{"id":46068,"date":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46068"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","slug":"4-segnali-che-indicano-che-il-vostro-uomo-e-paranoico-e-4-modi-per-gestire-la-situazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-segnali-che-indicano-che-il-vostro-uomo-e-paranoico-e-4-modi-per-gestire-la-situazione\/","title":{"rendered":"4 segni che il vostro uomo \u00e8 paranoico e abusante (e 4 modi per gestirlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una piccola dose di gelosia \u00e8 perfettamente normale in qualsiasi relazione sentimentale. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s even healthy to a degree because it proves <\/span>il vostro partner<\/span><\/a>\u2019s loyalty and affection.<\/span><\/p>\n

When somebody is jealous, it means they care, otherwise they wouldn\u2019t even notice you talking to another guy.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma come si fa a capire se la sua gelosia lo sta lentamente trasformando in un fidanzato abusivamente paranoico?<\/span><\/p>\n

Where is the line? How much jealousy is acceptable, and when is it time to consider doing something about it out of fear he\u2019s beginning to cross a line? <\/span><\/p>\n

Non accettate mai un comportamento abusivo solo perch\u00e9 trovate delle scuse nella vostra testa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate onesti con voi stessi e mettete le vostre esigenze al primo posto per una volta! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni segnali chiari come il sole che indicano che la sua gelosia si sta trasformando in paranoia abusiva, che dovrebbero aiutarvi a determinare le vostre prossime mosse.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. At first \u2013 he seems too good to be true<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

All'inizio ha investito molto in <\/span>la vostra relazione<\/span><\/a>. Ti ha dato tutto, ti ha trattato come una regina e non ha avuto occhi per nessun altro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You genuinely felt like he was a gift from God that never stopped giving\u2014until it all slowly started changing.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He starts pointing out every little thing that\u2019s wrong with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Il problema pu\u00f2 essere di varia natura. Il tuo modo di vestire \u00e8 troppo provocante; dovresti cambiarti con qualcosa di meno scollato. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti trucchi troppo e questo fa s\u00ec che i ragazzi si avvicinino a te. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t cook dinner on time, and now he has to wait an extra hour to eat. It can be anything, really. Slowly but surely, he\u2019ll start complaining more and more.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re never honest enough according to him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You tell him where you are, who you\u2019re with, and every little detail about everything\u2014and it STILL isn\u2019t enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

He always badgers you about hiding things and accuses you of lying. You know it\u2019s not true, but you just can\u2019t prove it to him, and it\u2019s becoming a problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t forgive and forget<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Continua a ricordarvi ogni piccola cosa sbagliata che avete fatto. Non dimentica pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he wants to keep punishing you for every misdeed so that you always know your place and never repeat any mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He forgets that you\u2019re only human and making mistakes is our way of growing and evolving.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we\u2019ve covered the main signs of his worrisome behaviour, let\u2019s try to find a way to handle it in the best manner.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Credo che una conversazione onesta sia sempre una buona strada da percorrere.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Try to talk to him. Confront him about it and see where it goes. If it doesn\u2019t work, here are 4 suggestions on how to handle his abusive paranoia and <\/span><\/i>prendersi cura di <\/span><\/i><\/a>per una volta.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Bloccare il problema sul nascere<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ecco come funziona. Nel momento in cui manifesta questa paranoia esagerata, rispondete immediatamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he accuses you of not checking in with him and lying about your whereabouts, explain to him that it\u2019s simply not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

Gli dici sempre dove sei e non nascondi mai nulla. Ancora di pi\u00f9, chiedetegli un esempio di questa presunta menzogna e guardatelo mentre si gratta la testa.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Read between the lines and answer the BIG question (that\u2019s hiding in the little one)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say he asks you about that new guy you\u2019re working with. He is clearly suspicious that there\u2019s something going on as he won\u2019t stop asking about him. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never ask straight up: <\/span>\u2018\u2019Are you fucking that dude?\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i> but you\u2019ll know that\u2019s what he\u2019s insinuating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, la prossima volta che vi chieder\u00e0 di lui, rispondete: <\/span>\u2018\u2019I know where you\u2019re going with this and NO, I\u2019m not unfaithful. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The only guy I want to sleep with is standing in front of me.\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t let him test your love<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Non sono mai d'accordo su nessuna di queste cose <\/span>giochi mentali <\/span><\/a>o di dimostrare il vostro amore facendo questo, quello o quell'altro. Questo \u00e8 per i mocciosi immaturi! <\/span><\/p>\n

Either he accepts you as you are or he can keep looking. True love doesn\u2019t need tests; it\u2019s strong enough to withstand jealousy spells. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know you won\u2019t stand for that. He can either accept it or move on. You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet, and it\u2019s time he finally realized that.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Giocare al suo gioco<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Se continua a dubitare di voi, a controllarvi e a chiedervi di dimostrare la vostra fedelt\u00e0, fate lo stesso. <\/span><\/p>\n

La prossima volta che vi chiede dove vi trovate, chiedetegli dei SUOI. E quando ve lo dir\u00e0, comportatevi da partner geloso e chiedetegli le prove. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dimostrategli che si pu\u00f2 giocare in due. Speriamo che questo gli faccia capire quanto sia diventato paranoico e lo faccia smettere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know clearly that if it doesn\u2019t, he\u2019s going to lose the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to him. <\/span><\/p>\n

La gelosia va bene fino a un certo punto, ma la paranoia non \u00e8 qualcosa che non tollererete mai pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

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