{"id":44881,"date":"2019-10-14T11:02:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T11:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44881"},"modified":"2022-02-11T04:14:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T04:14:31","slug":"ecco-perche-un-narcisista-non-puo-fare-a-meno-di-tradirti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-un-narcisista-non-puo-fare-a-meno-di-tradirti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 un narcisista non pu\u00f2 fare a meno di tradirti"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever had the displeasure of being involved <\/span>con un narcisista<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019m sure by now you\u2019re aware that nothing good can come out of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sono come una malattia che prende pezzi della vostra anima fino a quando non sono pronti ad agganciarsi a una nuova vittima.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stare con un narcisista \u00e8 estenuante, drenante, doloroso e senza fine. <\/span><\/p>\n

They charm the shit out of you, whip their claws into you (metaphorically), and don\u2019t let go until THEY decide to.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non sono bravi nelle relazioni, per non dire altro. <\/span><\/p>\n

La loro mancanza di empatia e di considerazione per altri che non siano loro stessi \u00e8 frustrante. <\/span><\/p>\n

A volte si ha la sensazione che ci sia molto di pi\u00f9 da <\/span>il vostro narcisista<\/span><\/a> than his manipulation and deceit \u2013 and then he proves you wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s endless cycles of misery, false hopefulness and lies that keep shocking you even though don\u2019t even know why. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'unica cosa sconvolgente sarebbe il suo esatto contrario.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is why cheating is almost like second nature to them. One woman simply won\u2019t do. <\/span><\/p>\n

And while this is not a fact for every single narcissist out there \u2013 it is for the majority of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imbrogliare d\u00e0 loro un senso di sollievo, controllo e realizzazione. Li mette al di sopra di voi e d\u00e0 loro la sensazione di potere di una vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma perch\u00e9 hanno bisogno di tradire per sentirsi appagati?<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 si sentono in diritto di imbrogliare? Perch\u00e9 pensano di poterlo fare e di farla franca? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Cosa c'\u00e8 di cos\u00ec allettante nel tradire?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Here, I\u2019ll break down some of the answers to those. Here are some of the most common reasons why narcissists resort to cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. A narcissist needs attention and oftentimes, one woman simply isn\u2019t enough.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

One could say this about men in general almost, but with narcissists, it\u2019s more severe. A narcissist needs to feel adored and admired. <\/span><\/p>\n

He needs to be the object of everyone\u2019s attention, and that goes for his romantic relationships as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

One woman\u2019s attention rarely satisfies all of his needs. He needs more. He needs to feel like he\u2019s on top of the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di accrescere il suo ego e di far esplodere la sua mente. Ed \u00e8 per questo che cercher\u00e0 la compagnia di altre donne. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 la sua grandiosit\u00e0 viene ammirata, pi\u00f9 il suo senso di s\u00e9 si gonfia.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Il narcisista crede davvero di avere diritto a pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Silhouette<\/p>\n

Il narcisista ha un complesso di superiorit\u00e0 che gli fa credere di poter prendere tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole perch\u00e9 ne ha diritto. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 sinceramente convinto di meritare pi\u00f9 di me e di voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this includes romantic partners (even though there\u2019s really no romance there). To him, right or wrong doesn\u2019t play a part here. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is above anyone, and rules don\u2019t apply to him. He gets to take what he feels he has the right to, and he answers to nobody.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 <\/span>ti tradisce<\/span><\/a> e poi ti fa sentire in colpa per esserti arrabbiato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Gioca secondo un insieme di regole completamente diverse, che giustificano il suo comportamento moralmente riprovevole.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. A narcissist\u2019s ego doesn\u2019t let him play by the rules<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

His ego often gets the best of him. Even if he wanted to be faithful, his inflated ego wouldn\u2019t let him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un narcisista si mette in un sacco di situazioni in cui \u00e8 tentato, e lo fa di proposito.<\/span><\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stay put, and he can\u2019t stay away from people (read: women). He needs his fix. <\/span><\/p>\n

So when he\u2019s in one of those situations, his ego won\u2019t let him restrain himself.  He\u2019ll never think of the woman waiting for him at home. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will welcome any opportunity he gets to get his fix, and he\u2019ll feel boastful about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

He simply doesn\u2019t care to do anything discreetly. It\u2019s not his style.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Il narcisista ha un'elevata pulsione sessuale<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Per un narcisista, il sesso \u00e8 una droga. Ha bisogno di farne il pi\u00f9 possibile per darsi una spinta e dimostrare agli altri il proprio valore. <\/span><\/p>\n

He has a stronger libido than most people which doesn\u2019t let him stay celibate for long. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if the sex with his partner doesn\u2019t satisfy his needs, he\u2019ll start looking elsewhere. You may believe that you have a good <\/span>vita sessuale<\/span><\/a>e questo potrebbe essere il caso. <\/span><\/p>\n

But unlike with a normal partner who would appreciate it and never think of straying, a narcissist isn\u2019t built that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how much you give him, he\u2019ll always need more. And that is entirely on him.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Il narcisista si sente in controllo quando tradisce<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

To him, cheating is like a power trip. He is showing you that he can (and will!) do as he pleases, and you\u2019ll just have to put up with it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Un narcisista gode<\/a> l'inseguimento. Gode e si nutre della capacit\u00e0 di sedurre un'altra donna e di portarsela a letto. <\/span><\/p>\n

It gives him control and a sense of accomplishment. And while he\u2019s with that other girl, he knows there\u2019s nothing you can do about it which gives him control over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

E il sesso, soprattutto quello proibito, \u00e8 per lui l'ultima forma di controllo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being able to get away with it knowing you\u2019re stuck with him, gives him more control than a person could ever need.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever had the displeasure of being involved with a narcissist, I\u2019m sure by now you\u2019re aware that nothing good can come out of it.  They are like a disease that takes bits and pieces of your soul until they are ready to latch onto a new victim. Being with a narcissist is exhausting,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":44888,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_297442040.jpg",800,525,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44888"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}