{"id":44214,"date":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44214"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","slug":"non-cambiera-mai-per-un-uomo-a-meno-che-non-inizino-ad-accadere-queste-5-cose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-cambiera-mai-per-un-uomo-a-meno-che-non-inizino-ad-accadere-queste-5-cose\/","title":{"rendered":"Non cambiate mai per un uomo a meno che non accadano queste 5 cose"},"content":{"rendered":"

Innamorarsi<\/span><\/a> significa trascorrere una grande quantit\u00e0 di tempo con questa nuova persona. <\/span><\/p>\n

E passare molto tempo con qualcuno ci fa imitare inconsapevolmente i suoi comportamenti e le sue abitudini, anche nei modi pi\u00f9 piccoli.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo cambiamento non deve preoccupare. <\/span><\/p>\n

In quanto esseri umani, impariamo ed esploriamo costantemente noi stessi come individui e stiamo cercando di capire questa cosa dell'amore.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is perfectly normal to start speaking similarly to your partner after a while because after all, he\u2019s the one you spend the majority of your time with.<\/span><\/p>\n

And it\u2019s totally fine if some of his habits rub off on you. It\u2019s something you don\u2019t have a lot of power over. <\/span><\/p>\n

And for as long as it\u2019s not something that\u2019s causing you any unhappiness or unpleasantness, you\u2019re in the clear.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if your man is subtly asking you to change in a way that isn\u2019t something you\u2019re okay with, you should definitely feel free to say no.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Se lui vuole che tu cambi cose di te stessa con cui sei perfettamente felice, dovresti assolutamente parlare.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are amazing exactly the way you are. And if your man cannot accept you in all of your adorable messiness, maybe he\u2019s not the one for you after all?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because a person who loves you unconditionally and irrevocably embraces all of you \u2013 flaws and all. A person who loves you, only pushes you to become an even better version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non vi chiederanno mai di cambiare di proposito per i loro secondi fini egoistici. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un vero uomo <\/span><\/a>apprezza e accetta una donna per quello che \u00e8, non per quello che vuole che sia!<\/span><\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re thinking about changing for a man, don\u2019t do it unless these 5 things start happening:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. <\/span>Never change for a man unless you feel like it\u2019s making you grow as a person<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Ognuno ha un'idea diversa di cosa significhi crescere e maturare. <\/span><\/p>\n

So you\u2019re the only one who can decide whether being with him is making you grow or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siete gli unici a conoscere l'effetto che ha su di voi e sui vostri pensieri interiori.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non ha senso mentire a se stessi. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling yourself become more compassionate, open-minded and kind, that\u2019s a good sign that his presence is helping you improve as a person. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel more liberated and more secure in yourself, you\u2019re with <\/span>la persona giusta.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If him being near you makes you feel like you no longer care about the BS that used to bother you, it means you\u2019ve hit the boyfriend jackpot! <\/span><\/p>\n

Chiunque, con la sua sola presenza, abbia un effetto cos\u00ec rasserenante e potenziante su di voi, \u00e8 un'ottima persona a cui stare vicino.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. <\/span>Never change for a man unless you\u2019re learning about new and amazing things<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

There is something extraordinary about people who are able to expand our horizons and help us learn so many amazing new things in a fun and kind way\u2014not in that conceding \u2018\u2019told you so\u2019\u2019 way that makes you feel dumb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma piuttosto in un modo che vi aiuti a capire quanto siete interessati e curiosi del mondo che vi circonda. <\/span><\/p>\n

E quando questa persona \u00e8 in grado di aiutarvi a scoprire questo nuovo lato di voi che ha una profonda passione per la conoscenza, dovreste starle vicino a prescindere da tutto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is all about learning and discovering. Whether it\u2019s about yourself or about the world around you, it makes no difference. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se la vostra mente \u00e8 aperta e la vostra anima desidera nuove esperienze, siete davvero con una brava persona.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. <\/span>Non cambiate mai per il vostro uomo, a meno che non significhi perdere le vostre cattive abitudini (non salutari).<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a smoker, your partner might ask you to reconsider it. If you like to drink a lot, your partner might ask to cut down just a little bit. <\/span><\/p>\n

And he would be totally within his rights to do that. Why? Because it\u2019s for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se il tuo uomo ti vuole per perdere le abitudini tossiche<\/a> che non migliorano in alcun modo la vostra vita, ma anzi ne diminuiscono la qualit\u00e0, dovreste prendere in considerazione l'idea di ascoltarlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha buone intenzioni. Vuole che viviate una vita lunga e felice. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se fumate 2 pacchetti di sigarette al giorno e bevete a prescindere dal giorno della settimana, dovreste ascoltarlo e ridurvi semplicemente. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be thankful later, I promise.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. <\/span>Non cambiate mai per un uomo, a meno che questo non vi faccia affrontare il conflitto in modo sano.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Voi siete <\/span>chi sei<\/span><\/a>. And the way you\u2019ve always done things is the way you\u2019re probably always going to do them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma quando si tratta di litigare con il partner, c'\u00e8 sempre qualcosa da imparare su questo fronte.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner has taught you a new and possibly healthier way to approach conflict, that\u2019s actually a great thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se vi ha aiutato a capire che in questa relazione ci sono due persone, entrambe con lo stesso diritto di opinione, dovreste stargli vicino.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non sono molte le persone che vi aiuteranno a combattere con loro in modo pi\u00f9 produttivo! Ma a parte gli scherzi.<\/span><\/p>\n

I<\/span>t would be so easy just proving you wrong and diminishing you. But if instead he helps you see other points of view, maybe he\u2019s one of the good ones after all?<\/span><\/p>\n

 5. <\/span>Never change for a man unless your friends tell you how much happier you seem since you\u2019ve been with him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Ci sono alcuni cambiamenti che vanno benissimo se questa persona rende davvero il vostro mondo pi\u00f9 luminoso. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all \u2013 compromise is key to any good relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve had friends tell you multiple times how much happier and healthier you seem ever since you started seeing him, trust them! <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti diranno sempre come stanno le cose! Quindi, se ti chiede di passare un po' di tempo in pi\u00f9 con lui prima di uscire con le tue ragazze, forse puoi cedere.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it\u2019s a tiny little thing that does no harm to anyone (on the contrary!) don\u2019t even think about it. Trust your gut and trust your friends. That way \u2013 you can do no wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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