{"id":45830,"date":"2020-03-28T16:34:27","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T16:34:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45830"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:58:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:58:16","slug":"9-segni-che-lei-ti-sta-mettendo-alla-prova-per-decidere-se-sei-un-fidanzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-segni-che-lei-ti-sta-mettendo-alla-prova-per-decidere-se-sei-un-fidanzato\/","title":{"rendered":"9 segni che lei ti sta mettendo alla prova per decidere se sei un ragazzo materiale"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Che piaccia o meno ammetterlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle donne mette alla prova gli uomini.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to pick up a girl, it is quite probable that she\u2019ll put you through a series of shit tests right from the first date to see if you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/luomo-orientato-alla-famiglia-15-motivi-per-cui-e-un-fidanzato\/\">materiale del ragazzo<\/a> prima che lei accetti di intraprendere una relazione a lungo termine con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Assicuratevi di superare tutti i suoi test con <a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">QUESTA GUIDA <\/a>che vi insegna tutte le cose giuste da dire e da fare per farla vostra.<\/p>\n<p>Oggi la scena degli appuntamenti \u00e8 difficile, soprattutto per le ragazze. Molti uomini attraggono le donne solo per usarle sessualmente ed emotivamente, e finiscono per voltar loro le spalle una volta che vedono che possono averle, quindi ci sono molti test che le donne devono fare prima di farli entrare nel loro cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Sei un bravo ragazzo che merita una possibilit\u00e0 o un idiota da cui lei dovrebbe scappare?<\/p>\n<p>Sei il tipo di ragazzo che la ferisce o qualcuno che vuole il vero affare?<\/p>\n<p>These are all the questions running through every girl&#8217;s mind before she even gives agrees on a second date, let alone sees you as someone deserving of her.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105184\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"336\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6.jpg 336w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6-300x250.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-6-150x125.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That is what a woman&#8217;s tests are all about: to try to protect herself from getting hurt and get to the bottom of your intentions.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you see this as a pain in the ass, you simply can&#8217;t make women stop doing this.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che potete fare \u00e8 imparare a rispondere a tutte le sue domande difficili e fare in modo di farla cadere in piedi. <a href=\"https:\/\/cb760yftav6m4sfp--x-stbnb9.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">CLICCA QUI<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, la situazione in cui una donna vi mette alla prova \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 positiva per voi.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that a girl likes you enough to consider having a future together and she wants something serious with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that she\u2019s fallen for you hard and now she just wants to see whether you\u2019re really worthy of her love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Altrimenti, perch\u00e9 sprecare le sue energie con qualcuno di temporaneo?<\/p>\n<p>However, guys who attract women know the difference between a girl who\u2019s testing them and one who\u2019s simply not interested.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s why we\u2019re here: to give you 9 telltale signs a woman is testing you, to help you pass each one of them, and to bring your dating life to the next level.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She&#8217;s been hurt before<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74727 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"donna con felpa nera seduta all&#039;esterno guarda pensierosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-wearing-black-sweatshirt-sitting-on-outside-looks-thoughtful-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Usually, the girls who have a habit of putting men through shit tests before entering a long-term relationship with them are the girls who\u2019ve had a troubled and painful romantic history and been through hell in this harsh dating world.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, questa ragazza \u00e8 stata tradita e ingannata dalla persona che amava di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 stata abbandonata dall'uomo che le aveva promesso di stare al suo fianco fino alla fine dei tempi, quindi \u00e8 rimasta delusa da tutti gli uomini e dall'intera scena degli appuntamenti.<\/p>\n<p>Di conseguenza, ha sviluppato una profonda <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/una-ragazza-con-problemi-di-fiducia-vi-prega-di-non-fare-queste-12-cose\/\">problemi di fiducia<\/a> e traumi emotivi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/f54fbsetdzizdl1xp7g2n12d1t.