{"id":45806,"date":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45806"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","slug":"come-il-narcisista-inganna-le-persone-facendogli-credere-di-essere-il-buono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-il-narcisista-inganna-le-persone-facendogli-credere-di-essere-il-buono\/","title":{"rendered":"Come il narcisista inganna le persone facendogli credere di essere un bravo ragazzo"},"content":{"rendered":"

By now, we\u2019re all familiar with the drill. I\u2019m sure you know how the narcissist\u2019s world works and how they prey on those who are most likely to be swayed and destroyed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima viene il processo di selezione. Il narcisista sceglie un bersaglio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Di solito si tratta di una persona con belle qualit\u00e0<\/a> come la gentilezza, l'empatia, la capacit\u00e0 di perdonare e l'abbondanza di comprensione (che finisce per essere la pi\u00f9 fatale di tutte).<\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t just pick a person on a whim. There is lots of preparation and thought that go into it. <\/span><\/p>\n

L'obiettivo deve essere perfetto perch\u00e9 il suo lavoro sia svolto alla perfezione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha bisogno che pensiate che tutto stia accadendo spontaneamente e lentamente. Ha bisogno che siate spiazzati da lui, da qui i suoi numerosi <\/span>maschere ingannevoli<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never really know who you\u2019re dealing with because he changes his mask with each new stage of your \u2018relationship\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n

And by the time you figure out how you fell into a bottomless pit of manipulation, evil tactics and betrayal, his job is done and he\u2019s onto the next one. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were used and you didn\u2019t even realize what was happening until it was done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma la cosa pi\u00f9 strana di tutte \u00e8 questa: Come diavolo fa a trattarti cos\u00ec male e a passare per il bravo ragazzo?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Come fa a piacere cos\u00ec tanto alla gente, mentre in segreto ti svuota di tutto ci\u00f2 che ti fa desiderare di vivere? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 davvero essere cos\u00ec bravo nel suo mestiere?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This is what I\u2019m here to get to the bottom of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continuate a leggere perch\u00e9 potrebbe far luce su come il narcisista riesca a ingannare tutti quelli che lo circondano (tranne voi) facendogli credere di essere il dolce ragazzo della porta accanto.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u00c8 abile nel mantenere false apparenze<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Il vostro narcisista<\/span><\/a> non avr\u00e0 problemi a sgridarvi in privato, umiliarvi e usarvi, per poi uscire di casa in cinque minuti con il sorriso sulle labbra, offrendosi di aiutare l'anziana vicina con la spesa.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what\u2019s so scary about them. They have the perfect mask for when they need to be perceived as the good guy by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

The narcissist doesn\u2019t have any problems covertly mistreating you and then publicly offering a helping hand to a perfect stranger.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s his most dominant personality trait\u2014duplicity. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be shocked seeing him in public because the person YOU know is anything but that. And the worst part? No one will ever know.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Tratta gli altri con gentilezza perch\u00e9 potrebbe aver bisogno di usarli in futuro.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You never know when someone might come in handy; that\u2019s the narcissist\u2019s mantra. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non mostra mai il suo vero volto alle persone perch\u00e9 pensa subdolamente che in seguito potrebbe avere bisogno di qualcosa da loro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec si comporta come un angelo sulla terra la cui unica missione \u00e8 quella di raddrizzare tutti gli errori del pianeta. <\/span><\/p>\n

E tu (la sua vittima) sei l'unico a conoscere il suo lato oscuro nascosto che conserva solo per te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vorresti poter mettere in guardia le persone da lui, ma come potresti farlo? <\/span><\/p>\n

He controls your every move and if he finds out you did something like that behind his back, he\u2019d make sure to punish you like hell. So you just suffer in silence and pray it all ends soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Il suo fascino ingannatore disarma immediatamente le persone<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You can say what you want about the narcissist but damn it, he\u2019s nothing if not charming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si tratta semplicemente di un'abilit\u00e0 innata con cui \u00e8 immeritatamente nato (o che ha imparato in tenera et\u00e0) e che gli torna estremamente utile.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t take a lot for him to disarm the most suspicious person. <\/span><\/p>\n

All'inizio potreste avere dei sospetti e pensare di affrontarlo, ma state pur certi che vi rassicurer\u00e0 e canceller\u00e0 tutti i vostri dubbi con una rapidit\u00e0 spaventosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find yourself buying his lies and eating out of his hand within minutes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you think you were insane to have such <\/span>problemi di fiducia<\/span><\/a> con lui. Dopotutto, \u00e8 un giovane e raffinato gentiluomo dalle maniere perfette e dalla personalit\u00e0 estroversa.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s not to like? (Other than absolutely everything).<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ha sempre un piano in atto per comportarsi come una vittima innocente.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"ragazzo<\/p>\n

I narcisisti arrivano SEMPRE preparati. C'\u00e8 sempre un piano B e uno molto solido. <\/span><\/p>\n

He knows that he\u2019s always at risk of being exposed and he is prepared to defend himself should such a thing happen because he has many abuso narcisistico<\/a> tattica nella manica. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sarebbe sciocco pensare che scoprire le sue bugie sia facile come si spera. Sa come incolpare il suo bersaglio. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is perfect at using the victim card. He knows just how to assure people that it\u2019s not him\u2014it\u2019s you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, I\u2019ve been there. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s baffling how quick they are on their feet and how (despite your genuine intentions and zero guilt) they always make you the fall guy for their every misdeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s infuriating and disappointing and completely destroys your psyche. I\u2019ve experienced this so many times first-hand. <\/span><\/p>\n

E la parte pi\u00f9 dolorosa di tutto questo \u00e8 che credono davvero alle loro bugie e si divertono a metterti in croce.<\/span><\/p>\n

Their evil ALWAYS prevails and there is rarely anything one can do to stop them. It\u2019s mind-blowingly atrocious.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Come<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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