{"id":44348,"date":"2020-07-04T11:10:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-04T11:10:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44348"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:24:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:24:45","slug":"se-non-vuole-una-relazione-non-dargli-i-vantaggi-della-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-vuole-una-relazione-non-dargli-i-vantaggi-della-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non vuole una relazione, non dategli i vantaggi di una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L'intesa \u00e8 reale, i sentimenti ci sono, la conversazione \u00e8 perfetta e la lussuria \u00e8 inarrestabile. Sembra che abbiate tutto... tutto tranne lui.<\/p>\n<p>He says he\u2019s not ready for a relationship. He\u2019s giving you crumbs and he\u2019s always keeping you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n<p>He hasn\u2019t let you all in and is keeping his options open.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, he can\u2019t stand the thought of you with somebody else.<\/p>\n<p>He wants commitment from you, but he can\u2019t offer the same in return. And it\u2019s time you put a stop to it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Cut off boyfriend benefits if he\u2019s not your boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102604\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che guarda la donna che dorme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/angry-man-looking-at-woman-sleeping-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, I mean sex primarily. You don\u2019t sleep with your friends, now do you?<\/p>\n<p>If you have greater feelings for him than he has for you, you don\u2019t want him to consider you as something casual.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it. Why would he be interested in a relationship when he\u2019s getting everything for free?<\/p>\n<p><b>Il legame emotivo che avete con lui potrebbe essere la vostra morte. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forse non la morte vera e propria, ma il massacro emotivo \u00e8 garantito.<\/p>\n<p>Il cuore si spezza tanto facilmente quando ci sono etichette quanto quando non ce ne sono.<\/p>\n<p>Se si trascorre del tempo con qualcuno, le emozioni si evolvono, ci si affeziona al di l\u00e0 dei propri sogni.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102605\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-alone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You text regularly, you hang out often, you have your inside jokes, you know each other\u2019s thoughts and the way you smell in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not just about sex; it\u2019s so much more. That\u2019s why the situation you find yourself in hurts just as breaking up would.<\/p>\n<p>Ci si ritrova a volere di pi\u00f9 e la realt\u00e0 schiaffeggia il fatto che lui potrebbe non avere pi\u00f9 nulla da dare.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, siate voi a decidere.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tear him down from that pedestal you placed him on if he isn\u2019t ready to treat you like a queen. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>He is your priority, your number one, the center of your universe, your king, but if he can\u2019t treat you the same, then he\u2019s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not ready to step up and make you completely his, he\u2019s not worthy of your time.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t allow more months or years to pass without being truly happy. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>La felicit\u00e0 va e viene dalla vostra vita, ma non rimane mai a lungo.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like he has power over it and all he\u2019s giving you are mere moments of unbelievable joy, only to spoil them with much larger periods of uncertainty.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102606\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta a terra vicino al balcone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-by-the-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are days where there\u2019s nothing he wouldn\u2019t do for you, and then there are others where a text back, a simple \u201cHow are you?\u201d and making plans to see you are too much effort.<\/p>\n<p><b>His mind and his heart are inconsistent, and they\u2019re making a mess out of your life. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vi fa intendere che le cose potrebbero cambiare. Parla dei suoi sentimenti per lei. Parla del futuro e fate progetti insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Then, out of the blue, he\u2019s nowhere to be found. He\u2019s \u201ctoo busy,\u201d he\u2019s with his friends night after night, he has no time for you until it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s disrespectful, to say the least, and it has to stop.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quello che devi ricordare a te stessa \u00e8 che meriti di meglio da lui, dalla vita, da te stessa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102607\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna sicura di s\u00e9 in posa con camicia bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-woman-posing-in-white-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From yourself primarily because it\u2019s all in your hands. You have to have standards.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t put up with someone\u2019s crappy behavior and low investments.<\/p>\n<p>Amate voi stessi come vorreste che qualcun altro vi amasse e tutto andr\u00e0 al suo posto.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve things from him if he\u2019s expecting relationship benefits. You deserve to be labeled as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Meritate rispetto, lealt\u00e0 e impegno. Meritate pi\u00f9 della met\u00e0 del suo cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Anche la vita vi deve qualcosa. Vi deve la pace nel cuore e l'amore nella vita. Dovete solo raggiungerli.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve a committed relationship where all your efforts are reciprocated and you aren\u2019t the only one making them.<\/p>\n<p>Meriti di essere ricambiato e di non essere quello che ama per due.<\/p>\n<p>So, if he isn\u2019t ready to be in a relationship, cut off all the benefits and inform him you\u2019re not ready for a non-relationship either.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102608\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-Dont-Give-Him-Relationship-Benefits-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se non vuole una relazione, non dategli i vantaggi di una relazione\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-Dont-Give-Him-Relationship-Benefits-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-Dont-Give-Him-Relationship-Benefits-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-Dont-Give-Him-Relationship-Benefits-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The chemistry is real, the feelings are there, the conversation is on point, and the lust is unstoppable. It seems you have it all\u2026 all but him. He says he\u2019s not ready for a relationship. He\u2019s giving you crumbs and he\u2019s always keeping you at arm\u2019s length. He hasn\u2019t let you all in and is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":102609,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-Dont-Give-Him-Relationship-Benefits.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44348","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44348"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44348\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102609"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44348"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44348"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44348"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}