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105188\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"336\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10.png 336w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10-300x250.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Teo-Badass-10-150x125.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Anche se sono passati anni da quell'evento, la ragazza porta ancora con s\u00e9 un bagaglio emotivo di relazioni passate.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s learned how to be guarded and overly careful when it comes to men, because she expects that every guy she meets will treat her the way her ex did.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s simply scared that every next relationship she gets herself involved in will end up the same way and she\u2019ll be left crushed and devastated.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly why she\u2019s developed a habit of testing guys before giving them full access to her heart.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that she\u2019s trying to see whether you match her impossible standards, she just wants to make sure that you care enough, that you\u2019re worthy of her love and attention.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, this isn\u2019t me trying to tell you that you\u2019re obligated to pass all those tests or that you should pay for the things the men before you did.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I\u2019m just trying to make you understand why she does what she does.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that every heartbroken girl will put her potential boyfriend through a series of shit tests, but the fact is that in most cases, women test men when they\u2019ve been hurt in their past relationships, and this is the thing you should pay attention to in the first place whenever you wonder if a girl is testing you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gioca duro per ottenere<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74717 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg\" alt=\"vista posteriore di uomo e donna seduti intorno agli alberi\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/back-view-of-man-and-woman-sitting-around-trees-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a girl likes you but is playing hard to get, that\u2019s one of the most important signs she is testing your patience.<\/p>\n<p>She wants to see how long you\u2019re prepared to wait before she lets you in her heart and bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>If a girl is testing you, she\u2019ll constantly pretend that she\u2019s running away from you just so she can see whether you\u2019ll go after her.<\/p>\n<p>However, she\u2019ll never actually get away from you completely.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, when women test you, they\u2019ll always remain at arm\u2019s length and within your reach \u2013 they just want to see whether you are ready to put in an effort and have enough inner confidence to come and get them.<\/p>\n<p>Also, this girl\u2019s probably scared that you\u2019ll lose interest the moment she shows you her feelings, so she pretends to act heartless instead.<\/p>\n<p>Ha paura di mostrare le sue emozioni perch\u00e9 questo significherebbe anche esporre le sue vulnerabilit\u00e0, le sue debolezze e il suo lato fragile, il che vi darebbe pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 di ferirla e di distruggere la sua sicurezza interiore in futuro.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to necessarily mean that this girl is into playing games.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, she probably just wants to see if you\u2019re someone who gives up easily or a strong man who knows what he wants and is ready to fight for the woman he cares for.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, this girl pretends to be a cold-hearted queen for most of the time, just to see if you\u2019re strong enough to break her walls. When that happens, she&#8217;ll be ready to call you by those <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nomi-dei-contatti-del-fidanzato\/\">Nomi di contatto del fidanzato carino<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s someone who rarely shows initiative, a girl who never makes the first move towards you and always leaves you wondering where you two stand.<\/p>\n<p>She won&#8217;t invite you for a second date, she won&#8217;t call you to meet up, and she won&#8217;t make any step towards you two being together.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74719 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una ragazza carina che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/side-view-of-cute-girl-looking-outside-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are times when you can\u2019t help but ask yourself if this girl likes you at all or she is just trying to make you catch her.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 completamente disinteressata o \u00e8 davvero pazza di te?<\/p>\n<p>Well, there\u2019s a fine line between a girl who wants you out of her life and one who is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/una-donna-forte-non-gioca-a-fare-la-difficile-ma-e-difficile-da-ottenere\/\">giocare duro per ottenere<\/a> \u2013 the real magic lies in your ability to differentiate between these two.