{"id":44705,"date":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44705"},"modified":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","slug":"perche-il-mio-ex-mi-ignora-6-modi-per-far-si-che-si-accorga-di-nuovo-di-te-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-il-mio-ex-mi-ignora-6-modi-per-far-si-che-si-accorga-di-nuovo-di-te-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 il mio ex mi ignora? 6 modi per farsi notare di nuovo da lui"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know this won’t make you feel a whole lot better right now, but the reasons why il tuo ex ragazzo <\/a>is ignoring you could very well be the things that you’re doing completely inadvertently!<\/p>\n

Mi spiego meglio. First, it’s important to note that sometimes it’s honestly not you<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Guys have this peculiar brain that only the male species can truly comprehend at times and therefore, you shouldn’t be taking it personally at all.<\/p>\n

Dio solo sa quali strane cose accadono nella loro testa e perch\u00e9 scelgono di comportarsi a volte in modo cos\u00ec malvagio.<\/p>\n

But we’re not here to delve into that, because that\u2019s a topic only a true professional can psycho-analyze (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

What I’m here to do is discuss things that you can actually control and change.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cose che influenzano il <\/b>possibili ragioni<\/b> Perch\u00e9 il vostro ex vi ignora e come potete convincerlo a parlarvi? <\/b>faccia a faccia<\/b> e, infine, ottenere il vostro <\/b>fidanzato indietro<\/b>!<\/b><\/p>\n

Riconquistare un ex non \u00e8 una missione cos\u00ec impegnativa se si giocano bene le proprie carte.<\/p>\n

Attraverso l'uso di messaggi di testo, social media<\/a>e l'uso intelligente della regola del non contatto, potete ribaltare completamente la situazione ed evitare i perfidi giochi mentali per convincerlo a smettere di ignorarvi.<\/p>\n

Once you’ve thoroughly read this article, you’ll have a very different outlook on his behavior and what exactly brought you two here.<\/p>\n

Perhaps, you’ll finally stop being ”the ex girlfriend” and climb your way back to his mind and heart.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, in order to get a clear perspective on things, guys simply need some time and space to figure out the real reasons behind this possibly big mistake they’re making.<\/p>\n

Certo, anche voi avete contribuito alla rottura, ma come individui, entrambi potreste usare questo tempo in modo saggio per fare un esame di coscienza e capire cosa volete veramente.<\/p>\n

Gli errori pi\u00f9 comuni dopo la rottura<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 la parte cruciale. Dopo la rottura<\/a>, it’s important NOT to do any of the following activities that I’m about to list here.<\/p>\n

All of these will make you seem desperate, needy, and clingy, and I know that’s the last thing you want to have happen.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini possono percepire queste cose a chilometri e chilometri di distanza.<\/p>\n

They know when you’ve reached your breaking point and will do pretty much anything to get their attention.<\/p>\n

And they’re not fans of it! Never let your ex-partner see the effect this breakup has had on you.<\/p>\n

La prima volta che lo sentite dopo la rottura potrebbe essere il fattore decisivo, quindi mantenete una certa classe (ma con tono impertinente) e conservate le telefonate disperate per dopo, quando la vostra testa sar\u00e0 in uno spazio migliore.<\/p>\n

These are the most common reasons guys don’t want to give you una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/a> dopo aver fatto una pausa, perch\u00e9 danno un'immagine sbagliata e inquietante di voi.<\/p>\n

Fate attenzione a questi:<\/p>\n

1. Esagerare con gli SMS<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The relationship is over (for now). He doesn’t want to be with you right now, and you need to respect it and learn to accept it as your new reality.<\/p>\n

Don’t overdo it with the texting! Don’t keep bothering him and proving to him that he was right to break up with you.<\/p>\n

Show him you’re mature enough to accept this and once you’ve gathered your thoughts, you can work out a plan on how to riprenderlo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ma mandargli troppi messaggi, troppo presto, vi far\u00e0 ottenere l'effetto opposto.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 mai vorresti messaggiare con un ex fidanzato? Rispetta quello che vuole il tuo ex e lascia perdere il tuo cuore.<\/p>\n

Non avere contatti dopo la rottura \u00e8 il modo migliore per guarire ed essere pronti ad affrontarlo di nuovo.<\/p>\n

2. Dichiarare eccessivamente il proprio amore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tesoro, so che \u00e8 uno schifo e capisco quanto fa male, e te lo dico dal posto pi\u00f9 autentico del mio cuore.<\/p>\n

Gridare il vostro amore dai tetti una volta che la vostra relazione \u00e8 finita \u00e8 il modo pi\u00f9 controproducente per riconquistare il vostro ex.<\/p>\n

