{"id":44058,"date":"2020-10-02T14:14:42","date_gmt":"2020-10-02T14:14:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44058"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:27:28","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:27:28","slug":"non-investire-mai-in-qualcuno-che-non-ti-sta-inseguendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-investire-mai-in-qualcuno-che-non-ti-sta-inseguendo\/","title":{"rendered":"Non investite mai in qualcuno che non vi sta inseguendo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quel sorriso mentre mandi un messaggio a qualcuno di cui sei innamorato, quelle lunghe telefonate, quei poche date <\/a>che erano incredibili, quei piccoli e semplici sforzi ti rendevano felice oltre ogni aspettativa. <\/p>\n

Dove sono finite quelle cose all'improvviso? <\/p>\n

Something that started off great is slipping through your fingers and you don\u2019t know how to hold onto it.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che ha investito completamente all'inizio ha iniziato ad allontanarsi. Vi sentite persi e nessuno pu\u00f2 biasimarvi. <\/p>\n

Appare e scompare dalla vostra casella di posta e dalla vostra vita. <\/b><\/p>\n

I suoi messaggi iniziano ad arrivare a intervalli casuali, non pi\u00f9 ogni giorno come prima.<\/p>\n

He makes last-minute plans to see you. He snaps you when you think he\u2019s already forgotten you. <\/p>\n

Si aspetta che vi buttiate tra le sue braccia quando lo ritiene opportuno.<\/p>\n

Likewise, he believes it shouldn\u2019t bother you when he doesn\u2019t feel like being a part of your life and starts ignoring you all of a sudden. <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t make sense out of the situation you\u2019re in. He is and isn\u2019t a part of your life at the same time and it\u2019s driving you crazy. <\/b><\/p>\n

He\u2019s the main topic of all of the conversations you have with your friends.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s on your mind 24\/7 and you can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

Analizzate il suo comportamento e sfogliate i suoi vecchi messaggi, alla ricerca di indizi sul motivo per cui tutto \u00e8 iniziato ad andare a rotoli. <\/p>\n

So you try harder. You\u2019re always there when he calls.<\/p>\n

You send that followup text or you always text first. You make all the effort while he does absolutely nothing.  And it\u2019s time you stop. <\/p>\n

You see, him not chasing you makes you want him even more, and that\u2019s the curse we\u2019ve all suffered from at some point in our love lives. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like a fault in our DNA that makes us want someone that\u2019s simply out of reach.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s something that needs to be fixed, ASAP.  Life is too short to allow someone to treat you as a game.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Non permettete mai a qualcuno di darvi le briciole mentre siete tutti dentro.  It\u2019s time to break that curse. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to remember what you deserve. Yes, it’s time to smettete di inseguirlo<\/a>. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for you to remind yourself what you\u2019re made of and just how worthy of someone\u2019s efforts you are. <\/p>\n

Love is about “give and take” and you can\u2019t be the only one giving and giving and giving all the time.<\/p>\n

Deve andare in entrambe le direzioni. Dovete prendere tanto quanto investite. Quindi cambiate strada. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t act unavailable, actually be unavailable. <\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is when you bend over backward to please a man, you\u2019re not giving him the impression that you are a donna di alto valore<\/a> e il suo interesse inizia a calare rapidamente. <\/p>\n

Essere una donna che ha una vita propria da condurre.<\/p>\n

Una vita piena di interessi e di cose divertenti da fare, e non cancellarle mai solo perch\u00e9 lui chiama all'improvviso. <\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Ascoltate ci\u00f2 che dice e prestate attenzione a ci\u00f2 che fa. <\/b><\/p>\n

If he is more interested in how you look naked than in how you feel and what you\u2019re about, he isn\u2019t worth your time. <\/p>\n

If he says he isn\u2019t ready for a relationship and doesn\u2019t want a girlfriend right now, believe him and stay away. <\/p>\n

Follow his lead \u2013 invest as much as he is investing and not an ounce more. <\/b><\/p>\n

If he has genuine feelings for you, as soon as you lower your investments, he\u2019ll start chasing because he\u2019ll be scared to lose you. <\/p>\n

As soon as you tell him that you can\u2019t see him because you have better things to do, he\u2019ll start to plan ahead and schedule an actual date. <\/p>\n

As soon as you stop responding immediately to his late texts, he\u2019ll make an effort to text back in time. <\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t go after you, if he isn\u2019t capable of meeting you halfway, then he\u2019s not worth your time. <\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s not about tactics and playing mind games. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about figuring out his mixed signals and tolerating him treating you like you aren\u2019t important.  <\/p>\n

You are important. You are worthy of someone who\u2019s able to give you a chance for true love.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why there is only one rule you should follow when it comes to your love life: <\/p>\n

Have standards and don’t invest your heart, your body, or your soul in someone who isn\u2019t investing in you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

That smile while you texting someone you are into, those long calls, those few dates that were amazing, those small simple efforts made you happy beyond belief.  Where did those things go all of a sudden?  Something that started off great is slipping through your fingers and you don\u2019t know how to hold onto it….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":116101,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44058","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Invest-In-Someone-Who-Isnt-Chasing-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44058","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44058"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44058\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116101"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44058"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}