<\/p>\n<p>When a girl is playing hard to get, her vibe and body language signs will show you that she\u2019s actually into for you.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t help but flirt with you, stare at you, accidentally touch you, or be as close to you as possible.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t sleep with you on the first date, but she will give you hints that she finds you sexually attractive and might allow you to hold her hand or even kiss her.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, when she is not interested, she won\u2019t give you a place in her life at all.<\/p>\n<p>This girl probably won\u2019t ask you out first, but she\u2019ll definitely agree to meet you when you suggest something or offer a rain check.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, when she isn\u2019t interested, she\u2019ll refuse all of your proposals and always be too busy to see you or talk to you.<\/p>\n<p>A girl who is playing hard to get will never tell you that she likes you upfront, but she won\u2019t tell you that she is indifferent either, nor will she ever give you a flat no.<\/p>\n<p>However, when she\u2019s not interested, she won\u2019t hesitate to make things clear and leave you with no hope whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti chiede del tuo passato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74720 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in cima alla scogliera\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-on-top-of-cliff-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un altro modo in cui le donne vi mettono alla prova \u00e8 scavare nel vostro passato e chiedervi della vostra vita sentimentale prima di lei.<\/p>\n<p>This girl is no exception: She\u2019ll try to find out if you\u2019re just a nice guy in disguise who only uses women for sex oractually nothing but a narcissist who enjoys breaking other people\u2019s hearts, and if she should run away from you pronto.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s perfectly normal that she wants to know if you\u2019re a classified abuser or a cheater, if you have a history of treating women like crap, and whether most of your relationships ended because of you.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, se avete una cattiva reputazione nel mondo degli appuntamenti e siete noti per essere un giocatore che ha l'abitudine di usare le belle donne, cosa pu\u00f2 aspettarsi da voi in futuro e come pu\u00f2 vedervi come materiale per un fidanzato?<\/p>\n<p>Also, she\u2019ll ask you about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lettera-alla-mia-ex-fidanzata-mi-dispiace-di-averti-ferito\/\">ex fidanzate<\/a> per controllare il vostro carattere.<\/p>\n<p>Sei un idiota che parla male della persona con cui ha passato anni o tratti ancora la tua ex con rispetto, anche se l'amore che provavi per lei \u00e8 finito da tempo?<\/p>\n<p>Sei pronto a rovesciare su di lei tutta la spazzatura che hai solo per apparire migliore, o sei un uomo maturo che si prende la sua parte di responsabilit\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>Scender\u00e0 nei dettagli quando parler\u00e0 delle sue ex o rimarr\u00e0 un gentiluomo che sa esattamente quanto deve dire?<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a habit of staying friends with your exes? Do you still have feelings for someone from your past and are you trying to use her as your rebound? No, this girl won\u2019t ask you any of these questions upfront.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, trover\u00e0 tutte le risposte di cui ha bisogno ascoltando tutto ci\u00f2 che avete da dire sulla vostra storia sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p>Quello di cui dovete essere consapevoli \u00e8 che questa ragazza probabilmente sa molto di pi\u00f9 di quanto possiate pensare.<\/p>\n<p>She probably already has all the answers but just wants to know whether you\u2019ll be honest enough to tell her your side of the story.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Parla dei suoi ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74721 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si baciano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-and-woman-kissing-together-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re looking for obvious signs that a girl is putting you through some shit tests to learn more about you, pay attention to the way she talks about her exes, without you even having to ask her about them.<\/p>\n<p>There are a few things she can find out about you while mentioning her ex, such as whether you have a tendency to be a possessive jealous jerk and how you\u2019d react in certain situations.<\/p>\n<p>L'ultima cosa che dovresti fare \u00e8 comportarti in modo offeso perch\u00e9 lei ha avuto il coraggio di parlare di qualcuno con cui \u00e8 uscita prima di te.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you two aren\u2019t kids and you are very well aware that you\u2019re involved with a woman who has a past.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, sarebbe scortese e di cattivo gusto se iniziasse a parlare di alcuni dettagli intimi relativi a uno dei suoi ex fidanzati, ma tutto il resto \u00e8 perfettamente normale.<\/p>\n<p>Bear in mind that the two of you are getting to know each other, so it\u2019s natural that she wants to briefly introduce you to her romantic history.