{"id":46148,"date":"2019-11-04T15:45:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T15:45:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46148"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:41","slug":"abbassare-i-propri-standard-non-aumentera-le-possibilita-di-essere-felici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/abbassare-i-propri-standard-non-aumentera-le-possibilita-di-essere-felici\/","title":{"rendered":"Abbassare i propri standard non aumenter\u00e0 le possibilit\u00e0 di felicit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lei \u00e8 una donna forte e autosufficiente, che sa quello che vuole: nessuno pu\u00f2 metterlo in dubbio.<\/p>\n

Sapete che tipo di partner meritate e di cui avete bisogno, ma purtroppo non riuscite a trovare un uomo che faccia al caso vostro.<\/p>\n

It is not that you\u2019re looking for a flawless Mr. Perfect who will make of your wildest fantasies come true\u2014you just want a man who will have the ability to keep up with you, a man who will see your worth and most importantly, a man who will give you back all the love he\u2019s getting from you. <\/p>\n

So why does everyone keep telling you that you\u2019re asking for too much?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 tutti continuano ad accusarla di essere troppo esigente quando si tratta di uomini<\/a> e perch\u00e9 tutti continuano a consigliarvi di abbassare i vostri standard?<\/p>\n

Let me tell you one thing: It is always better to remain single than to be with someone who doesn\u2019t fit your criteria and with someone who doesn\u2019t match your requirements. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, cut the bullshit and don\u2019t even think of lowering your standards because I can assure you that this won\u2019t increase your chances of happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n

You see, it is not enough to find a man you’re just comfortable with, a man who is convenient at a given time and who has the potential to save you from dying alone.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t settle on spending the rest of your life with a dude who looks good on paper but doesn\u2019t make you feel deep love.<\/p>\n

With a nice guy who probably won\u2019t turn into an asshole over time but who is not likely to dump you when he gets tired of you.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

It is not enough to be with a man who won\u2019t cheat on you, who won\u2019t abuse you in any way and who\u2019ll have the decency to return your phone calls and take you out a few times a week.<\/b><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t consider yourself lucky just for running into a guy who puts some effort into your relationship, who buys you flowers and chocolate for Valentine\u2019s Day, who doesn\u2019t forget your birthday or who doesn\u2019t put you last.<\/b><\/p>\n

None of this is a privilege you should be thankful for\u2014it is the bare minimum and something that should be implied in every normal relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 il tipo di relazione che si deve inseguire, per paura di rimanere soli.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, please, don\u2019t lower your standards because by doing so, you\u2019ll also decrease your happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll betray all of your principles, you\u2019ll ruin your future and you\u2019ll sentence yourself to a miserable, loveless life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Besides, lowering your standards won\u2019t magically invite everlasting love into your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, it might help you get a temporary boyfriend but it definitely won\u2019t make you any happier in the long run.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you should have unrealistic expectations or that you should concentrate on finding a rich, handsome model who will nod his head to every word you say.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t lower your standards just because you can\u2019t find what you\u2019re looking for or because someone accused you of asking for too much.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Invece, cercate di pi\u00f9 perch\u00e9 vi meritate di pi\u00f9. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cercate un uomo che vi faccia sentire vive e tranquille allo stesso tempo, un uomo che vi faccia sentire amate e protette e un uomo che sia il vostro vero compagno di vita.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle<\/b><\/a> per un uomo che in questo momento soddisfi solo i vostri bisogni fisici o emotivi.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cercate invece qualcuno che vi faccia sentire completi e che riempia tutti i vostri vuoti per il resto della vita. <\/b><\/p>\n

Someone you\u2019ll love, someone who will be your perfect match and someone you can see yourself growing old next to. <\/p>\n

S\u00ec, so che aspettare questo tipo di uomo pu\u00f2 diventare faticoso ed estenuante.<\/p>\n

So che essere single e stare seduti ad aspettare che lui arrivi non \u00e8 facile.<\/p>\n

However, spending the rest of your life regretting the choices you\u2019ve made out of despair would be even more difficult.<\/p>\n

Wishing you could go back in time and not give a chance to that someone who didn\u2019t deserve it is much more devastating and something you should never put yourself through.<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t give up on finding <\/b>Mr. Right<\/b><\/a> ancora. <\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lose hope or settle for less than you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Abbassare<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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