{"id":45471,"date":"2019-10-21T14:54:05","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T14:54:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45471"},"modified":"2021-11-04T13:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T13:39:27","slug":"rimanere-single-finche-non-si-ha-paura-di-esserlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rimanere-single-finche-non-si-ha-paura-di-esserlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Rimanere single finch\u00e9 non si ha pi\u00f9 paura di esserlo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Essere single non significa solo non avere qualcuno accanto a cui sdraiarsi a letto dopo una lunga giornata.<\/p>\n<p>It is not just about not having a partner for sex or someone to cuddle with\u2014it is much more than that.<\/p>\n<p>Being single is scary\u2014nobody can argue with that.<\/p>\n<p>Non avere un compagno di vita a volte significa essere lasciati soli a combattere con ogni possibile sfida e difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><b>Spesso significa non avere la propria persona, non avere qualcuno su cui contare, non avere una spalla su cui piangere e non avere una persona che ti stia accanto, qualunque cosa accada.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Non \u00e8 avere qualcuno che si prenda cura di te o che ti tenga la mano quando ne hai bisogno.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014being single is even scarier when you\u2019re the only one going through it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45474\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna giovane adulta felice che beve il caff\u00e8 \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292785771-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is even worse when all of your friends are married or in relationships and when everyone is pressuring you to settle down and find a man you\u2019ll grow old with.<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso, essere single significa non avere il proprio accompagnatore agli eventi importanti, sentirsi chiedere continuamente se c'\u00e8 qualcuno di speciale nella propria vita e persino essere giudicati per non essere riusciti a trovare la persona per sempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00ec, essere single \u00e8 spaventoso e difficile e tutti quelli che vi dicono il contrario mentono.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Significa che dovete essere due volte pi\u00f9 forti e due volte pi\u00f9 capaci. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It means that you have to be independent and self-sufficient because you\u2019re walking through life all by yourself, without anyone to catch you if you fall.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tuttavia, \u00e8 proprio per questo che dovete farlo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vedete, solo i codardi scappano dalle cose che li spaventano.<\/p>\n<p>Solo le donne deboli seguono la corrente e fanno esattamente ci\u00f2 che ci si aspetta da loro.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, le donne coraggiose fanno completamente il contrario.<\/p>\n<p>Affrontano le loro paure, le guardano dritte negli occhi, vedono che sono pi\u00f9 forti di loro, le affrontano con il massimo coraggio possibile e, infine, le fanno sparire.<\/p>\n<p>Strong women abandon their comfort zones, even though they don\u2019t know what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45475\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto ravvicinato di una bella donna caucasica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3874008761-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vanno dritti nel fuoco, solo per dimostrare a se stessi che possono farlo e che possono sconfiggerlo.<\/p>\n<p>And whether you see it now or not, trust me when I tell you that you\u2019re one of these women.<\/p>\n<p>You are a woman who doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s guidance, you\u2019re not a child who needs a man to raise her and you can make it on your own.<\/p>\n<p><b>So please, don\u2019t run away from being single. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t jump from one relationship to another just out of fear of being alone, don\u2019t settle for less just because someone convinced you that you have unrealistically high standards and don\u2019t accept the first opportunity that appears on your path just to meet other people\u2019s expectations.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your time on relationships that have no future and are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire\/\">destinato a fallire<\/a> dal primo giorno solo perch\u00e9 si vuole sentire di appartenere a qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t devalue yourself by being with men who are only interested in your body just because you don\u2019t like going home to a cold, empty bed.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t lower your standards just because you\u2019re embarrassed when others judge you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give your heart out to the wrong men just because you\u2019re desperate to be loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45476\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna felice che cammina vicino all&#039;East River a New York \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3957964541-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Invece, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-motivi-per-cui-una-donna-forte-rimarra-single-finche-non-arrivera-luomo-giusto\/\"><b>rimanere single<\/b><\/a><b> finch\u00e9 non dimostrate a voi stessi che potete farcela.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Rimanete single finch\u00e9 non smetterete di averne paura!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Instead of lamenting the fact that you still haven\u2019t found your Mr. Right, be happy about the fact that you\u2019re dodging a bullet every time you don\u2019t get involved with a Mr. Wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Invece di vedere la vostra condizione di single come una maledizione, vedetela come una benedizione.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Vedetela come un'occasione per migliorare voi stessi, per sistemare la vostra vita e renderla degna di essere vissuta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vedetela come un'occasione per capire cosa e chi volete, per riflettere sulle vostre priorit\u00e0, per dedicare tempo ed energie alla vostra carriera e agli altri interessi.<\/p>\n<p>See it as a chance to get to know yourself better and most importantly\u2014to learn how to love and respect yourself properly.<\/p>\n<p><b>Solo quando riuscirete a diventare la migliore versione possibile di voi stessi, sarete pienamente pronti e capaci di iniziare una relazione sana. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Solo allora inizierete ad attrarre uomini veri e maturi che vi meritano e solo allora il vero amore entrer\u00e0 nella vostra vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45473\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel54-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Rimanere single finch\u00e9 non si ha pi\u00f9 paura di esserlo\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" 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It is not just about not having a partner for sex or someone to cuddle with\u2014it is much more than that. Being single is scary\u2014nobody can argue with that. Not having a life partner sometimes means&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":45472,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45471","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5292787451.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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