{"id":45207,"date":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45207"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","slug":"5-modi-in-cui-linfedelta-emotiva-e-piu-straziante-di-quella-fisica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-in-cui-linfedelta-emotiva-e-piu-straziante-di-quella-fisica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi in cui l'infedelt\u00e0 emotiva \u00e8 pi\u00f9 straziante di quella fisica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono abbastanza sicuro che quando sentite la parola \"infedelt\u00e0\" la prima cosa che vi viene in mente \u00e8 una relazione sessuale, vero?<\/p>\n

E in un certo senso \u00e8 comprensibile.<\/p>\n

Fare sesso con una persona che non \u00e8 il proprio partner pu\u00f2 essere visto come l'ultima forma di tradimento, difficile da superare.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s what I\u2019m struggling to understand.<\/p>\n

How come we live in a world where physical touch (at times completely innocent and purely platonic) can be considered more damaging than sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with a person who\u2019s not il vostro partner<\/a>?<\/p>\n

How is seeing your partner touch another person more infuriating to you than, let\u2019s say, finding out they have formed an extremely close friendship with another woman who can potentially detach him from you?<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not implying that physical cheating is something you should EVER condone.<\/p>\n

All I\u2019m trying to say is that emotional infidelity can be just as heartbreaking, if not more!<\/p>\n

Siete voi la persona con cui il vostro partner dovrebbe condividere la parte pi\u00f9 vulnerabile di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You are the one he should vent to and air his frustrations with when he\u2019s at his lowest.<\/p>\n

Se ha trovato un'altra donna<\/a> che in un certo senso gli fornisce tutto il supporto emotivo di cui una persona pu\u00f2 avere bisogno, allora cosa ne \u00e8 di te?<\/p>\n

Come influisce questo sul vostro rapporto con lui?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s important to understand here is that finding out there\u2019s another woman who is giving your partner everything he needs (other than sex) that he should be getting from you can create a wedge between you.<\/p>\n

E con il tempo, potrebbe rendersi conto di non appartenere pi\u00f9 al tuo fianco<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And you can\u2019t even be mad because it\u2019s not like he had sex with her or anything, right?<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the hardest part about being emotionally cheated on.<\/p>\n

Questi sono i 5 esempi pi\u00f9 dolorosi di come l'infedelt\u00e0 emotiva possa essere pi\u00f9 dannosa di quella fisica.<\/p>\n

1. State lentamente perdendo il nucleo della vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Il vostro rapporto si basava sulla fiducia, sull'onest\u00e0 e sulla completa trasparenza.<\/p>\n

Vi siete rispettati a vicenda, avete condiviso assolutamente tutto l'uno con l'altro e vi siete amati attraverso tutto questo.<\/p>\n

E ora continui a vedere scuse da parte sua per non starti pi\u00f9 vicino.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s lying but you don\u2019t confront him because there is nothing actually going on, right? Only there is.<\/p>\n

Ora sta condividendo con lei i suoi pensieri e le sue paure pi\u00f9 intime.<\/p>\n

Ora passa sempre pi\u00f9 tempo ad avere conversazioni profonde con lei e a stabilire un legame su ogni singolo livello.<\/p>\n

Il modo in cui era legato a te.<\/p>\n

E ora, il vostro legame sta appassendo e quello con lei sta prosperando.<\/p>\n

2. You constantly feel that you\u2019re competing with her and losing the battle<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You just can\u2019t keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Sembra essere tutto ci\u00f2 che il vostro partner ha bisogno e vuole.<\/p>\n

La cita persino di continuo.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see how torturous this is for you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t understand that by constantly mentioning her, he is making you feel less and less significant.<\/p>\n

Sei tu quella con cui dovrebbe passare il sabato sera, accoccolato sul divano con una bottiglia di vino e un film, non lei.<\/p>\n

And yet, somehow, he\u2019s not by your side.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re supposed to be okay because they\u2019re \u2018just friends\u2019.<\/p>\n

You keep feeling like you\u2019re in a competition with her and you seem to be losing battle after battle.<\/p>\n

Forse ora non se ne rende conto, ma trascorrendo tanto tempo di qualit\u00e0 con lei, sta tradirti<\/a> in un certo senso una donna non dovrebbe mai essere tradita.<\/p>\n

3. You are slowly realizing that you don\u2019t know him the way she does<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le cose che tu (e solo tu) conoscevi di lui non sono pi\u00f9 solo tue.<\/p>\n

Ora anche lei ne \u00e8 a conoscenza.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re so close that suddenly she knows his embarrassing vacation story from last year.<\/p>\n

Now she knows that he didn\u2019t learn how to swim until high school, which used to be a secret only you knew.<\/p>\n

Ogni piccola cosa che ha reso la vostra relazione carina e speciale ora \u00e8 anche sua.<\/p>\n

Come fa a non capire che questo \u00e8 doloroso per lei?<\/p>\n

How does he not understand that just because there is no physical intimacy it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not wrong?<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe saperlo e, in fondo, probabilmente lo sa.<\/p>\n

4. His head is always in the clouds and you know it\u2019s not because of you<\/h2>\n

\"soddisfatti<\/p>\n

Torna sempre a casa con un sorriso smagliante sul volto.<\/p>\n

Whenever he\u2019s texting, you can just see how chipper he is.<\/p>\n

He may try to downplay it but it\u2019s too obvious.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you\u2019ll be calling his name and it\u2019s like he\u2019s not even there.<\/p>\n

Physically he is but in his mind, he\u2019s probably having the time of his life with her.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t even want to bring him back to real life because you know he\u2019d rather be with her.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the most hurtful part.<\/p>\n

Non siete pi\u00f9 la ragione del suo sorriso.<\/p>\n

Non siete pi\u00f9 la persona con cui passa ore al telefono a parlare di tutto e di niente.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s her. She\u2019s the one making him happy and she\u2019s the one he goes to.<\/p>\n

Non tu.<\/p>\n

 5. It makes you feel you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Dopo aver affrontato tutto questo, ci si sente inutili.<\/p>\n

It makes you feel like you don\u2019t have what it takes per mantenere un ragazzo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you did, he wouldn\u2019t go to another woman, would he?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re left feeling deserted and insufficient.<\/p>\n

La persona con cui avete condiviso il legame emotivo pi\u00f9 profondo si \u00e8 distaccata da voi un giorno alla volta.<\/p>\n

L'hai visto accadere e non hai potuto fare nulla.<\/p>\n

E cosa dovreste pensare ora? Come dovreste sentirvi?<\/p>\n

La sua relazione sentimentale ti ha fatto sentire non all'altezza e lui non pu\u00f2 immaginare quanto ti abbia ferito e quanto tempo ci vorr\u00e0 per riprendersi.<\/p>\n

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