If your ex says he needs enough time, please don’t make it harder on both of you.<\/p>\n

Anche se prova ancora qualcosa per te, questo render\u00e0 la decisione ancora pi\u00f9 difficile per lui.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe essere una persona nuova nella vostra vita e se continuate a soffocarlo con il vostro amore, potrebbe benissimo essere l'ultima volta.<\/p>\n

This is real life; it’s not a movie. He isn\u2019t magically going to change his mind if you keep being persistent. <\/p>\n

Chiedetevi questo: Cosa <\/i>faccio io<\/i> se voglio davvero che lo faccia <\/i>amarmi<\/i>? <\/i><\/p>\n

Continuo a spingerlo oltre il limite con la mia insistenza, oppure gli do <\/i>tempo sufficiente<\/i> e pregare che alla fine scelga me?<\/i><\/p>\n

<\/i>And I believe you’ll know what to do.<\/p>\n

3. Parlare male di lui agli amici<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In generale, mettere in cattiva luce le persone \u00e8 la qualit\u00e0 che preferisco di meno. Credo che il karma risolver\u00e0 la questione (prima o poi).<\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 semplice da fare \u00e8 tenere per s\u00e9 i cattivi pensieri.<\/p>\n

Why? Because during your moments of anger and bitterness, you\u2019re extremely likely to share things that you know you shouldn’t and probably over-exaggerate. One day, you will come to regret this, but then it will essere troppo tardi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quindi la cosa migliore \u00e8 non parlarne male con nessuno, perch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 solo questione di tempo prima che lo venga a sapere.<\/p>\n

E una volta che ci\u00f2 accade, potete dire addio alla vostra riconciliazione. Le persone commettono errori, e questo include sia voi che il vostro ex.<\/p>\n

Mantenete i vostri problemi personali e risolvete tutto tra di voi.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Perch\u00e9 il mio amico mi ignora? 20 ragioni e soluzioni<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

6 modi per convincere il vostro ex a smettere di ignorarvi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve covered the basic mistakes girls tend to to after the breakup, you’re ready to actually start doing something about it.<\/p>\n

When your ex ignores you, the smartest thing to do is to lay low for a while, until you’ve figured out what you want and the best way to get it. The point of this is for him to see you as a new person.<\/p>\n

Una donna disposta e pronta a lavorare sui suoi problemi e a rispettare la sacralit\u00e0 di una relazione. Una donna per cui vale la pena lottare.<\/p>\n

And when he sees you the next day (and all the following casual run-ins that will likely occur), he needs to see that breaking up with you was the biggest mistake he’s ever made. In other words, you need to fargli rimpiangere di averti persa<\/a>. <\/p>\n

E seguire le 6 regole che seguono \u00e8 il modo esatto per farlo.<\/p>\n

1. Rispettare i suoi limiti<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se dice che ha bisogno di spazio e di tempo per capire le cose, concedeteglielo.<\/p>\n

If he shares with you a painful reason for his sudden pulling away, try to put yourself in his shoes, and understand where he’s coming from.<\/p>\n

Try to flip the situation. Let’s say you were the one who initiated the breakup.<\/p>\n

Era lei che doveva darsi una regolata e trovare una via d'uscita alla sua difficile situazione.<\/p>\n

Vi andrebbe bene se il vostro ex partner vi tormentasse con delle domande?<\/p>\n

Lo farebbe sembrare pi\u00f9 attraente per voi o forse vi sentireste pi\u00f9 distanti da lui che mai?<\/p>\n

I think you get the gist! Prove to him you’re an understanding ex girlfriend, and don’t pry!<\/p>\n

Respect his wishes and give him his much needed time. If it’s destinato ad essere<\/a> between you two, eventually it’s going to happen \u2013 don’t rush it.<\/p>\n

2. Esplorate la vostra nuova indipendenza<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A mio parere, la qualit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 attraente che una persona possa avere \u00e8 la capacit\u00e0 di trovare almeno una piccola parte di bene in ogni situazione di merda.<\/p>\n

It’s no easy task, but if you’re adamant, you’re going to succeed! And right now, you get to explore the lengths of your newfound independence!<\/p>\n

Puoi fare quello che vuoi e con chi vuoi!<\/p>\n

Go out to that new club you’ve been DYING to go to (but never did because it’s mostly for singles) and dance the night away with hot strangers.<\/p>\n

Sleep in on the weekends knowing you’ve got nobody to see now, therefore no reason to annoy yourself with setting the alarm!<\/p>\n

