00e8 la proiezione?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re actually the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A jealous co-worker who accuses everyone else in the office of being jealous is projecting; secretly, they\u2019re jealous of just about everyone with a modicum of success. And so on.\u2019\u2019 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now that we\u2019ve covered exactly what projection is, let\u2019s discuss how narcissists use this devious tactic to get <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/35-microtattiche-che-i-narcisisti-usano-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">le loro vittime<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> proprio dove vogliono loro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Firstly, it\u2019s important to note that narcissists aren\u2019t the only people in the world who use this tactic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m sure you have engaged in this to some mild degree as well, just like I have and a bunch of other perfectly \u2018normal\u2019 people out there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane uomo muscoloso e bello a torso nudo che ammira se stesso\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the difference is this: You and I don\u2019t make a habit out of doing this and afterward we usually feel a sense of guilt about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But a narcissist doesn\u2019t. A narcissist uses this on a regular basis and it\u2019s his weapon of choice, which he uses gladly and frequently.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il narcisista usa la proiezione per far sentire la sua vittima svalutata e inferiore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 la sua tattica per renderli inermi e impotenti per ottenere il massimo da loro. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And while he\u2019s doing it, there is not an ounce of guilt about it. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Solo pura malvagit\u00e0 e soddisfazione nel vederti contorcere. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La sua mancanza di empatia e il suo senso di grandiosit\u00e0 lo fanno sentire superiore a voi e il suo senso di autostima lo fa sentire come se avesse il diritto di imporvelo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43679\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane pensieroso con camicia a quadri, seduto a pensare all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_507900823-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Ci sono molte ragioni per cui i narcisisti usano la proiezione sulle persone. Alcuni di essi sono i seguenti:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un sentimento di superiorit\u00e0.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sentirsi autorizzati e aspettarsi di essere trattati come un re.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non essere in grado di simpatizzare con le persone, proiettando quindi le proprie insicurezze sugli altri.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gelosia nei confronti di chi ha ci\u00f2 che <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-cose-schifose-che-gli-uomini-fanno-quando-vogliono-lasciarvi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vogliono<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'ossessione per le cose materiali e il bisogno di averle a tutti i costi.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il bisogno di essere ammirati, temuti e rispettati.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un forte impulso a maltrattare chi osa sfidarli.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i>Ecco tutti i modi in cui un narcisista user\u00e0 la proiezione per manipolarvi, portarvi dove vuole lui e come potete porvi fine.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>1. Vi chiamer\u00e0 fuori facendovi sentire in colpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43680\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto ravvicinato di un uomo brutalmente barbuto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_313676516-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un narcisista vi chiamer\u00e0 per alcuni motivi. Il primo motivo pu\u00f2 essere il fatto che vuole che facciate qualcosa per lui. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece di chiedertelo come una persona normale, user\u00e0 il senso di colpa per convincerti a farlo con certezza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'altro motivo potrebbe essere che vuole che vi sentiate attaccati e questo \u00e8 il modo migliore per riuscirci. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes they just feel like doing it out of boredom or pure malice and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t respond, he\u2019s going to get really frustrated and resort to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-fa-queste-8-cose-e-un-abusatore-verbale-travestito-da-vero-uomo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abuso verbale<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco cosa fare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: After a while, it\u2019s going to become easy to recognize the patterns and see his behavior for what it is<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un tentativo disperato di sminuirti per aumentare il suo ego. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t take the bait and instead resist the urge to respond, he\u2019s going to have nothing left to do but find other ways to feed his ego and leave you be.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Imiter\u00e0 il vostro comportamento<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43681\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo attraente in strada che indossa un abito elegante britannico.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1038042187-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since a narcissist feels zero empathy, all he can do is observe you and learn how to behave like you and trick you into thinking he\u2019s got emotions that aren\u2019t really there. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c8 il suo modo di mimetizzarsi e di fingere di essere un uomo qualunque.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is all successful for a while, because he is an expert at mimicking other people\u2019s behavior and hiding behind a facade but after a while, he\u2019s going to need to take the mask off and show his true colors and that\u2019s when his whole ploy will start <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/leggere-il-mondo-che-cade-a-pezzi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cadere a pezzi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco cosa fare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Siate vigili. Tenete gli occhi ben aperti e prendete tutto con le molle. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sooner or later, everybody\u2019s true colors rise to the surface. And he is no exception. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One day, he\u2019ll get tired of pretending and you\u2019ll see exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Vi calunnier\u00e0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43682\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946.jpg\" alt=\"Profilo di uomo affascinante su sfondo grigio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_131365946-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se un narcisista mette in atto questa tattica di proiezione, deve nutrire forti sentimenti di disprezzo nei vostri confronti, naturalmente senza alcuna colpa da parte vostra. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assassinating one\u2019s character is a deeply personal matter that stems from feelings of powerful jealousy and hate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He is either trying to get even with you for whatever reason he tells himself or he wants to gain people\u2019s sympathy through slandering you and showing you in a deeply negative light.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco cosa fare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Firstly, don\u2019t go into anxiety mode. He is clearly desperate if he\u2019s going after you this way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Secondly, don\u2019t forget that those who know you won\u2019t doubt you for one second. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se questo accade sul posto di lavoro, parlate immediatamente con il vostro supervisore e chiedete che vengano presi provvedimenti.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giocher\u00e0 spudoratamente la carta della vittima<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43683\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo pensieroso che guarda fuori dalla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1078277615-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 si diverte a usare questa carta per sfruttare persone ingenue e di buon cuore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un narcisista ama colpire dove fa pi\u00f9 male. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E sa che le persone si sentiranno sempre dispiaciute per coloro che sembrano essere vittime di qualsiasi tipo di ingiustizia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E l'altro motivo \u00e8 quello di dipingere una falsa immagine di voi come una figura malvagia.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">qualcuno che gli ha fatto del male e che deve essere punito. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ai-narcisisti-piace-baciare\/\">Ai narcisisti piace<\/a> Fare la figura dell'idiota e far s\u00ec che qualcuno la veda come una vittima \u00e8 un vero esempio di questo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ecco cosa fare<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Don\u2019t worry about the opinions of unimportant people. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And don\u2019t offer your help to somebody you don\u2019t know unless they\u2019re clearly in grave need of it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respond only to those you know well and avoid getting in a narcissist\u2019s web of lies and deceit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-43685\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco come un narcisista usa la proiezione per portarvi dove vuole lui\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Birthday-Ideas-For-Husband_-25-Unique-Ways-To-Make-Him-Feel-Special-And-Loved-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is projection? \u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego. For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re actually the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting. A jealous co-worker who accuses everyone else in the office of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":43684,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_191929109.jpg",800,602,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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