{"id":45488,"date":"2019-10-21T15:40:19","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T15:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45488"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:38:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:38:31","slug":"7-fasi-di-rottura-piu-comuni-che-ogni-ragazza-attraversa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-fasi-di-rottura-piu-comuni-che-ogni-ragazza-attraversa\/","title":{"rendered":"Le 7 fasi di rottura pi\u00f9 comuni di ogni ragazza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una rottura avviene in un istante. <\/span><\/p>\n

The person you\u2019ve been dating leaves you, you leave them or you both agree that your relationship should come to an end.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sembra un gioco da ragazzi, vero?<\/span><\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 ben diversa. Quello che viene dopo la rottura \u00e8 un processo difficile e duraturo che si compone di diverse fasi comuni alla maggior parte delle persone.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Rifiuto<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Quando la persona a cui volete bene vi lascia in sospeso, all'inizio vi rifiutate di accettarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si fa finta che non sia successo nulla e che le cose torneranno presto come prima.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sperate che si tratti solo di una fase e di un piccolo litigio, invece di una vera e propria rottura. <\/span><\/p>\n

The point is that your brain and heart can\u2019t process the amount of pain all of this caused so you choose to ignore it and pretend as if nothing happened.<\/span><\/p>\n

Invece di elaborare queste emozioni, si inizia inconsciamente a reprimerle. E questo \u00e8 perfettamente normale<\/span>\u2014<\/span>if it\u2019s only a phase and not something permanent.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Desiderio di chiusura<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

When you finally accept it\u2019s really over, the normal reaction is to seek for answers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensate che le cose saranno pi\u00f9 facili per voi se otterrete <\/span>chiusura completa<\/span><\/a>prima di voltare una nuova pagina della vostra vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re rewinding your entire relationship in your head, trying to think of all the situations that could have played out differently and all the mistakes both of you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 particolarmente difficile se alcune delle domande che avete rimangono senza risposta e se l'uomo che amate ancora si rifiuta di darvi la chiusura di cui avete disperatamente bisogno.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Contrattazione<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

The next stage is bargaining. Now, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to have your loved one back.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re ready to change yourself and your ways. All of a sudden, you even think about doing something you would normally never do<\/span>\u2014<\/span>implorare questo ragazzo di riprenderti.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019re actually doing everything in your power to fix this relationship that is clearly doomed to fail. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re actually trying to rebuild what is broken beyond repair.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Rabbia<\/h2>\n

\"Moglie<\/p>\n

After this, there comes anger. You\u2019re angry for this man who dumped you, angry at yourself for not knowing better and angry at both of you for not making things work.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019re not to blame for this break-up, you start to think of yourself as guilty. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensate a tutti i modi in cui avreste potuto evitarlo e vi rimproverate di non aver fatto nulla per salvare la vostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Il dolore<\/h2>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

La fase successiva \u00e8 quella del lutto. Si inizia a <\/span>manca quest'uomo<\/span> <\/a>che ha fatto parte della vostra vita per cos\u00ec tanto tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Iniziate a rimpiangere tutte le occasioni che avete perso e tutto ci\u00f2 che avreste potuto realizzare e diventare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everything you could have been but didn\u2019t make it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Alcuni pensano che piangere per una rottura sia sciocco e che ci siano centinaia di problemi pi\u00f9 importanti al mondo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che il lutto \u00e8 sempre lo stesso, indipendentemente dalle circostanze.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve lost someone who meant everything to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This man is out of your life and you don\u2019t have him anymore the way you did so it is completely natural to be sad about this.<\/span><\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante di questa fase \u00e8 non permettere al dolore di definirvi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run away from it and don\u2019t pretend it\u2019s not there but don\u2019t let it become the only thing you identify with either.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Accettazione<\/h2>\n

\"Modello<\/p>\n

Infine, arriva l'accettazione. Arriva la fase in cui ci si rende conto che tutto accade per una ragione e una causa pi\u00f9 grande.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quel qualcosa che vi ha fatto piangere di pi\u00f9 pu\u00f2 rivelarsi la cosa migliore che vi sia mai capitata.<\/span><\/p>\n

Che alcune cose e persone sono semplicemente <\/span>non \u00e8 destinato ad essere<\/span><\/a> and that you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. La speranza<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Insieme all'accettazione, arriva la speranza. <\/span><\/p>\n

Slowly, you begin to grasp that tomorrow is a new day and that you won\u2019t forever feel the way you do.<\/span><\/p>\n

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