{"id":44391,"date":"2019-10-07T11:10:19","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T11:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44391"},"modified":"2022-01-28T11:55:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T11:55:01","slug":"4-cose-che-avresti-dovuto-ricordare-prima-di-spezzarle-il-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-cose-che-avresti-dovuto-ricordare-prima-di-spezzarle-il-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cose che avresti dovuto ricordare prima di spezzarle il cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si fa del male a qualcuno, non si pensa alle conseguenze delle proprie azioni.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for the sake of the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra lasciare il partner e spezzargli il cuore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44393\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741.jpg\" alt=\"Vista laterale giovane donna che guarda lontano \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11961875741-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what you did to your ex-girlfriend: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lhai-solo-spezzata\/\">le hai spezzato il cuore<\/a> in un milione di pezzi.<\/p>\n<p>Hai scelto di essere un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-passi-per-affrontare-il-fidanzato-egoista\/\">stronzo egoista<\/a> who doesn\u2019t give a damn about her feelings and only looks after his own well-being.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, you planned that you\u2019ll get out of all of this unharmed while her pain was none of your business.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, \u00e8 proprio qui che vi siete sbagliati.<\/p>\n<h2>1. It won\u2019t make you feel any better<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611.jpg\" alt=\"Dolore sgradevole\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the first things you should have kept in mind before you decided to hurt this girl is that causing someone else pain doesn\u2019t heal yours.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t make you a badass or a player, and it\u2019s definitely not something you should be proud of.<\/p>\n<p>Humiliating someone else won\u2019t wipe out your insecurities and it won\u2019t boost your fragile ego.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking that you\u2019re above this girl won\u2019t make you think more of yourself and it certainly won\u2019t give you the self-confidence you desperately try to build in all the wrong ways.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t make you more appealing to other girls, nor will it cause envy in other guys.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, tutti vi vedranno per l'idiota che siete in realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly \u2013 sooner or later, you\u2019ll start seeing yourself as a selfish person who doesn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, you\u2019ll regret the fact that you were a jerk toward the last person who deserved it.<\/p>\n<h2>2. It\u2019s your loss<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44395\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo depresso e solitario a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando hai abbandonato questa ragazza, lei ha pensato che perderti fosse la cosa peggiore che potesse capitarle.<\/p>\n<p>She was convinced she\u2019d never recover and the devastating pain would haunt her for as long as she breathes.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, entrambi avete evidentemente dimenticato che in realt\u00e0 sei stato tu a perdere tutto, mentre lei ha guadagnato moltissimo.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she lost a man who never cared for her for real \u2013 a man who didn\u2019t deserve her unconditional love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, avete perso il vostro migliore amico e amante, tutto in una volta.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re sentenced to a life without the only person you could trust, the only woman who was ready to make sacrifices for your sake, and the girl who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ho-smesso-di-amarti-piu-di-quanto-ami-me-stesso\/\">ti ha amato pi\u00f9 di quanto abbia amato se stessa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, chi \u00e8 il vero perdente?<\/p>\n<p>Chi ha pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 di passare il resto dei propri giorni a rimpiangere le proprie scelte e chi ha pi\u00f9 probabilit\u00e0 di trovare il proprio \"vissero felici e contenti\"?<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo senza scrupoli, incapace di amare?<\/p>\n<p>O una ragazza dal cuore altruista che sa combattere per ci\u00f2 che ama?<\/p>\n<h2>3. You won\u2019t break her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna spensierata \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Despite all odds, when you crushed this girl\u2019s heart, you didn\u2019t manage to crush her entire being as well.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, l'avete solo resa pi\u00f9 forte e pi\u00f9 resistente.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, questa ragazza \u00e8 riuscita a ricostruire se stessa e a incollare di nuovo il suo cuore in frantumi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 riuscita a uscire da questo dolore pi\u00f9 forte che mai e lo ha usato a suo vantaggio.<\/p>\n<p>I know you hoped that she\u2019d spend the rest of her life missing you and begging you to come back.<\/p>\n<p>That she\u2019d forever remain hurt, in tears, and never really get over you.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you thought wrong. Obviously, you forgot everything she\u2019s capable of and how much she can take.<\/p>\n<p>And that is your biggest defeat: the fact that you\u2019re completely forgotten and that you haven\u2019t left a permanent mark on this girl, despite giving her a massive heartache.<\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/a-tutti-gli-imbroglioni-la-fuori-il-karma-e-una-puttana\/\">4. Il karma \u00e8 una stronza<\/a><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane uomo turbato, bevitore, alcolizzato \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'ultima cosa che questa ragazza ha in mente \u00e8 la vendetta.<\/p>\n<p>No matter what you might expect, she doesn\u2019t plan on getting even with you.<\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean your sins are pardoned.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re absolved and forgiven or that you won\u2019t pay for all of your misdeeds.<\/p>\n<p>This girl isn\u2019t a bitch, but karma is. And that is something you should\u2019ve remembered before acting like a jerk.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Vi assicuro che la vita vi far\u00e0 passare lo stesso strazio che avete causato a questa ragazza.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll feel all the humiliation, all the trauma, and all the pain she felt.<\/p>\n<p>Solo allora vi renderete conto della portata delle vostre azioni.<\/p>\n<p>Solo allora vi renderete conto di quanto siete effettivamente una pessima persona e vi pentirete di tutto quello che avete fatto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 cose che avresti dovuto ricordare prima di spezzarle il cuore\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Diese-Wichtige-Lektion-Wird-Jedes-Sternzeichen-Diesen-Oktober-Lernen2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you hurt someone, you don\u2019t think of the consequences of your actions. You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":44392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5809748771.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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