{"id":44816,"date":"2019-10-11T12:13:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-11T12:13:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44816"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:27","slug":"alla-ragazza-in-lutto-per-la-perdita-di-qualcuno-che-e-ancora-vivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-in-lutto-per-la-perdita-di-qualcuno-che-e-ancora-vivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che soffre per la perdita di una persona ancora viva"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you hear the word “loss,” the first thing that comes to mind is probably death.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s losing someone forever; it\u2019s someone abandoning you and this world for good without the possibility of ever coming back. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando si pensa alla perdita, si immaginano immediatamente le persone in lutto per la persona amata che \u00e8 venuta a mancare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Senza dubbio, questo \u00e8 il dolore peggiore che ognuno di noi possa provare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, we\u2019re all aware of death our entire life and we know that it\u2019s inevitable, but the truth is that nothing can prepare you for the moment when you have to face the fact that you\u2019ve forever lost someone you love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nothing can prepare you for the fact that life continues and you have to keep going, despite this overwhelming sadness that consumes you, where you feel like there\u2019s this extremely heavy stone lying on your chest.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, la morte \u00e8 la perdita definitiva. E fa male pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Silhouette<\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that it\u2019s the only loss you can experience in life. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the only situation where you\u2019re allowed to mourn losing someone you deeply care for.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedete, quando <\/span>farsi spezzare il cuore<\/span><\/a> by the person you thought was your other half, when you get abandoned by someone you trusted the most, when you\u2019re betrayed by the only person you thought you could rely on, and when someone you love leaves you, you\u2019re allowed to grieve as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 anche questa \u00e8 una situazione in cui si sperimenta una perdita dolorosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what\u2019s happening to you: you\u2019re mourning the loss of someone who is alive. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re grieving over the loss of a man who is healthy, sane, and happy somewhere far away from you.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t make your sorrow any less intense or any less important. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because you really did lose him and you really don\u2019t have him in your life anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"bianco<\/p>\n

You\u2019re grieving over the fact that you need to continue your life without him by your side. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re grieving over all the mornings you\u2019ll wake up alone without him on the other side of the bed, all of your birthdays without him, all the texts you\u2019ll never receive, all the goodnight kisses you have to say goodbye to, and every dream you two had that will never turn into reality.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re crying because <\/span>ti manca<\/span><\/a> and you know you\u2019ll probably miss him for a while. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because you know that there is no coming back \u2013 that you\u2019ll never hug him or hold him by the arm again.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re mourning the person you were next to this guy. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re grieving the death of your relationship, the spiritual death of the vulnerable girl you once were, and the death of love that used to exist between the two of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

This is also a final loss, isn\u2019t it? You lost this guy for good and he\u2019s never coming back.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t you ever think that you\u2019re not allowed to suffer and don\u2019t you ever be ashamed of your pain. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be embarrassed over the fact that you still haven\u2019t healed or let anyone tell you that you\u2019re overreacting.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>\n

Yes, this is not the end of the world and, yes, there are definitely much worse things one can experience during one\u2019s lifetime. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, your pain is yours only and you should never compare it to anyone else\u2019s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, c'\u00e8 una differenza fondamentale tra il lutto per qualcuno che \u00e8 morto e quello per qualcuno che \u00e8 ancora vivo: nel vostro caso, c'\u00e8 sempre speranza. <\/b><\/p>\n

Hope that one day, you\u2019ll forget all about this feeling and that you\u2019ll completely recover, like this heartbreak never happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando si vive la morte di una persona cara, una cosa del genere lascia una cicatrice permanente nell'anima. <\/span><\/p>\n

Con il tempo, il dolore viene superato in una certa misura, ma diventa una parte di noi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, quando si ha il cuore spezzato, c'\u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 di uscirne indenni. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is hope that there\u2019ll come a day when you\u2019ll <\/span>guarire completamente<\/span><\/a>, without everything you\u2019ve been through influencing you in any way.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you hear the word “loss,” the first thing that comes to mind is probably death. It\u2019s losing someone forever; it\u2019s someone abandoning you and this world for good without the possibility of ever coming back. When you think about loss, you immediately envision the people grieving over their loved one who passed away.  Without…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":44820,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/featured-2.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44816"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44816\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}