{"id":44678,"date":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","date_gmt":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44678"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","slug":"siete-il-bersaglio-di-un-sociopatico-10-modi-per-scoprirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/siete-il-bersaglio-di-un-sociopatico-10-modi-per-scoprirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Siete il bersaglio di un sociopatico? 10 modi per scoprirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Di solito, quando penso a un sociopatico, la mia mente va immediatamente ai film horror e ai programmi televisivi sui serial killer. <\/span><\/p>\n

But the frightening truth is, you\u2019ve probably encountered a sociopath more than once, without even being aware of it. Freaky, huh?<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a scary thought thinking that your next-door neighbor could be a sociopath in disguise or that <\/span>il tuo ex ragazzo<\/span><\/a> potrebbe benissimo avere gravi tendenze sociopatiche e che tu non ne hai avuto idea per tutto il tempo in cui siete stati insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s perfectly plausible. Sociopaths learn to blend in and go about their lives unnoticed for the most part. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il loro fascino \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che li aiuta a ingannare cos\u00ec bene e questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che personalmente mi spaventa veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you think you may have been involved with a sociopath? Or do you perhaps feel like you\u2019re being pursued (romantically) by one right now but are too scared to actually believe it?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If your gut feeling is trying to tell you something, my advice is to listen to it. Don\u2019t wait until it\u2019s <\/span><\/i>troppo tardi<\/span><\/i><\/a>! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Your gut feeling is there for a reason and I\u2019m sure it hasn\u2019t failed you so far.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ecco 10 segnali che indicano che potreste essere il bersaglio di un sociopatico. Non dovete assolutamente ignorarli. <\/span><\/p>\n

Leggete attentamente e fate la cosa migliore per voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Riesce ad affascinare facilmente anche il pubblico pi\u00f9 duro<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Digitazione<\/p>\n

I sociopatici sanno come usare l'adulazione per complimentarsi con le persone con il massimo piacere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Conosce l'equilibrio perfetto per non esagerare ma spingere al massimo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve noticed him charm the pants off the most difficult people to impress. And not many can do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is what\u2019s making you wonder if there\u2019s more to the story than what he\u2019s letting on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Attenzione per\u00f2: il fascino \u00e8 solo indicativo di un sociopatico, non \u00e8 una cosa sicura. Ci sono altri segnali da ricercare.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Mette da parte i vostri sentimenti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Problemi<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about anyone\u2019s feelings because they lack empathy. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you express your dissatisfaction with a situation or inform him that he\u2019s causing you sadness, he\u2019s going to disregard it.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care and he most probably won\u2019t try to hide it, unless he\u2019s using it as leverage. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you keep pushing him to feel something, he\u2019s going to put all the blame on you for trying to make him appear a certain way.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Sometimes you get the feeling he doesn\u2019t even believe the shit he\u2019s saying<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

The things he\u2019ll tell you and promise you will seem so implausible that you\u2019ll get the feeling he knows it as he\u2019s saying it but he just keeps going at it. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can lie his ass off, and while he\u2019s convincing for the most part, sometimes you just know he\u2019s not buying his own shit.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Mentire \u00e8 nella sua natura<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Essere bugiardi fa parte del pacchetto di un sociopatico. <\/span><\/p>\n

It can be anything from those little white lies you wouldn\u2019t think twice about to those severe, problematic lies about relevant things.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'avete colto in fallo molte volte, ma lui ha sempre avuto la scusa perfetta che vi \u00e8 piaciuta molto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma ora che ci si pensa, chi mente cos\u00ec tanto e <\/span>la fa franca<\/span><\/a> ogni volta con tanta facilit\u00e0?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Non si pu\u00f2 mai rimanere arrabbiati con lui<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Godersi<\/p>\n

E questo grazie alla sua competenza nella manipolazione! Sa sempre cosa dire per tranquillizzarvi, per farvi pensare che avete esagerato o per dargli un'altra possibilit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s perfect at that. And even though you\u2019re aware of it, you just fall for it every time. Staying mad at him is almost impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s ALWAYS there (you can\u2019t escape him)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go anywhere without him. He\u2019s somehow always there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vuole accompagnarvi ovunque andiate con la scusa di non poterne fare a meno.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s become a bit creepy. You can\u2019t shake the feeling he\u2019s somehow observing you, studying you and controlling you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to be able to go somewhere (anywhere!) without him but you can\u2019t and this is causing you major anxiety and fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s flaky and you can\u2019t count on him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Non fa quasi mai quello che promette di fare. Non viene quasi mai quando vi assicura che lo far\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is always a prior engagement he couldn\u2019t say no to. There is always something at work that he just can\u2019t escape.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che, <\/span>he just doesn\u2019t care enough<\/span><\/a> per essere al vostro fianco. <\/span><\/p>\n

He needs you to be there by his side but when it comes to you, he\u2019ll always make excuses and do as he pleases.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s always in-between jobs<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

This man can\u2019t hold on to a job to save his life. Sociopaths are most often unemployed due to getting fired because of their temper. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can blow up very easily and he doesn\u2019t know how to control himself when that happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sociopaths want everything their way or no way and they don\u2019t respond well to criticism. <\/span><\/p>\n

Per questo motivo non riescono a lavorare per pi\u00f9 di qualche settimana. Il fatto che si infiammino cos\u00ec facilmente rende impossibile per loro lavorare sotto chiunque.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re always the one to blame<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Marito<\/p>\n

Whatever he messes up, he\u2019ll find a way to pin it on you. If he has trouble with his attitude (which he does), he\u2019ll make you guilty for putting him in that situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever you get yelled at, you\u2019ll have had it coming because you\u2019re a bad partner and making him behave this way, when in fact it\u2019s in his nature, as is his need to assign blame.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Si sente in diritto di avere ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 tuo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"\u00e8<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about what\u2019s his and what\u2019s yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s dating you or courting you, he feels entitled to your money and possessions. And he\u2019ll have no problem letting you know.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll ask to take your credit card or expect you to pick up the check at a restaurant. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel obliged to partake in any expenses and this is the final sign that you are in fact dealing with a legit sociopath.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Siete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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