{"id":44748,"date":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","slug":"questa-volta-le-sue-scuse-non-sono-sufficienti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questa-volta-le-sue-scuse-non-sono-sufficienti\/","title":{"rendered":"Questa volta le vostre scuse non sono semplicemente sufficienti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Abbiamo gi\u00e0 percorso questa strada. Mi spezzi, sparisci dalla mia vita, mi fai sentire come se non valessi nulla.<\/p>\n<p>Poi torni di nuovo con le tue finte parole di scuse, e io ti riprendo come se non fosse successo nulla.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non questa volta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s pointless. That apology has no value.<\/p>\n<p>If you were genuinely sorry for something, you would never repeat the same mistake again. You wouldn\u2019t hurt me again and again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you think I will forgive you. Why wouldn\u2019t you think that\u2014I did it so many times before? But you are wrong this time, and I\u2019m going to prove it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There comes a point in every woman\u2019s life when enough is enough. When she can\u2019t handle any more bs. A point in which she realizes that it doesn\u2019t matter how much she loves a man, she has to love herself more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I do love myself enough not to stay with someone who double-crossed me so many times, who promised me the stars and gave me the dust. I am not falling for your sob stories anymore. I am done with being understanding about your needs, your \u201cbusy schedules\u201d and your painful history.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look around. Each and every one of us has their cross to bear and that doesn\u2019t give us an excuse to treat someone like crap.<\/p>\n<p>So enough with your excuses, I\u2019m sick of hearing them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ll be stronger than myself this time. I will be stronger than my feelings, than my loneliness because I was so lonely in this whole drama with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44752\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg\" alt=\"uomo si pente di ci\u00f2 che ha fatto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi merito di pi\u00f9, mi merito qualcuno che non abbia nulla di importante di cui scusarsi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi merito problemi di relazione normali, non tragedie epiche come quelle che mi hai fatto passare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I deserve someone who won\u2019t look at my heart as a stop along the way from which point he can drop by, make a mess, and leave. I deserve to be someone&#8217;s destination.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Can you get that a simple \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d can\u2019t erase everything you put me through?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It can\u2019t take back all those sleepless nights I spent crying and thinking about what I did to deserve your poor treatment. There is nothing you can do to undo the damage you caused.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44753\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg\" alt=\"donna rifiuta il fidanzato\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you might not agree with me. I know you always think you didn\u2019t screw up that badly. I know you diminish your mistakes. I know you blame half of it on me. I know you want another chance.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Un'altra possibilit\u00e0 per quello che vi chiedo?<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>Fare di nuovo le stesse cose con me? No, grazie.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hai perso tutte le tue possibilit\u00e0 con me. Se fossi sinceramente dispiaciuto, avremmo risolto tutto con le tue prime scuse molto tempo fa. Tutto quello che dovevi fare era mettere in pratica le tue parole.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn\u2019t. You just broke me again, and it was worse than the last time.<\/p>\n<p>Your sorry wasn\u2019t honest the first time, and it will never be. That\u2019s why I accept your apology, but I don\u2019t accept you in my life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44755\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Questa volta le vostre scuse non sono semplicemente sufficienti \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve been down this road before. You break me, disappear from my life, make me feel like I was worth nothing. Then you come back again with your fake words of apology, and I take you back as nothing happened. Not this time. You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":44749,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10697247261.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}