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole che tu sappia di pi\u00f9 sul tipo di ragazzi che le piacciono, sui suoi limiti e sulle cose che le piace fare o che le piacciono di pi\u00f9. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-cose-che-le-donne-sicure-non-tollerano-mai-nelle-relazioni\/\">doesn\u2019t tolerate in a relationship.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pay close attention to every word she says because she\u2019s trying to send you a subtle message.<\/p>\n<p>This girl will monitor your reaction if she, for example, tells you that she\u2019d been <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-siete-stati-traditi\/\">tradito<\/a> o abusato in passato.<\/p>\n<p>Siete indignati o lo vedete come qualcosa che semplicemente accade e che eventualmente fareste?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti incontra con le sue amiche<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74730 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che scrive sul suo telefono mentre due donne lo guardano fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/male-typing-on-his-phone-while-two-female-looking-at-him-outside-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, a girl knows that she likes you but that\u2019s not enough for her to make up her mind about you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s probably so blindsided by the depth of her emotions that they affect her judgment- skills.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s scared that she\u2019ll fail to see you for who you really are or disregard your numerous flaws due to the fact that she\u2019s crazy for you and scared that she\u2019ll make the wrong choice if she lets her heart decide.<\/p>\n<p>Pertanto, ha bisogno di un punto di vista pi\u00f9 realistico.<\/p>\n<p>She needs someone who doesn\u2019t care about you and see you through rose-tinted glasses, but also someone whose opinion she can trust.<\/p>\n<p>And who\u2019s better for the job than her friends who won&#8217;t hesitate to tell her everything upfront?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, when she meets you with her BFFs, it\u2019s a surefire sign that the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-sapere-se-piaci-a-una-ragazza-segnali-che-e-pazza-di-te\/\">Alla ragazza piaci<\/a> and there\u2019s a huge step ahead.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a sign that she has serious intentions with you and wants to make you a part of her life.<\/p>\n<p>Dopotutto, nessuna ragazza presenta ai suoi cari un incontro casuale o un'avventura occasionale, quindi questo vi rende piuttosto speciali.<\/p>\n<p>However, it\u2019s also a test for you.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, vuole vedere se le persone di cui si fida e a cui vuole bene pensano che voi due siate una buona coppia.<\/p>\n<p>What is her friends\u2019 intuition telling them about you?<\/p>\n<p>How do they evaluate you: as a nice guy who\u2019s worthy of her or a douchebag who has a chance of breaking her heart?<\/p>\n<p>You might think of this as silly, but that\u2019s how things function among girls.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, she\u2019s a grown woman and doesn\u2019t need anyone\u2019s permission to be with you, but that doesn\u2019t mean that her BFFs cannot help you win her heart even more (or lose her for good).<\/p>\n<p>Another thing she\u2019s trying to test is how well you would fit in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste andare d'accordo con i suoi amici pi\u00f9 stretti o sareste un emarginato nella sua cerchia sociale?<\/p>\n<p>Knowing all of this, you understand the importance of leaving a great first impression on this girl\u2019s friends.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget to act like a gentleman with manners, but show them that you have enough self-esteem and strength of character as well, because the last thing you want is them advising her to put you in the friend-zone.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Chiede il vostro aiuto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74722 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che arreda la stanza, dipingere la parete di blu\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-decorating-room-painting-wall-in-blue-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the signs she&#8217;s testing you is also hidden in the way she asks for your help.<\/p>\n<p>A prescindere dall'autosufficienza di una ragazza, ogni donna desidera avere un partner almeno di pari livello. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-comportamenti-che-rivelano-che-stai-uscendo-con-un-uomo-mentalmente-forte\/\">uomo mentalmente forte<\/a> al suo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>Even if she doesn\u2019t actually need you, she wants to know that she can rely on you, that you can protect her, and that she can count on you at all times.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what she needs to make sure of before she starts anything serious with you.<\/p>\n<p>Siete uno di quegli uomini che riescono a far sentire le donne sicure e protette? O un uomo che la abbandona quando lei ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui?