{"id":44076,"date":"2020-05-02T13:21:45","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T13:21:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44076"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:13:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:13:04","slug":"5-segnali-non-cosi-evidenti-che-stanno-comprimendo-profondi-problemi-di-fiducia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segnali-non-cosi-evidenti-che-stanno-comprimendo-profondi-problemi-di-fiducia\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segni non cos\u00ec evidenti di un profondo problema di fiducia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La conseguenza pi\u00f9 comune di essere stati feriti o traditi in passato sono i problemi di fiducia.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s normal for you to stop believing in people after someone you cared for the most broke your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, il problema pi\u00f9 grande \u00e8 quando si sopprimono questi problemi e si \u00e8 completamente ignari di averli.<\/p>\n<p>Here are 5 hidden symptoms of deeply rooted trust issues you probably don\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You don\u2019t give chances to new people<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95512\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the first signs that you\u2019re not aware that you have problems with trusting others is the fact that you don\u2019t let anyone new in.<\/p>\n<p>Vi rifiutate di dare a qualcuno di nuovo la possibilit\u00e0 di conoscervi meglio o di entrare a far parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>When you come to think about it, you\u2019ve been hanging out with the same people for as long as you can remember.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this is a good thing and probably a sign that you\u2019re a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/ecco-cosa-significa-essere-un-amico-fedele\/\"> amico fedele <\/a> , but it doesn\u2019t mean nobody else deserves a shot with you.<\/p>\n<p>Questo vale soprattutto per gli uomini nuovi che ci provano con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Before you even get to know them better, you find a million excuses why they don\u2019t deserve your attention.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you can relate to, it\u2019s clear that you\u2019re scared of exiting your zone of comfort.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re afraid of giving your heart to someone who is unfamiliar to you because, by doing so, you\u2019re also giving them a chance to hurt you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Scappate dalle relazioni<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95513\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul pavimento da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-alone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another symptom of suppressed trust issues lies in the fact that with time, you\u2019ve developed a habit of escaping relationships as soon as things become serious.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking here about romances only, I\u2019m talking about all types of relationships one can have in life.<\/p>\n<p>As soon as you see that you\u2019re becoming too close with someone, you instantly start distancing yourself from them.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you realize that your romantic relationship is getting somewhere and it\u2019s time to take it to the next level, you back out.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, non si tratta di qualcosa che si fa volontariamente e consapevolmente.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, lo si fa senza esserne consapevoli; lo si fa per proteggersi da un potenziale pericolo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Oppure si diventa estremamente possessivi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95514\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in una mente profonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, alcune persone che hanno profondi problemi di fiducia fanno qualcosa di completamente opposto: diventano <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-smettere-di-essere-appiccicosi-e-bisognosi-8-modi-per-farlo\/\"> estremamente appiccicoso <\/a> quando si tratta di coloro che amano.<\/p>\n<p>If this is something you\u2019ve caught yourself doing, know that you are actually scared of losing the ones who are important to you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t trust that they love you back and won\u2019t break your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate che l'unico modo per evitarlo sia seguire ogni loro mossa e tenerli il pi\u00f9 possibile vicini a voi.<\/p>\n<p>Una cosa \u00e8 chiara: quando si tratta di persone con problemi di fiducia, non ci sono vie di mezzo.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, nessuna di queste due opzioni \u00e8 sana!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t live in the moment<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95515\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ossessivo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-sovrappensiero-rovina-la-relazione\/\"> sovrappensiero <\/a> \u00e8 uno degli effetti collaterali dei problemi di fiducia.<\/p>\n<p>Avete semplicemente la necessit\u00e0 di tenere sotto controllo tutto e tutti nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 necessario pianificare l'intero futuro, fin nei minimi dettagli.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that means that you\u2019re responsible, which is amazing.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, allo stesso tempo, impedisce di godere del momento presente.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re constantly worried about what might happen next and in what way someone might hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, tutto ci\u00f2 si traduce in una sensazione di sovraccarico, stress e ansia.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si pensa sempre al peggio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95516\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa seduta sul pavimento del balcone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-the-balcony-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non solo, ma ci si aspetta sempre lo scenario peggiore.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni volta che incontrate un nuovo ragazzo (o anche un nuovo amico), vedete gi\u00e0 che vi tradisce e vi pugnala alle spalle.<\/p>\n<p>You think that it would be easier for you to deal with the disappointment if it doesn\u2019t hit you unprepared.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, questo modo di pensare vi fa perdere molte cose, per non parlare del fatto che riempie la vostra vita di inutili negativit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95511\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 segni non cos\u00ec evidenti di un profondo problema di fiducia\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The most common consequence of being hurt or betrayed in the past are trust issues. It\u2019s normal for you to stop believing in people after someone you cared for the most broke your heart. However, the bigger problem is when you suppress these issues and are completely unaware of having them. Here are 5 hidden&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":95517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44076","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Not-So-Obvious-Signs-You\u2019re-Compressing-Deep-Trust-Issues.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44076","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44076"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44076\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44076"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44076"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44076"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}