{"id":44993,"date":"2019-10-14T20:36:08","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T20:36:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44993"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:57:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:57:47","slug":"leggete-questo-testo-ogni-volta-che-vi-viene-voglia-di-mandargli-un-messaggio-anche-se-sapete-che-non-dovreste-farlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-testo-ogni-volta-che-vi-viene-voglia-di-mandargli-un-messaggio-anche-se-sapete-che-non-dovreste-farlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Leggete questa frase ogni volta che vi viene voglia di mandargli un messaggio, anche se sapete che non dovreste farlo."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Forse avete visto la sua foto sui social media e avete immediatamente riavvolto tutti i momenti felici vissuti insieme.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the teddy bear he gave you is still on your bed and every time you look at it, you can\u2019t help but feel instant warmth through your whole body.<\/p>\n<p>O forse lo avete visto oggi camminare per strada con quel suo sorriso speciale di cui andavate pazzi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891.jpg\" alt=\"messaggi di testo di una ragazza dolce\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5048282891-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His grin instantly forces you to start thinking about his life and whether he\u2019s already met someone new because he seems happy and content.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you want to text him because you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/5-segni-che-ti-manda-messaggi-solo-quando-e-annoiato-o-si-sente-solo\/\">sensazione di noia o solitudine<\/a> e vi mancano le vostre vecchie e lunghe conversazioni fino a quando non vi addormentate.<\/p>\n<p>Or perhaps you\u2019ve had a couple of drinks and now you\u2019re convinced that breaking up with him was a total mistake; you want to turn back time to the moment of your first meeting and change everything.<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque sia il motivo, avete questo impulso incontrollabile di mandargli un messaggio, chiedergli della sua vita, parlare della vostra storia e magari convincerlo che la rottura \u00e8 stata un errore.<\/p>\n<p>It seems almost impossible to resist the temptation and write a simple \u201cHey,\u201d only to receive another \u201cHey\u201d in return and wait for the conversation to finally start flowing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44997\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorpresa a letto che guarda il cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A simple \u201cHey\u201d from him would mean so much to you because it would make you feel as if nothing has changed.<\/p>\n<p>Vi far\u00e0 sentire come ai vecchi tempi, quando aspettavate con ansia la sua risposta e nel momento in cui la vedevate, la vostra impazienza veniva immediatamente sostituita da un grande sorriso.<\/p>\n<p>Volete provare di nuovo quella felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>You want to feel that same smile on your face, because it\u2019s the only thing that can make you feel better in the moment.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma mandargli un messaggio \u00e8 davvero una cosa intelligente da fare?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Mandargli un messaggio \u00e8 degno del vostro unico sorriso che sar\u00e0 seguito da migliaia di lacrime e da un'infinita confusione?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Is it really smart to text him even though you know you shouldn\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p>Anche se qualcosa dentro di voi vi dice che la vostra relazione, situazione-rapporto o quasi relazione \u00e8 finita molto tempo fa, anche prima che vi lasciaste ufficialmente?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The main reason you want to text him is not because you think he\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-pensieri-che-ogni-uomo-ha-quando-incontra-la-persona-giusta\/\">l'unico giusto per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you want to revive the memories you once had.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza in un caff\u00e8 che manda messaggi al suo ragazzo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12829567811-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you feel lonely at the time and you think that texting them will help you feel alive again, forget about everything, and cheer you up.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You don\u2019t want to text him because you think that he\u2019s the one for you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i> You want to text him because you want to convince yourself that this is the truth, even though you know it\u2019s not.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vuoi mandargli un messaggio perch\u00e9 la sua presenza significava il mondo per te e una volta ti sentivi al sicuro tra le sue braccia.<\/p>\n<p>Avete riso insieme, avete fatto l'amore e vi \u00e8 piaciuto passare del tempo insieme.<\/p>\n<p>You were like one and now you\u2019re missing that part of you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t really miss him, you\u2019re missing how you felt when you were with him.<\/p>\n<p>Ti manca quella sensazione di calore quando ti abbraccia e il modo in cui ti bacia.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes even the strongest of relationships don\u2019t last a lifetime.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, we realize too late that we\u2019re not meant to be together for some reason and that breaking up is the only smart thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Hai riconosciuto tutto questo molto tempo fa ed \u00e8 per questo che hai deciso di andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p>E ora volete mandargli un messaggio solo perch\u00e9 qualcosa vi ha ricordato la sua esistenza; qualcosa vi ha fatto tornare alla mente i momenti felici passati insieme.<\/p>\n<p><b>And this is completely normal. It\u2019s totally okay to feel lonely, to doubt your decisions, and to have the uncontrollable urge to text him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44999\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola sdraiata sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7785381581-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> But, for your own good, you shouldn\u2019t do it!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t do it because you know that texting him will not change anything.<\/p>\n<p>Sai che mandargli un messaggio non far\u00e0 altro che prolungare la tua sofferenza, allungare i giorni della tua guarigione.<\/p>\n<p>Sai che mandargli un messaggio sarebbe solo un secondo di finta felicit\u00e0 che \u00e8 morta da tempo.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/piu-lo-insegui-e-piu-ti-fai-del-male-2\/\">You don\u2019t want to hurt yourself<\/a> accendendo la scintilla del vostro passato.<\/p>\n<p>You want to live in the moment, focusing on reality and what\u2019s good for you.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to hurt yourself by sending one stupid text to someone who probably didn\u2019t even deserve it.<\/p>\n<p><b>You know that he isn\u2019t the one you\u2019re meant to be with!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sai che se ti dai un po' di tempo e ti sforzi di non cadere nella tentazione di mandargli un messaggio solo per un po', lui se ne andr\u00e0 per sempre dalla tua mente!<\/p>\n<p>And you will be the happiest person in the world because you\u2019ll finally be free from your own thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza felice all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14725137201-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be the happiest person in the world because one day you will meet someone whom you\u2019re meant to be with, and when that happens, you\u2019ll thank God that you didn\u2019t text him!<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/30-cose-molto-migliori-da-fare-invece-di-mandargli-un-messaggio\/\">30 cose molto migliori da fare invece di mandargli un sms<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Leggete questa frase ogni volta che vi viene voglia di mandargli un messaggio, anche se sapete che non dovreste farlo.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat9.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps you\u2019ve seen his photo on social media and you instantly started rewinding all those happy moments you had together. Perhaps the teddy bear he gave you is still on your bed and every time you look at it, you can\u2019t help but feel instant warmth through your whole body. Or maybe you saw him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":44994,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5196664422.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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