{"id":45334,"date":"2019-10-18T14:22:47","date_gmt":"2019-10-18T14:22:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45334"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:47:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:47:54","slug":"vendicarsi-del-narcisista-con-questi-7-efficaci-contrattacchi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vendicarsi-del-narcisista-con-questi-7-efficaci-contrattacchi\/","title":{"rendered":"Vendicarsi del narcisista con questi 7 contrattacchi efficaci"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been <\/span>spezzato da un narcisista<\/span><\/a>Allora sapete quanto profonde possono essere le ferite che vi infliggono. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sanno cosa dire e come comportarsi per farvi innamorare di loro.<\/span><\/p>\n

E una volta che ti tengono sotto controllo, puoi solo sperare di uscirne vivo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what it\u2019s like to be manipulated and taken advantage of better than most people do.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what it\u2019s like fighting for your sanity and well-being and what it takes to run from a person with narcissistic tendencies. <\/span><\/p>\n

Congratulazioni!<\/span><\/p>\n

Alcune persone sono in grado di dimenticare tutto per ripartire da zero e concentrarsi sul futuro. <\/span><\/p>\n

But some people just can\u2019t forget about the ordeal the narcissist put them through.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to put these things behind you because it took a toll on your psyche. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti ha distrutto mentalmente e fisicamente e fingere che non sia mai successo \u00e8 praticamente impossibile.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still struggling with <\/span>le conseguenze della frequentazione di un narcisista<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019ve got a solution for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Qui potete trovare i modi migliori per vendicarvi del vostro narcisista e colpirlo dove fa pi\u00f9 male!<\/span><\/p>\n

These are 7 extremely effective counterblows for your narcissist, to show him you haven\u2019t forgotten what he did and you\u2019re here to take back your life!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Raccogliete i vostri pensieri e valutate con calma la strategia migliore.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Unless you\u2019re in the right headspace for revenge, nothing good can come of this. Collect your thoughts, heal your heart and only then are you ready to figure this shit out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Revenge is not for those who are still suffering, it\u2019s for those who want the other person to see what they put them through.<\/span><\/p>\n

Firstly, don\u2019t act out of anger or frustration. Wait for those feelings to wither and only then figure out what you want to do and how to accomplish it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t rush into it unless you\u2019re really over it. A calm head always gives you the upper hand!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Mettere da parte i propri sentimenti negativi<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still only thinking about how badly he screwed you up and how much you want him to suffer the way you did, you\u2019re only going to react hastily and learn to regret it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete essere in grado di dimenticare il vostro odio per quest'uomo per riuscire a riflettere razionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Essere emotivi e fermi <\/span>un pasticcio caldo<\/span><\/a> vi far\u00e0 ricadere nella sua trappola e soffrire il doppio. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still raw from the experience, wait it out. He\u2019s not going anywhere and if you\u2019re truly set on getting back at him, you\u2019ll be glad you waited for the right time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Concentrarsi sulle sue temute insicurezze<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

He\u2019s never going to show this side to anyone but every narcissist has his vulnerabilities. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni narcisista \u00e8 profondamente insicuro e agisce in questo modo per compensare la sua insicurezza. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why you need to focus on this vulnerable side if you want to hit where it hurts the most.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete serviti solo a rafforzare il suo ego, quindi senza di esso non ha nulla di cui nutrirsi. Sfruttate i suoi difetti e le sue imperfezioni e sottolineateli il pi\u00f9 spesso possibile. <\/span><\/p>\n

Narcissists crave compliments, so when you stop giving them and instead focus on his vulnerabilities, you\u2019ll see how easy it is to bring him down.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Fargli assaggiare la sua stessa medicina<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il metodo pi\u00f9 semplice, ma anche il pi\u00f9 efficace! Come vi ha trattato? Continuava a trattarvi male? <\/span><\/p>\n

Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, fate lo stesso con lui! Vi ha ignorato quando avevate bisogno della sua attenzione? Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, fate la stessa cosa!<\/span><\/p>\n

Se ha giocato con la tua testa, gioca con la sua. Pensate bene a ogni piccolo modo in cui vi ha fatto sentire inutili e ricambiate. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you keep doing it, he\u2019s bound to crumble. After all, he\u2019s only human and there\u2019s only so much he can take before he starts feeling what you felt. (And thank God for that.)<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Dedicargli un po' di attenzione<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

A narcissist craves attention and he\u2019s used to getting it. So give it to him but in bits and pieces. <\/span><\/p>\n

Make him see he\u2019s got your attention and then suddenly blow him off and leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

Listen to his shit and keep nodding your head and then suddenly realize there\u2019s somewhere you need to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cut him off in the middle of it so that he can\u2019t help but need more. <\/span><\/p>\n

In questo modo, dipende da voi e <\/span>ha bisogno di te<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019re the one in charge. <\/span><\/p>\n

You decide just how much attention he\u2019s getting on which day and I\u2019m pretty sure it\u2019s always going to be simply not enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. C<\/span>riticarlo in pubblico<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Be smart about this. Don\u2019t overdo it because then it will be too obvious you\u2019re on a mission to destroy (j\/k). <\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in public and there are people around, take the opportunity to slightly humiliate him in front of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

A narcissist needs approval and validation, so when he\u2019s made a fool of in public it sets him back big time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Use his ego against him and be subtle. He\u2019ll feel inferior to you and everyone around him.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Make him see you don\u2019t need him anymore<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Questo lo ferir\u00e0 di pi\u00f9. Ha bisogno che voi abbiate bisogno di lui. Conta su di voi per dipendere da lui. <\/span><\/p>\n

And once you show him you\u2019re no longer under his spell, he\u2019ll be desperate to get you back as soon as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prove to him you don\u2019t really love him. Make him see you only pretended to have feelings and now you\u2019re here to take it all back.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be caught by surprise and won\u2019t know how to react. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t have your love and attention, he really doesn\u2019t have anything and you finally win the war.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Vendicarsi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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