{"id":43759,"date":"2020-05-30T15:36:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-30T15:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43759"},"modified":"2022-01-24T14:37:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T14:37:04","slug":"non-guardate-mai-indietro-al-vostro-ex-allontanatevi-e-lasciategli-vedere-cio-che-ha-perso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-guardate-mai-indietro-al-vostro-ex-allontanatevi-e-lasciategli-vedere-cio-che-ha-perso\/","title":{"rendered":"Non guardate mai indietro al vostro ex: allontanatevi e lasciate che veda ci\u00f2 che ha perso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se potessi darvi un consiglio romantico, vi direi di non guardare mai indietro a chi non ha saputo apprezzarvi. <\/p>\n

Why? Because if they did, you wouldn\u2019t have to look back in the first place. They\u2019d still be by your side!<\/p>\n

If at this very moment, you\u2019re struggling, know that you\u2019re not alone. Know that I\u2019ve got you.<\/p>\n

I know exactly how shitty it feels suffering over an ex who wasn\u2019t worthy of a single one of your tears.<\/p>\n

This didn\u2019t stop me from crying a river every night I dreamed about his face, and every day I missed having his sense of humor around.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t make me weak, it makes me human.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

E in tutta questa sofferenza ho capito alcune cose.<\/i><\/p>\n

In primo luogo, ci vuole il pi\u00f9 basso dei bassi per arrivare a quel luogo salutare e rivelatore in cui tutto improvvisamente inizia a avere un senso<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ogni lacrima che hai pianto, ogni litigio che hai avuto e ogni momento di rabbia che ti ha fatto arrabbiare.<\/p>\n

Ogni occasione persa per risolvere le cose e ogni trattamento silenzioso che gli avete riservato o che vi ha riservato. <\/p>\n

Con il tempo, tutte queste piccole cose iniziano a dipingere il quadro generale che, alla fine, mostra che il modo in cui le cose sono ora \u00e8 esattamente come dovrebbero essere.<\/p>\n

As hard as it may be to comprehend this now, I promise it\u2019s going to make so much sense in a few short weeks. <\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you need to go through all the stages of grief before getting to that good place \u2013 but it\u2019s going to happen.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m here to tell you is this. If deep down in your heart you KNOW that the breakup was the best decision for you, be proud of yourself and don\u2019t waver.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a smart ass lady. <\/i><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You know that if the guy cared, he never would\u2019ve left you.<\/i><\/p>\n

If he was worried about how you were, he would\u2019ve called to ask!<\/i><\/p>\n

And if your feelings mattered to him, he would\u2019ve tried to fix it, not break it off!<\/i><\/p>\n

 <\/i><\/b>Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of looking back. <\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing to see! Your past is there for good reason.<\/p>\n

He served you as a great lesson, and now you\u2019re ready to face your present and your future.<\/p>\n

Una cosa che potete fare, per\u00f2, \u00e8 mostrargli ci\u00f2 che ha perso!<\/p>\n

Farlo rimpiangere dandovi per scontati<\/a> e di perdervi essendo la donna sicura, forte e positiva che siete.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to parade a new man around to show him that. <\/i><\/p>\n

Vivete semplicemente la vostra vita come avete sempre fatto, e tutto questo con un sorriso fiducioso sul viso.<\/i><\/p>\n

Show him your spirit isn\u2019t broken by remaining a good friend to your girls and dancing the night away, which will show him you are open to new beginnings.<\/i><\/p>\n

Revenge is for the weak. The only way he\u2019ll see what he lost is by you living your authentic life to the best of your ability.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t crush you. You haven\u2019t lost your zest for life.<\/p>\n

Siete pi\u00f9 che mai aperti a nuove opportunit\u00e0. E perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019ve been burned, and you\u2019re ready to let someone new in.<\/p>\n

Ma questa volta, qualcuno il cui amore non vi lascer\u00e0 mai feriti.<\/p>\n

Nessuno pu\u00f2 dire quando ci\u00f2 avverr\u00e0. \u00c8 nelle mani di Dio. <\/p>\n

But one thing I do know is that when you believe you deserve the best and never lose faith in yourself, that\u2019s when you\u2019ll do a 180 and start seeing what you never noticed before.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll finally see that you feel so much more liberated now than you ever did con il tuo ex<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll finally see that his <\/i>amore tossico<\/i><\/a> ti ha dato solo un terzo di quello che meriti e ti ha trattenuto.<\/i><\/p>\n

Con lui non vi siete mai sentiti cos\u00ec liberi e fiduciosi. <\/p>\n

E ora tutto sembra un'opportunit\u00e0 per una versione nuova e migliorata di se stessi.<\/p>\n

And that \u2018 the beginning of your new life.<\/p>\n

A life in which you will never focus on what\u2019s lost, but solely on what\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n

A life in which you know you\u2019ll eventually get your happily-ever after because you freaking deserve it.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s so easy to give up on yourself and cry yourself to sleep every night. <\/p>\n

Ma una donna forte<\/a> knows that being able to pick yourself up and put on a smile when all you want to do is weep is the bravest thing she\u2019s ever done.<\/p>\n

This is a woman who won\u2019t let a toxic ex bring her down.<\/p>\n

She will not shed a single tear for him because it\u2019d be a waste of time. <\/p>\n

And as tempted as she is to look back and wonder what he\u2019s up to, she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 in fondo sa che prima inizia a guardare avanti, prima il suo cuore inizier\u00e0 a guarire e la sua mente a dimenticare.<\/p>\n

And one day, she is simply going to stop caring about where he is and what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\n

Because her life is going to be so fulfilled and happy \u2013 that nothing toxic will come to her mind!<\/p>\n

E questa sar\u00e0 una vittoria personale apparentemente piccola, ma cos\u00ec importante. <\/i><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll no longer care! And to that story, all she will be able to say is \u2013 The End.<\/i><\/p>\n

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