{"id":45180,"date":"2020-10-16T16:12:09","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T16:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45180"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:39:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:39:37","slug":"6-messaggi-che-ti-pentirai-di-avergli-inviato-dopo-la-rottura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-messaggi-che-ti-pentirai-di-avergli-inviato-dopo-la-rottura\/","title":{"rendered":"6 messaggi che rimpiangerete di avergli inviato dopo la rottura"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quante volte avete preso il telefono da quando vi siete lasciati con il vostro ex?<\/p>\n

Quante volte avete pensato che fosse una buona idea mandargli un messaggio, pensando che vi avrebbe fatto sentire meglio?<\/p>\n

Dovresti farlo? Dovresti mandargli un messaggio <\/a> o \u00e8 meglio lasciare le cose come stanno?<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n

Quasi ogni ragazza che sta affrontando una recente rottura<\/a> aveva gli stessi pensieri che le passavano per la testa.<\/p>\n

That is why we\u2019re bringing you a collection of post-break-up texts you shouldn\u2019t even think of sending him, as much as you\u2019d like to.<\/p>\n

\u2018I miss you\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yes, there are moments when you can\u2019t handle your emotions, as much as you try to.<\/p>\n

Moments in which they overwhelm you to the point where you can\u2019t breathe or function properly.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questa non \u00e8 nemmeno la parte peggiore.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che si pensa che l'unico modo per sentirsi meglio sia condividere il proprio desiderio con la persona che lo ha causato.<\/p>\n

You think you will feel better the moment you send your ex a text that you can\u2019t make it without him. Well, guess what? You won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019ll be even worse when he doesn\u2019t reply.<\/p>\n

Or even if he does, you\u2019ll regret going back to square one and annulling all the progress you\u2019ve made so far.<\/p>\n

So che vi manca. Dopo tutto, era l'uomo con cui condividevi tutto e a cui tenevi profondamente.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t be natural if you didn\u2019t miss him and it would mean that you never loved him. However, it doesn\u2019t mean he has to know this.<\/p>\n

Soprattutto non nel cuore della notte, pochi giorni dopo che vi siete lasciati. O mai.<\/p>\n

\u2018Hey, remember that song?\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There doesn\u2019t exist a couple who doesn\u2019t have their song.<\/p>\n

A canzone d'amore romantica <\/a> che hanno ascoltato insieme o i testi che meglio descrivono la loro storia d'amore.<\/p>\n

E tu e il tuo ex non fate eccezione. Ogni volta che ascolti questa canzone, ti passano per la testa tutti i tuoi ricordi.<\/p>\n

Ricordate tutto quello che avete passato e per un momento desiderate che tutto torni.<\/p>\n

Per quei due minuti, vi sembra che non sia passato tempo e sentite l'intero spettro di emozioni che stavate provando mentre ascoltavate questa melodia con lui.<\/p>\n

So, naturally, you want to share all of this with the person this song reminds you of \u2014 your ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n

You want him to feel the same nostalgia you\u2019re feeling and you want to be important to him again, at least for a while.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean sending him this text wouldn\u2019t be a mistake.<\/p>\n

Because as soon as the moment is gone, you\u2019ll wish you hadn\u2019t done it.<\/p>\n

As soon as you get back to reality, you\u2019ll figure out that something like this is completely unnecessary and that you don\u2019t actually miss him as much as you thought you did while the song was playing.<\/p>\n

After all, he must have heard the same song since the two of you split, so why wasn\u2019t he the one who reminded you of it?<\/p>\n

\u2018Your new girl sucks\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Per quanto tu sia geloso del fatto che il tuo ex si sia trasferito prima di te, non ci sono scuse per commentare la sua nuova ragazza.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you want to tell him that you were better than her, if you want to satirically say that she\u2019s cute or even if you think that he\u2019s searching for you in her \u2014 sending any text regarding his new life is a huge mistake.<\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019ll only boost his ego and he\u2019ll think of you as a lunatic who continues stalking him.<\/p>\n

\u2018Hey, sorry, I texted you by accident\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ammettetelo: quante volte avreste voluto inviare almeno un emoji al vostro ex e poi dirgli che \u00e8 stato un incidente e che in realt\u00e0 volevate mandare un messaggio a qualcun altro?<\/p>\n

Chiamarlo e poi riagganciare, giustificandoti che il tuo telefono ha fatto tutto da solo?<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, l'ideale sarebbe che, dopo aver rotto il ghiaccio, voi due continuaste la conversazione, come era nei vostri piani iniziali.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, indovinate un po'? Nessuno compra quella merda.<\/p>\n

In fact, even if something like this happens by accident, he\u2019ll always think you did it on purpose and that you were just looking for an excuse to get in touch with him.<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t even try these childish tricks because they won\u2019t work.<\/p>\n

\u2018I moved on\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

OK, you obviously won\u2019t send this literal text but any message which is implying that you\u2019ve superato <\/a> is a message you shouldn\u2019t send.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real: if you have the need to tell someone you\u2019ve forgotten about them, you clearly haven\u2019t. Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t be in the back of your head.<\/p>\n

\u2018Want to come over?\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Una delle cose peggiori che si possano fare dopo la fine di una relazione \u00e8 trasformarla in un'avventura occasionale.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you this because your ex will think of you as a slut (because who cares what he thinks and what is the difference between you and him if you two voluntarily sleep together?)<\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you this because something like this would crush even the pieces of your heart which luckily remained unbroken and because an affair like this is impossible to sustain without further emotional damage.<\/p>\n

Questo era l'uomo per cui provava un sentimento profondo, quindi cosa le fa pensare che ora pu\u00f2 fare sesso con lui senza legami?<\/p>\n

What makes you think that all of your emotions won\u2019t come back and that you won\u2019t want to have him back?<\/p>\n

Quindi, l'invio di un testo che \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 un chiamata di cortesia <\/a> non \u00e8 mai una buona idea.<\/p>\n

If you really want to have some meaningless sex but don\u2019t want a relationship, it\u2019s better to find someone else for the job than to reopen your old wounds.<\/p>\n

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