Take a trip by yourself. Find new hobbies. Explore the parts of yourself that you’ve been neglecting for months!<\/p>\n

Once you understand how enriching and profound this can be, you’re going to thrive in your independence and learn to appreciate life more than ever!<\/p>\n

And once your ex sees you living your best life with NO regrets, he’s going to want to reconnect with you! And it’s completely up to you how you handle it from then on.<\/p>\n

3. Godetevi del tempo di qualit\u00e0 con i vostri amici comuni<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 un modo infallibile per attirare la sua attenzione e non sembrare disperati.<\/p>\n

If you’ve got friends in common, that’s the perfect opportunity to subtly let him know how easy, breezy, and chill you are!<\/p>\n

Mostrargli che ha lasciato andare una cattura totale<\/a> divertendovi al massimo con i vostri amici, e assicuratevi di scattare una o due foto!<\/p>\n

They are for sure going to talk to him eventually and you can bet your ass he’s going to ask about you.<\/p>\n

And all they’ll have to say is that you’ve been absolutely thriving and they’re enjoying this new, awesome girl you’ve become since the breakup. He will then have two options.<\/p>\n

Either to keep playing it cool and pretend that he doesn’t care, OR he’ll actually admit to himself what an ass he was for letting you go and shoot you a text, asking you to meet up.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi solo di essere spensierati e rilassati come sempre una volta che sar\u00e0 successo.<\/p>\n

You want him to notice you at your best! And then \u2013 the ball is in his court.<\/p>\n

And I just hope he’s smart enough not to let you go twice.<\/p>\n

4. ”Accidentally” run into him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is the guy you’ve been dating for a while, right? So you pretty much know him to his core.<\/p>\n

Therefore, running into him ”by accident” should be a piece of cake! You pretty much know everything there is to know about him, and it’s almost too easy.<\/p>\n

Sapete dove esce e dove va a mangiare. Magari potreste fare una passeggiata nel quartiere quando sapete che ci va di solito e, naturalmente, apparire al meglio!<\/p>\n

If you know where he’s going to be the following weekend (courtesy of mutual friends) go get your girls and make a night of it!<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi veda completamente felici, senza preoccupazioni e di ottimo umore.<\/p>\n

Fate finta di aver dimenticato che anche lui frequenta questo posto e iniziate a parlare in modo del tutto casuale.<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 che lui ha la possibilit\u00e0 di vedervi e parlarvi in un ambiente privo di stress e quando \u00e8 passato abbastanza tempo.<\/p>\n

That way, he’ll have had time to figure his shit out and seeing you could resolve all of his doubts!<\/p>\n

5. Iniziare a frequentare un nuovo ragazzo<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Of course, this shouldn’t be anything serious and meaningful. Just a cute guy to spend some time with and get your fix when you’re in need.<\/p>\n

After all, you’re only human. But the trick here is to get your ex to somehow find out in order to gauge his reaction.<\/p>\n

See, when a guy lets you go, he doesn’t really know what he just gave up until he sees you in the company of another man.<\/p>\n

Beh, dategli questa opportunit\u00e0! Fate conoscere la vostra piccola avventura, ma non siate mai troppo appariscenti. <\/p>\n

Potrebbe andargli bene, ma \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 probabile che si ingelosisca e cominci a mettere in discussione la sua decisione di ignorarvi.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure, though: you’ll have his attention, and that’s a great start.<\/p>\n

6. Utilizzare i social media a proprio vantaggio<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Since you two are currently not together, he doesn’t really have an insight into your life anymore.<\/p>\n

And in the beginning that’s totally okay, for the sake of both of you healing.<\/p>\n

But after a while, you’ll both be wondering what the other one is up to. And therein comes social media!<\/p>\n

If you want him to know where you are and what exciting thing you’re doing today, be sly about it and post a cute pic with a location of course on Instagram, or tweet about that new place you just went to that’s absolutely bananas.<\/p>\n

That’s the easiest way for him to see what you’ve been up to and casually run into you \u2013 if he wants to, of course.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn’t, at least he’ll know you’re still enjoying your life and that you’ve been doing fantastic after the breakup!<\/p>\n

Vedere regolarmente il vostro volto potrebbe fargli iniziare a mancanza di te<\/a> e questo potrebbe portarlo a mandarti un messaggio!<\/p>\n

You never know what might happen, so never count anything out. Use the tools you have to get your ex to stop ignoring you and you’ll know you did your best! Either way, you’ll be just fine, trust me.<\/p>\n

You’ve survived worse things, and you’ll certainly get through this, no matter the outcome!<\/p>\n

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