<\/p>\n<p>Potete aspettarvi che vi chiami per chiedervi di aiutarla a sbrigare alcune commissioni in casa, a cambiare una ruota bucata o semplicemente per chiedervi un consiglio.<\/p>\n<p>Watch out because she\u2019s only doing this to test whether you&#8217;re ready to give her the first place in your life!<\/p>\n<p>Sei pronto a lasciare tutti in sospeso solo per correre ad aiutarla?<\/p>\n<p>Verreste a prenderla nel cuore della notte se ve lo chiedesse, anche se dovete alzarvi presto la mattina dopo?<\/p>\n<p>Oppure la lascereste da sola ad affrontare i suoi problemi e ignorereste le sue richieste di aiuto?<\/p>\n<p>Siete pronti a condividere la vostra vita con lei e ad essere il suo partner, anche quando le cose si fanno difficili?<\/p>\n<p>Avete le carte in regola per essere la sua spalla su cui piangere e potete essere l'uomo che la spinge in avanti quando sta per cadere?<\/p>\n<p>These are all some deeper and bigger things she\u2019ll conclude based on your behavior in these seemingly unimportant situations.<\/p>\n<p>You need to show this girl that you have the capacity to be her rock \u2013 that you\u2019re a real, mature man. However, you also need to be careful not to get used.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t act like a puppy who\u2019ll come running whenever she calls you, because that\u2019ll only put you in the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-segnali-allarmanti-che-la-vostra-relazione-si-sta-dirigendo-verso-la-friendzone\/\">zona amica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, strike a balance: Show her that she can count on you, but that you won\u2019t be her personal assistant. This way, she\u2019ll appreciate you the most.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cita molti dettagli su di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74729 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-at-coffee-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Women are much different to a lot of men. They pay attention to the little things \u2013 to dates and details \u2013 while men in most cases couldn\u2019t care less about those things, no matter how deeply they care for someone.<\/p>\n<p>When a woman tests you and is trying to find out how much she means to you, she\u2019ll tell you a lot about herself.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll give you loads of information that might seem irrelevant to you, such as her favorite color, the name of her first pet, or her favorite childhood memory.<\/p>\n<p>These are all the things you have to remember in detail if you want to pass her shit tests, because otherwise, she\u2019ll conclude that you aren\u2019t listening to her, aren\u2019t paying attention to anything she\u2019s saying, and in the end, don\u2019t give a damn about her.<\/p>\n<p>Sembra estenuante ed eccessivamente drammatico, lo so. Tuttavia, \u00e8 cos\u00ec che vanno le cose e devi affrontarle se vuoi rimorchiare la ragazza che ti piace.<\/p>\n<p>You have to notice every change about her appearance, even if it isn\u2019t that obvious.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, don\u2019t dare forget her birthday, the date when the two of you met, or her best friend\u2019s name.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rifiuta il sesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74724 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"volto sfocato di persone che si baciano tenendo in mano una tazza di caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/blurred-face-of-persons-kissing-while-holding-cup-of-coffee-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, we all enjoy having sex. All of us have physical needs and crave to sleep with someone we are attracted to.<\/p>\n<p>And this girl is no exception. No matter what she\u2019s trying to make you think, if she\u2019s involved with you, she probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/her\/inside-her-mind\/8-segni-inequivocabili-che-una-donna-vuole-venire-a-letto-con-te-ma-cerca-di-nasconderlo\/\">can\u2019t wait to sleep with you<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n<p>However, she won\u2019t do it until she realizes sex is not the only thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she\u2019ll probably withhold sex for a while and use it as a way to test your feelings for her.<\/p>\n<p>This is the girl who doesn\u2019t want to have casual physical relations or a no-strings-attached relationship and she\u2019s checking if that\u2019s what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s offering the real deal and the whole package, meaning that you can\u2019t get her body without her mind and her heart.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you turn your back on her the moment you realize she isn\u2019t willing to sleep with you just yet, it means you only wanted to use her for sex.<\/p>\n<p>It means you aren\u2019t interested in her as a person and only had one thing in mind ever since you met her.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re ready to wait until she becomes comfortable enough to sleep with you and the two of you reach a different level of intimacy, it\u2019s more than clear that you\u2019re a guy who\u2019s worthy of her giving you her entire being.