{"id":44237,"date":"2019-10-03T12:54:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T12:54:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44237"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:52:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:52:13","slug":"7-cose-di-cui-avete-bisogno-e-che-un-narcisista-non-sara-mai-in-grado-di-fare-per-voi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-di-cui-avete-bisogno-e-che-un-narcisista-non-sara-mai-in-grado-di-fare-per-voi\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose di cui avete bisogno e che un narcisista non sar\u00e0 mai in grado di fare per voi"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been around a narcissist in any capacity, you probably know how self-indulgent, manipulative and deceiving they are. And how little shit they give about anyone but themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aspettarsi qualcosa da un narcisista \u00e8 come aspettarsi che la pioggia non ti bagni. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just not going to happen. And deep down<\/span>\u2014<\/span>lo sapete.<\/span><\/p>\n

If there\u2019s one thing a narcissist is an expert at, it\u2019s how to manipulate women into letting down their guard and winning them over with the fake mask they put on just for the sake of making you his.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve been romantically involved with <\/span>un uomo narcisista<\/span><\/a> but managed to break free from him, give yourself a high five. Because that\u2019s some tough shit to accomplish.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably realized that a narcissist will never be able to do much for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non soddisfer\u00e0 mai nessuno dei vostri bisogni primari e non andr\u00e0 mai in guerra per voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Con lui, l'unica cosa che conta \u00e8 che ottenga il suo.<\/span><\/p>\n

So if you\u2019ve ever considered <\/span>tornare a<\/span><\/a> un uomo narcisista, pensate a tutte le cose di cui avete bisogno e che meritate e che lui non sar\u00e0 mai in grado di fare per voi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni dei pi\u00f9 importanti che non dovreste mai dimenticare:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. <\/span>Un narcisista non terr\u00e0 mai conto dei vostri sentimenti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Bell'uomo<\/p>\n

Ammettetelo. Non gliene fregher\u00e0 mai niente di come vi sentite. Non dar\u00e0 mai importanza alle vostre opinioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

And at those times when it feels like he does, you know it\u2019s just a ploy to get something out of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un narcisista si preoccupa solo di se stesso. Quello che fate o dite non lo preoccupa. <\/span><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t think for a second your emotions are going to matter if you ever go out with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vi far\u00e0 sentire piccoli, insignificanti e non <\/span>abbastanza buono<\/span><\/a>. E tutto questo con il sorriso sulle labbra.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. <\/span>Un narcisista non si preoccuper\u00e0 mai abbastanza di confortarvi nel momento del bisogno<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti da avere nella vita? Un buon sistema di supporto solido e una spalla su cui appoggiarsi. <\/span><\/p>\n

And with a narcissist, you\u2019ll have anything but! <\/span><\/p>\n

Non gli importer\u00e0 che abbiate perso il vostro amato animale domestico dopo tanti anni bellissimi trascorsi con lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is not going to care that your parents\u2019 divorce is causing you anxiety. <\/span><\/p>\n

Unless it affects him in any way, he couldn\u2019t give two fucks. And this stings like a mother****. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nel momento in cui avete bisogno di una mano e di una parola gentile, vi lascer\u00e0 in un batter d'occhio. <\/span><\/p>\n

E questo sar\u00e0 un vero e proprio dolore fisico che nessuno merita di provare.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. <\/span>A narcissist will never ever say that he\u2019s sorry<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Puoi scordarti che si scusi per tutte le cose che ti fa. \u00c8 una cosa sconosciuta per lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever he did, in his mind,you had it coming. So basically, it\u2019s always going to be your fault.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being able to say you\u2019re sorry is key to a functioning relationship. And with a narcissistic man, you can say goodbye to that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che sa \u00e8 come funzionare nel modo pi\u00f9 disfunzionale (per voi). <\/span><\/p>\n

Lui, invece, prospera nel caos che provoca.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. <\/span>Un narcisista non ti far\u00e0 mai sentire importante<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

In his eyes, you\u2019re just a means to an end. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di accrescere il suo ego, di soddisfare i suoi bisogni fisici o di migliorare il suo status. E voi fungete da mero catalizzatore per tutte queste cose.<\/span><\/p>\n

To a narcissist, you\u2019re just a piece of meat. He doesn\u2019t see your value, your strength or your perseverance. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see a woman who\u2019s been through a lot but is still standing. <\/span><\/p>\n

All he sees is somebody he can use until he decides you\u2019re no longer good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, he\u2019ll just leave, without so much as a goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n

And you\u2019ll feel smaller than you ever have, thanks to <\/span>un uomo tossico<\/span><\/a> who didn\u2019t deserve you in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. <\/span>Un narcisista non vi sosterr\u00e0 mai in nessun ambito della vostra vita<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

He may publicly pretend like he\u2019s your number one cheerleader. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when you two are alone, he couldn\u2019t care less about any of your accomplishments. <\/span><\/p>\n

You could get a huge promotion at work and he\u2019ll be unfazed.<\/span><\/p>\n

You might need help with a minor medical issue, he\u2019s not going to be there. He is always going to have better shit to do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see? Unless it\u2019s about HIM, he just won\u2019t even care to pretend he cares. <\/span><\/p>\n

The people around you might be fooled but you\u2019ll always feel that void when it\u2019s just the two of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

E ne vale davvero la pena?<\/span><\/p>\n

6. <\/span>Un narcisista non apprezzer\u00e0 mai quello che fate per lui e non vi ringrazier\u00e0 mai.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

Narcissists feel entitled to everything they\u2019ve got so therefore, they will never say thank you to anyone. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you do a lot for him and expect some gratitude, you\u2019re not going to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi risparmiatevi la delusione e smettete di aspettarvela da un uomo come lui.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nella mente di un narcisista, dovreste essere grati che vi lasci fare le cose per lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha un senso di s\u00e9 grandioso e chiunque si circondi di lui deve sentirsi privilegiato. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never hear a <\/span>Grazie<\/span><\/a> or even a nod to show his appreciation. It\u2019s not his style!<\/span><\/p>\n

7. <\/span>Un narcisista non vi amer\u00e0 mai<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

And ultimately, a narcissist will never ever know how to love you. And quite frankly, he won\u2019t care to.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 un territorio sconosciuto per lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s an expert at manipulation, deceit and getting what he wants but genuine feelings is not something he\u2019s interested in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall for his tricks and his fake words. Narcissists don\u2019t feel love the way you and I do. <\/span><\/p>\n

He might act lovey-dovey for a moment to make you let your guard down but other than that, he\u2019ll never love you the way you deserve to be loved. <\/span><\/p>\n

E spero che ormai sappiate di meritare molto, molto di pi\u00f9 delle briciole della sua attenzione! <\/span><\/p>\n

Because with a narcissist, that\u2019s the best you\u2019re ever going to get.<\/span><\/p>\n

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