{"id":44979,"date":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44979"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","slug":"5-segreti-sconvolgenti-che-il-vostro-narcisista-spera-di-non-farvi-mai-scoprire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segreti-sconvolgenti-che-il-vostro-narcisista-spera-di-non-farvi-mai-scoprire\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segreti sconvolgenti che il vostro narcisista spera di non farvi mai scoprire"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure you\u2019d love to hear a few things that will come in really handy when trattare con <\/a>narcisisti in futuro, giusto?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019ve got them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re familiar with the fact that all narcissists use manipulation and tricks to fool even the smartest person in the room.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve got a tactic in place for every situation they get themselves into.<\/p>\n

Sappiamo tutti che fanno affidamento sulla loro capacit\u00e0 di interpretare un ruolo (e potente) che si adatta a ogni singola persona che hanno preso di mira per la manipolazione attuale.<\/p>\n

Possono facilmente adattarsi a chi stanno ingannando per ottenere il meglio da loro e poi lasciarli a bocca asciutta.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Ma ci sono alcuni things you didn\u2019t know about narcissists<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Cose che vorrebbero non si sapessero.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 questi segreti sono cose che permettono loro di fare grandi sforzi nei loro giochi senza essere scoperti.<\/p>\n

Questi segreti sono le chiavi del loro gioco.<\/p>\n

And now you\u2019ll have a way out the next time a narcissist plagues your life and tries to get his way with you.<\/p>\n

In questo modo sar\u00e0 facile capirli, fargli notare le loro cazzate e farli sentire vulnerabili ed esposti.<\/p>\n

Che \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che fanno a tutte le loro vittime.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s going to be a piece of cake every single time, but it\u2019s definitely going to make them question everything they thought they knew.<\/p>\n

Giocare al suo gioco<\/a> imparando questi 5 segreti che il vostro narcisista non ha mai voluto farvi conoscere!<\/p>\n

1. Fare il finto tonto gli far\u00e0 togliere la maschera molto pi\u00f9 rapidamente<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Il testa a testa con un narcisista manipolatore \u00e8 destinato a finire dolorosamente per voi.<\/p>\n

Conoscono troppo bene il loro mestiere per lasciare che qualcuno li colga di sorpresa.<\/p>\n

But I\u2019ve got something better for you anyway. Play dumb.<\/p>\n

Act as if you were the na\u00efve girl he wishes you were.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him see that there\u2019s more to you than meets the eye.<\/p>\n

The more he thinks you\u2019re dumb and na\u00efve, the less he\u2019s going to try to cover up his real self, and this will give you an incredible insight into who he really is.<\/p>\n

He is not going to try to hide himself if he believes you\u2019re not smart or paying attention.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, you\u2019ll be observing in silence and watching his every move, studying his tricks and learning what sets him off.<\/p>\n

Play the slow game and eventually you\u2019ll end up knowing him better than he knows himself.<\/p>\n

2. Keep a record of his misdeeds \u2013 being found out is their biggest fear<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un narcisista \u00e8 un predatore. E tutti i predatori hanno paura di essere scoperti e che le loro malefatte vengano alla luce del sole.<\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s important that you document every form of abuse he puts you through.<\/p>\n

Cercate di farlo nel modo pi\u00f9 discreto possibile.<\/p>\n

Fotografate un livido, se mai ve ne ha fatto uno.<\/p>\n

Registrate segretamente i suoi sfoghi violenti e manipolatori con il vostro telefono nascosto in tasca.<\/p>\n

Film him from a safe distance if he\u2019s engaged in a misdeed you believe could be used against him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him know about this and when the time comes, use all of this evidence in the best way you see fit, and get rid of him once and for all with solid evidence even his evil charm can\u2019t get him out of.<\/p>\n

3. Rimanere indifferenti \u00e8 il loro pi\u00f9 grande cruccio<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They feed off their victims\u2019 reaction. It gives them fuel to keep going and work at their tricks twice as hard.<\/p>\n

Ma ci\u00f2 che li fa impazzire \u00e8 non ottenere la reazione sperata.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 davvero il loro pi\u00f9 grande cruccio.<\/p>\n

Mantenere la calma di fronte alle sue stronzate.<\/p>\n

Rimanete in silenzio quando lui vuole chiaramente e disperatamente che voi reagiate impulsivamente.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of doing exactly what he planned you\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

E poi guardarlo mentre si gratta la testa (in senso figurato) incredulo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll leave him speechless for a second.<\/p>\n

And the more you do this, the less he\u2019ll need you because you\u2019ll no longer be of use to him.<\/p>\n

And just like that you\u2019ll win the battle.<\/p>\n

4. Make him see you don\u2019t think of yourself as inferior to him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I narcisisti trattano i loro partner romantici come esseri umani inferiori.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see you as a person, to him you\u2019re an object.<\/p>\n

E si sente in diritto di fare quello che vuole con te.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quando gli mostri che conoscere il proprio valore<\/a> despite his verbal abuse and all forms of manipulation, he\u2019ll see that he\u2019s doing a bad job.<\/p>\n

See, he wants you to feel like you\u2019re nothing.<\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di farvi vedere come un essere umano inferiore per subire il suo incantesimo.<\/p>\n

But showing him you\u2019re still the confident woman with your morals intact makes him a failure.<\/p>\n

In his eyes, it will paint him in a negative light and he\u2019ll be faced with his shortcomings, much to your delight and relief.<\/p>\n

5. Do not fall for their fake remorse \u2013 it\u2019s NEVER real<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I narcisisti possono disarmare persino le forze dell'ordine con la loro impeccabile rappresentazione di un essere umile e veramente pentito delle proprie azioni.<\/p>\n

Potrebbero anche essere in grado di piangere su richiesta.<\/p>\n

E possono far credere a chiunque il loro lato morbido e fragile.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s crucial you know it\u2019s nothing but a performance.<\/p>\n

E dovreste non cadere mai<\/a> it. He\u2019ll say the right words and even shed a tear \u2013 let him.<\/p>\n

Fagli credere che l'hai comprato.<\/p>\n

But secretly know that it\u2019s all just a vicious, evil ploy created to play the victim card.<\/p>\n

Immaginate quanto deve essere crudele e privo di emozioni una persona che piange su richiesta quando la situazione lo richiede e poi va a fare la stessa identica cosa con un sorriso vanaglorioso sulla faccia?<\/p>\n

Spaventoso.<\/p>\n

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