{"id":45479,"date":"2019-10-21T15:27:34","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T15:27:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45479"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:39:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:39:03","slug":"trovare-quella-giusta-in-ritardo-e-meglio-che-trovare-quella-sbagliata-adesso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/trovare-quella-giusta-in-ritardo-e-meglio-che-trovare-quella-sbagliata-adesso\/","title":{"rendered":"Trovare quella \"giusta\" in ritardo \u00e8 meglio che trovare quella \"sbagliata\" adesso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Chi dice che l'amore deve avere una tempistica?<\/p>\n<p>Is there a rule I don\u2019t know about that says you have to fall in love while you\u2019re still young?<\/p>\n<p>C\u2019mon&#8230;are you seriously buying this paradigm the society is forcing you to believe?<\/p>\n<p>Siete sottoposti a una pressione cos\u00ec forte da dovervi innamorare solo perch\u00e9 tutti gli altri intorno a voi l'hanno fatto?<\/p>\n<p>Ho cos\u00ec tante domande da farle.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, ho tante domande che vorrei che vi poneste.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 davvero cos\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p><b>Se lo \u00e8, si accomodi pure.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Mettetevi d'accordo per vivere uno scenario in cui state vivendo con una persona sbagliata perch\u00e9 non avete avuto n\u00e9 la forza n\u00e9 la volont\u00e0 di aspettare quella giusta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7968057821.jpg\" alt=\"Donna triste e depressa in treno \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7968057821.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7968057821-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_7968057821-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 niente di male ad aspettare che arrivi l'uomo giusto.<\/p>\n<p>If only, that just proves you love yourself enough that you\u2019ll protect yourself from heartbreak and disappointment.<\/p>\n<p>Volete risparmiarvi le lacrime e il dolore che sicuramente seguiranno.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to fall in love and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-cose-che-dovrebbero-accadere-prima-di-impegnarsi-con-un-ragazzo\/\"> impegnarsi subito<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That love is ruined from the start because it\u2019s not honest.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not spontaneous. It\u2019s not meant to be.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve met people who\u2019ve been forcing themselves to find love just because they dated someone toxic in the past.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve tried so hard to fall in love to forget everything bad that happened to them.<\/p>\n<p>But, you know what? They weren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n<p>Facevano ancora male e non guarivano mai.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019re one of these people, do the right thing.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Don\u2019t feel bad about staying single.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45491\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5291718851.jpg\" alt=\"Donna con volto triste che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5291718851.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5291718851-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5291718851-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> Don\u2019t be sorry for collecting what\u2019s left of yourself after a bad breakup.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Soprattutto, permettete a voi stessi di guarire per primi.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pensateci! Hai davvero schivato un proiettile.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve spared yourself the biggest mistake you could ever make in life.<\/p>\n<p>Quella che vi segue fino alla fine e che dirige il corso della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be ashamed that you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n<p>Be proud you haven\u2019t made a horrible mistake.<\/p>\n<p>Che importa se gli altri si sposano, fanno figli?<\/p>\n<p>That doesn\u2019t mean you have to as well.<\/p>\n<p>Your time hasn\u2019t come yet. It will come eventually.<\/p>\n<p>Non tutti hanno la fortuna di innamorarsi subito.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Just think carefully about what I\u2019m going to say to you.<\/p>\n<p>I think it\u2019s way better to be the last one without a baby and marriage among your friends than ending up in a loveless marriage for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3789996311.jpg\" alt=\"donna su un prato verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3789996311.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3789996311-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3789996311-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d rather always choose a bit of sadness at the beginning than a whole life of anger and bitterness just because I was unable to wait for \u201cthe right one\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Your soulmate isn\u2019t going to vanish.<\/p>\n<p>If you were meant to be, you\u2019re going to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-due-persone-sono-destinate-a-stare-insieme-troveranno-la-strada-per-tornare-indietro\/\">trovare la strada l'uno per l'altro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 quindi bisogno di affrettarsi.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di rischiare la vostra felicit\u00e0 futura facendo mosse avventate e disperate.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anyone\u2019s life happenings mess with your decisions.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let society force you into a relationship that you\u2019re going to regret.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>L'amore non dovrebbe funzionare cos\u00ec. L'amore non dovrebbe nascere solo perch\u00e9 tutti intorno a te sono innamorati.<\/p>\n<p>Deve venire naturale.<\/p>\n<p>It has to be that moment you will remember for the rest of your life\u2014that moment when your heart almost stopped and you forgot to breathe.<\/p>\n<p>Il momento in cui avete posato gli occhi sulla vostra anima gemella.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Volete davvero rinunciare a questa sensazione solo per essere come tutti gli altri?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>O volete un amore vero, un amore che vi faccia sentire a casa?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13698200901.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che beve vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13698200901.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13698200901-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13698200901-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Immaginate di avere questo per il resto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine waking up every morning next to the person you want to spend every day with, the person you can\u2019t imagine your future without.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;Rimanere single finch\u00e9 non si trova <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/rimani-single-finche-il-tuo-cuore-non-si-scioglie-per-qualcuno-esattamente-come-questo\/\">qualcuno esattamente come questo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve. Instead, wait for the right person.<\/p>\n<p>He exists; he\u2019s there. Just be patient and wait.<\/p>\n<p><i>Per favore.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45489\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel55-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Trovare quella &quot;giusta&quot; in ritardo \u00e8 meglio che trovare quella &quot;sbagliata&quot; adesso\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel55-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel55-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel55-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel55.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who says that love has to have timing? Is there a rule I don\u2019t know about that says you have to fall in love while you\u2019re still young? C\u2019mon&#8230;are you seriously buying this paradigm the society is forcing you to believe? Are you under so much peer pressure that you HAVE to fall in love&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":45484,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45479","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_29117679222.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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