{"id":44411,"date":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44411"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","slug":"dopo-tutto-quello-che-e-successo-e-cosi-bello-stare-senza-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dopo-tutto-quello-che-e-successo-e-cosi-bello-stare-senza-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Dopo tutto quello che \u00e8 successo, \u00e8 cos\u00ec bello stare senza di te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ricordo che ero seduta sul mio letto e pensavo a tutto quello che era successo tra noi.<\/p>\n

I remember feeling guilty for destroying such a \u2018perfect\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n

Per molto tempo ho pensato di essere la responsabile di tutto ci\u00f2 che accadeva di brutto.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I couldn\u2019t imagine my life without you and I guess that is why I was so stubbornly looking for answers and reasons for our break-up.<\/p>\n

\"Bella<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t accept the fact that I would no longer see your face but now I\u2019m happy to say that it actually feels so good to be without you!<\/p>\n

It took me a while to finally open my eyes and realize how stupid I was to think that I wouldn\u2019t survive without you.<\/p>\n

L'unico motivo per cui ero convinto che la mia vita sarebbe finita insieme alla nostra rottura \u00e8 perch\u00e9 you made me believe that I\u2019m weak<\/a> e che ho bisogno che tu sia il mio salvatore!<\/p>\n

But guess what? I don\u2019t need you and, in fact, I realized that I never did.<\/b><\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel such bliss and happiness in my soul once you were gone, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel so much stronger after everything that happened, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t have believed them because I didn\u2019t want to believe.<\/p>\n

I was just running in circles, thinking that I\u2019d lost a big part of my soul once you were gone.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ho appena imparato una lezione preziosa!<\/p>\n

La vera verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non sei stata n\u00e9 pi\u00f9 n\u00e9 meno che una lezione che mi \u00e8 costata molte lacrime, attese e perdoni.<\/p>\n

\"Attraenti<\/p>\n

E dopo tutto questo, ragazzi, \u00e8 cos\u00ec bello stare senza di voi!<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec bello non aspettare la tua chiamata, \u00e8 cos\u00ec bello non aspettare le tue scuse ed \u00e8 cos\u00ec bello non fare di te la mia unica priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec bello pensare a me stesso per una volta e fregarsene delle vostre stronzate!<\/b><\/p>\n

It feels so good to know that every time I waited for you to call or text me, you were teaching me not to waste my time on those who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec bello sapere che ogni volta che mi hai fatto piangere, mi hai deliberatamente avvicinato a colui che mi far\u00e0 sorridere.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec bello sapere che ogni volta che ti aspettavi che comprassi le tue stronzate, mi stavi insegnando che <\/i>solo i veri uomini si sforzano di trattare le loro donne con rispetto<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m sorry to tell you this but you\u2019re definitely not one of them and you never will be.<\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t treat their women like shit and then expect them to stay.<\/p>\n

Combattono per loro dal primo all'ultimo secondo e non si arrendono mai, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

And it feels so good to finally realize that you\u2019re not that kind of man and you never will be.<\/p>\n

It feels so good to finally open my eyes and see the real truth that your heart doesn\u2019t have the capacity and it\u2019s simply not capable of loving anyone.<\/p>\n

L'unica persona che potrete mai amare \u00e8 voi stessi e quando finalmente lo capirete, sar\u00e0 troppo tardi.<\/p>\n

Quando lo capirai, probabilmente sar\u00f2 da qualche parte lontano da te e non avr\u00f2 mai la possibilit\u00e0 di vedere il tuo volto rammaricato.<\/p>\n

Ma, ehi, <\/b>il karma \u00e8 una stronza<\/b><\/a>, giusto?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

After everything that happened, it would be a shame if you didn\u2019t learn your lessons as well, just like I learned mine.<\/p>\n

And trust me, once you feel a taste of your own medicine, you will be delighted because no matter how bitter the truth is, it\u2019s the only thing that heals.<\/p>\n

No matter how painful our lessons are, they are the only things that can help us open our eyes and continue our cruise through life in a more balanced sea and with the person with whom we\u2019re meant to be.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, after everything that happened, I thank you for helping me realize that you were just a passenger through my journey called life and that one day I\u2019ll finally meet the one who will stay and teach me what love really is.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Ecco come ho imparato a vivere senza di te<\/a><\/p>\n

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