{"id":45371,"date":"2019-10-18T20:17:20","date_gmt":"2019-10-18T20:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45371"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:50:13","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:50:13","slug":"sto-lentamente-imparando-a-lasciar-andare-le-cose-che-non-mi-fanno-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sto-lentamente-imparando-a-lasciar-andare-le-cose-che-non-mi-fanno-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"Sto lentamente imparando a lasciare andare le cose che non mi fanno bene"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono stato paziente nella vita per cos\u00ec tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve taken everything bad that anyone ever said to me and I stored it deep inside.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve waited and waited because I thought things would change, that people would change, that destiny would go easy on me and pay me back by letting good things happen.<\/p>\n

Tutto questo sta per cambiare. <\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized something.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that waiting for things to happen, waiting for things to change, is a lost cause.<\/p>\n

Nothing will ever be different if I don\u2019t take my destiny into my own hands. <\/p>\n

This time, I\u2019m slowly starting to realize that.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m slowly learning to let go of everything that bothers me and people who don\u2019t value me<\/a>. <\/p>\n

\"<\/p>\n

First, people. I\u2019m letting go of all of you who never did anything good for me; if anything, you always made me feel bad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m saying goodbye to the heartbreakers.<\/p>\n

Tu, che hai frantumato il mio cuore in migliaia di pezzi. <\/p>\n

Tu, che mi hai fatto raccogliere quei pezzi uno per uno, pezzi di uno specchio rotto che mi piaceva guardare.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m collecting those shattered chunks and putting that mirror back together.<\/p>\n

Only, I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m going to like what I see in the end.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m letting go of the traitors and backstabbers who were never there for me when I needed them.<\/p>\n

La mia lealt\u00e0 non ha mai significato nulla per te.<\/p>\n

Il fatto che mi sia dimenticato dei miei problemi per occuparmi dei tuoi mi ha fatto ottenere solo un vuoto ringraziamento da parte tua.<\/p>\n

But when things went downhill for me and I needed you to have my back, you pretended you couldn\u2019t hear me.<\/p>\n

Mi hai voltato le spalle.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a special goodbye to a crappy life.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m letting go of all the life situations that made me think I was not good enough or that I was never going to be.<\/p>\n

\"Sognare<\/p>\n

I\u2019m saying goodbye to a life full of disappointment and seemingly unbearable obstacles. <\/p>\n

Nothing is impossible. Nothing is undoable. It\u2019s you who is your own obstacle in everything you do.<\/p>\n

When you think you can\u2019t, you will never be able to.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m letting go of those toxic thoughts that are only bringing me down and limiting my abilities.<\/p>\n

Finalmente ho capito che posso fare quello che voglio.<\/p>\n

Devo impegnarmi a fondo ed essere perseverante, non arrendermi mai. Impossibile?<\/p>\n

Sar\u00e0 impossibile rallentarmi. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m letting go of the known.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m walking out of my comfort zone.<\/p>\n

Great things don\u2019t happen in comfort zones.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t discover what you\u2019re capable of if you just keep surrounding yourself with the things you know, with something that sure and bulletproof.<\/p>\n

Bisogna rischiare un po' e trovare la via d'uscita da una situazione sconosciuta o scomoda.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 cos\u00ec che si costruisce e si diventa migliori e pi\u00f9 forti.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m learning to let go of a limiting life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m learning to embrace the excitement of what this new life is bringing me. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, eccomi qui, pronta ad accogliere tutto ci\u00f2 che mi aspetta.<\/p>\n

Eccomi qui, felice di accogliere la mia nuova vita e tutte le cose che ne derivano.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ready to finally love myself enough to recognize what great potential I have rather than being a hopeless failure like others made me think.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ready to give myself credit for all the good things I\u2019ve done and am about to do.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m ready to tackle my dreams because I finally have the courage to.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m only brave enough because I decided to leave behind everything that is not good for me. <\/p>\n

I\u2019m slowly learning to become who I was supposed to be all along\u2014a fighter, a dreamer and a real woman.<\/p>\n

E per farlo ci vuole coraggio. Ci vuole tempo per capire cosa fa male.<\/p>\n

\"Sto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve been patient in life for so long. I\u2019ve taken everything bad that anyone ever said to me and I stored it deep inside. I\u2019ve waited and waited because I thought things would change, that people would change, that destiny would go easy on me and pay me back by letting good things happen. All…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45372,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5362850321.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45371"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45371\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45372"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}