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you shouldn\u2019t mention or initiate sex at all (because that would make her think you\u2019re not attracted to her or that there\u2019s something wrong with you) or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/come-flirtare-con-una-ragazza-10-metodi-che-funzionano-a-meraviglia\/\">flirtare con lei<\/a>, but you need to learn how to accept when she tells you &#8220;no&#8221; upfront, despite what her vibe and body language might be telling you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of pushing her past her limits and showing her that you\u2019re nothing but an immature jerk who only cares about getting laid, respect this girl\u2019s personal boundaries and I assure you that she\u2019ll respect you as a man too.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no need for her to be apologizing for the fact that she\u2019s still not ready to sleep with you and you should have no problem with that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She\u2019s testing you through text<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74723 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che digita al telefono in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-typing-phone-at-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei test pi\u00f9 comuni che le donne impongono ai loro uomini \u00e8 l'invio di messaggi.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono molti segnali che indicano che ti sta mettendo alla prova con un messaggio: ecco i pi\u00f9 comuni:<\/p>\n<h3>Non ti manda mai un messaggio prima<\/h3>\n<p>If a girl\u2019s not interested in you, you can send her a million texts and never get her to communicate with you.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when it comes to the girl who\u2019s putting you through some shit tests, the situation is quite different.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che la comunicazione \u00e8 sempre fluida quando voi due parlate.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s apparent that she wants you to continue talking, but she\u2019s never the one who initiates anything;she never texts you first.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s more than obvious that this girl doesn\u2019t want to appear desperate.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-modi-in-cui-le-vecchie-anime-amano-in-modo-diverso\/\">anima antica<\/a> e pensa che sia sempre lei, in quanto uomo, a fare la prima mossa.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, this is also part of her test. She wants to see if you are really into her or will give up as soon as you don\u2019t get the reaction you want.<\/p>\n<h3>Le sue risposte sono ritardate<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74716 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo infelice che messaggia al cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a woman doesn&#8217;t respond to your texts right away without giving you an explanation or apologizing for her rude behavior, the first thing that comes to your mind is that she\u2019s not interested.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, questo pu\u00f2 anche essere uno dei segni che lei vi sta mettendo alla prova.<\/p>\n<p>This is nothing more that this woman&#8217;s test \u2013 her way of seeing whether you\u2019ll wait for her to text you back or immediately move on to the next beautiful woman you meet.<\/p>\n<p>Fai sul serio con lei o \u00e8 solo una di una lunga serie di altre?<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, il punto \u00e8 che lei risponde sempre, prima o poi.<\/p>\n<p>She just doesn\u2019t want you to think that she spends her entire day eager for you to text her, that she doesn\u2019t have anything better to do than to text with you.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, questo \u00e8 uno dei modi in cui le donne mettono alla prova gli uomini per verificare la loro pazienza e autostima.<\/p>\n<p>Will you go all crazy if she takes hours to respond or will you just say &#8220;no problem&#8221; and accept it as something perfectly normal?<\/p>\n<h3>Si sforza minimamente di rispondere<\/h3>\n<p>Un'altra delle prove di merda a cui le ragazze sottopongono gli uomini con gli sms \u00e8 il minimo sforzo nel rispondere.<\/p>\n<p>While she does respond to your text, her messages are always short and put you in a position in which you have to drag words out of her. Trust me, if you\u2019re annoying her, she would\u2019ve blocked you ages ago.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s clear that she\u2019s interested but she wants to see how hard you\u2019re willing to try to win her attention over.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-74714 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"9 segni che lei ti sta mettendo alla prova per decidere se sei un ragazzo materiale \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whether they like to admit it or not, the truth is that most women test men. If you want to pick up a girl, it is quite probable that she\u2019ll put you through a series of shit tests right from the first date to see if you\u2019re boyfriend material before she actually agrees on entering&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":74715,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/9-Signs-She-Is-Testing-You-To-Decide-If-Youre-Boyfriend-Material.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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