{"id":45436,"date":"2019-10-21T09:34:27","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T09:34:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45436"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:42:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:42:03","slug":"state-davvero-ascoltando-il-vostro-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/state-davvero-ascoltando-il-vostro-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"State davvero ascoltando il vostro partner?"},"content":{"rendered":"

There is a profound secret to enjoying a lasting relationship, and it\u2019s so simple, you probably think you\u2019re already doing it, but chances are you\u2019re not. This is the art of active listening, and unfortunately, it\u2019s a lost one. With the fast-paced world we live in, overload of technology, and egocentric focus most people take, rarely do we truly listen to our partner.<\/p>\n

There are many ways to improve communication between your and your partner and begin employing active listening skills, which is one of the simplest yet most profound ways we can tell another person we care. Once you get the hang of it, make sure you\u2019re listening to everyone in your life who holds special meaning.
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Ascoltare in silenzio<\/b>.<\/span> This is the most common way we learn to listen. Showing your partner you\u2019re interested in what he has to say involves being silent and allowing the other person to speak. However, listening is so much more than this. In fact, most of the time when you\u2019re sitting in silence listening to another person, you\u2019re no more than waiting for the person to finish so you can interject your point. Don\u2019t believe this is true? Consider this point the next time you\u2019re engaged in conversation.<\/p>\n

Ascoltare con il contatto visivo<\/b>.<\/span> It\u2019s important to make eye contact with someone when they\u2019re speaking. In some cultures, however, making constant eye contact is considered rude, so be mindful of this. When your partner tells you something \u2013 even if it\u2019s just a recap of his day \u2013 making eye contact will let him know you care and will actually allow you to listen more intently. If you roll your eyes, check your phone, or are constantly referencing the wall clock, these are all clear signs you don\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

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Ascoltare con il linguaggio del corpo<\/b>.<\/span> Another way to show someone you\u2019re interested in what they have to say is by uncrossing your arms, leaning in, and being still. Fidgeting, tapping your fingers, and turning away from the speaker all show you\u2019re not engaged in the conversation. Instead, offer body language that lets your partner know he\u2019s worth your attention.<\/p>\n

Ascoltare senza distrazioni<\/b>.<\/span> Taking on another task (even when you insist you\u2019re still listening) demonstrates passiveness. Rushing from one side of the house to another while someone is trying to tell you something makes the person believe you have better things to do. Instead of continuing to try relaying the message, he is likely to offer a \u201cnever mind, I\u2019ll tell you later,\u201d and give up.<\/p>\n

Ascoltate senza intervenire. <\/b>Listen until there\u2019s at least a pause \u2013 it\u2019s that simple. Resist the urge to interject. Do you enjoy being interrupted? Chances are you find it just as annoying as everyone else. It\u2019s frustrating and often makes the person lose their train of thought. It can be tough, though, if you really want to build upon a point being made. This is why active listening actually takes practice. You have to practice staying engaged in the conversation while committing to memory the point you wish to make when it\u2019s your turn.<\/p>\n

Ascoltate rispondendo.<\/b> At the right time, respond in some way that shows you heard what was said, then introduce any point you want to make. There are specific techniques that those in helping professions are trained to employ and they work in everyday conversation, too. You can summarize the points the person has made, reword what they\u2019ve said a bit and ask if you heard them correctly, or tie a feeling word to what was said. For example, \u201cI hear your frustration.\u201d<\/p>\n

While many of these points seem to be common knowledge, they truly are not. They\u2019re actually much more difficult to do in practice. If you\u2019ve already got most of these down, great! You\u2019re ahead of the majority.<\/p>\n

L'ascolto attivo, purtroppo, fa raramente parte delle nostre conversazioni al giorno d'oggi. Ma, proprio per questo, la scelta di utilizzare queste abilit\u00e0 con il vostro partner sar\u00e0 sicuramente di grande aiuto. Tutti vogliamo essere ascoltati, il che significa che dovremmo ascoltarci a vicenda, giusto? Il vostro partner noter\u00e0 e apprezzer\u00e0 lo sforzo supplementare.<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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