{"id":44903,"date":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44903"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","slug":"sono-single-perche-voglio-5-cose-che-solo-un-vero-uomo-puo-dare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sono-single-perche-voglio-5-cose-che-solo-un-vero-uomo-puo-dare\/","title":{"rendered":"Sono single perch\u00e9 voglio 5 cose che solo un uomo vero pu\u00f2 dare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dopo aver frequentato cos\u00ec tante cause perse, ho iniziato a credere che ci fosse qualcosa di veramente sbagliato in me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era il mio aspetto, il mio modo di parlare o il mio strano senso dell'umorismo?<\/span><\/p>\n

Come pu\u00f2 una persona avere tanta sfortuna quando si tratta di uomini? <\/span><\/p>\n

L'unica cosa in comune con tutti quei fallimenti ero io! Questa \u00e8 stata la conclusione che ho tratto dopo la mia ultima relazione di merda.<\/span><\/p>\n

E ora posso dire onestamente che ho smesso di dare la colpa a me stesso. <\/span><\/p>\n

I <\/span>sopportare <\/span><\/a>much less than I should have because I didn\u2019t believe that one man could fulfill all of my (perfectly reasonable) needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you know what? Just any man can\u2019t. But <\/span>un vero uomo<\/span><\/a> pu\u00f2!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

And as rare of a species as they seem these days, I\u2019m sure that somewhere there\u2019s a man who won\u2019t find my needs and wants too much to ask for.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will happily provide me with everything I need (emotionally) and not complain that I\u2019m being overbearing.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t run away when it gets hard and who will be there in person<\/span>\u2014<\/span>non solo tramite testo. Finora<\/span>\u2014<\/span>non ha avuto fortuna. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is why I choose to be single. And I\u2019m totally okay with that.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a man who\u2019ll only make me half happy. I don\u2019t need a man who needs ME to take care of him. <\/span><\/p>\n

In a relationship, it goes both ways and I\u2019m done taking on the mother role to immature boys who can\u2019t take care of themselves, let alone a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 non trover\u00f2 un uomo in grado di fornirmi queste 5 cose che ogni donna dovrebbe avere dal proprio partner, sceglier\u00f2 di rimanere felicemente single.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Voglio un uomo che creda nella comunicazione aperta<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

This honestly doesn\u2019t seem too much to ask. It\u2019s like when did conversation go out of style? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigh… I really need a man who will communicate with me about the good stuff AND the bad. It\u2019s easy to have a conversation when it\u2019s all peachy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di un uomo che mi faccia notare le mie cazzate invece di tenere il broncio in silenzio e rinfacciarmele in un secondo momento. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s childish AF! Be a man and tell me what\u2019s wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ditemi quando avete un problema con qualcosa che ho fatto e dimostratemi che ci tenete a lavorare su di noi!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Voglio un uomo che si assuma la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"\u00c8<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to play the \u2018blame game\u2019. I don\u2019t want to have to wonder if I\u2019ll be hearing a bunch of ridiculous excuses when you do something wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the end of the world, so talk to me and own up to your shit!<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll love you twice as much if you can be a man and admit when you\u2019re at fault. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll appreciate it more than you know if you can say you\u2019re sorry to my face and mean it! <\/span><\/p>\n

Being honest when it\u2019s hard is what relationships are all about. Take responsibility for your actions and we won\u2019t have a problem!<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Voglio un uomo che sia affidabile e leale<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Be my safe harbor. Be my rock when I have no one to turn to. Don\u2019t take my trust <\/span>per scontato.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me regret opening up to you. That\u2019s not easy for me, you know?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you tell me you\u2019re going to do something, do it. If you promise me you\u2019ll pick me up for our date night, do it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me think I can\u2019t trust you. The one person I should be able to trust with my life is you! And I do. So don\u2019t make me question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

If I realize that I can trust you with anything, our relationship is going to blossom. I promise I\u2019ll be the same with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ricambiate il favore e potremo essere la coppia a cui tutti aspirano!<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Voglio un uomo dotato di empatia e compassione<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"appuntamento<\/p>\n

I really need you to understand when I\u2019m going through something and know how to be there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I need a man who can hold my hand even though I may seem like I don\u2019t want it (hint: I always do!).<\/span><\/p>\n

Se mi succede qualcosa di doloroso, ho bisogno che tu sia presente in ogni momento. Non perch\u00e9 sentiate di doverlo fare, ma perch\u00e9 lo volete. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho bisogno che tu <\/span>amarmi abbastanza<\/span><\/a> to be sad when I\u2019m sad. I don\u2019t mean this to come out the wrong way but I think you know what I mean.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando ami qualcuno, la sua felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 la tua felicit\u00e0 e la sua tristezza \u00e8 la tua tristezza. E questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che desidero pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentire il cuore sinceramente spezzato quando soffro. Il mio cuore si spezza quando qualcuno che amo sta soffrendo. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec tanto da chiedere a un uomo?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Voglio un uomo che sia emotivamente maturo e solidale<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

La maturit\u00e0 emotiva \u00e8 una caratteristica che non ho mai riscontrato in un uomo. Quindi posso solo sognare di trovarne uno cos\u00ec. Ma lo prendo come un buon segno. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tutti i ragazzi con cui sono uscita prima erano immaturi e ora so cosa cercare!<\/span><\/p>\n

And when I find it, I\u2019ll know that I\u2019ve found myself a real man. A man who doesn\u2019t get irrationally mad if I want to go out with my friends. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t throw a fit if he sees me talking to a guy friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un uomo che mi sostiene e si fida di me. Un uomo che sappia che il mio cuore batte per lui e per nessun altro. <\/span><\/p>\n

Qualcuno che sia abbastanza maturo da non lasciare che la stupida gelosia rovini ci\u00f2 che abbiamo. E quest'uomo \u00e8 l\u00e0 fuori da qualche parte. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know this. And I\u2019ll remain single until I meet somebody exactly like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Sono<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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