{"id":46194,"date":"2019-11-04T19:28:51","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T19:28:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46194"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:49:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:49:34","slug":"alcune-persone-ti-spezzano-il-cuore-ma-ti-schiariscono-la-vista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alcune-persone-ti-spezzano-il-cuore-ma-ti-schiariscono-la-vista\/","title":{"rendered":"Alcune persone ti spezzano il cuore ma ti schiariscono le idee"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni <\/span>crepacuore<\/span><\/a> is, to say the least, a pain in the ass. You don\u2019t only feel the emotional pain that\u2019s been eating you alive, you\u2019re angry.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re angry at this other person who crushed you, without giving it a second thought or minding the consequences of his actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re upset at yourself for your bad judgment, for letting someone who was clearly wrong for you in all the way, for trusting someone you obviously shouldn\u2019t, and finally \u2013 for allowing all of this to happen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not only that \u2013 you\u2019re also mad at karma, destiny, faith, God, or whatever divine force you believe in. <\/b><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re the last person who deserved to go through this, so why did this devastating experience have to happen to you?<\/b><\/p>\n

Non hai mai fatto del male a nessuno, figuriamoci a quest'uomo che ti ha trattato da schifo e ha finito per scaricarti, come se non fossi mai stata importante. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you were always the kindest person possible \u2013 someone who was extra careful not to hurt someone else\u2019s feelings intentionally.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s where you\u2019re wrong. <\/span>Invece di vedere questo dolore come la cosa peggiore che potesse capitarvi, dovreste esserne grati. <\/b><\/p>\n

Be thankful for all the pain you\u2019re going through, all the lessons you\u2019ve learned, and having a new valuable experience in your life that will help you grow into the woman you are supposed to become.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siate grati per ogni dolore al cuore, perch\u00e9 vi ha aiutato a vedere molte cose in modo pi\u00f9 chiaro. <\/b><\/p>\n

If it hadn\u2019t happened, you wouldn\u2019t have known the things you know now and you\u2019d still have that douchebag who doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life next to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t decided to show his true colors, you would\u2019ve never found out what kind of a monster sleeps beside you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You would\u2019ve never known all he\u2019s capable of. Never realized he didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

You would\u2019ve never kicked this <\/b>uomo tossico<\/b><\/a> dalla tua vita e sprecato altri anni accanto a qualcuno che aveva le carte in regola per spezzarti il cuore.<\/b>senza nemmeno prendere in considerazione le vostre emozioni.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019d have still been convinced that your boyfriend is this nice guy who\u2019d never do anything to hurt you and whose love for you is eternal and undying. <\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be aware of the fact that he\u2019s actually ready to bail out on you at the first sign of an obstacle or minor inconvenience. <\/span><\/p>\n

If this jerk hasn\u2019t decided to crush you, you would never know how to spot the red flags common to all toxic men, and you wouldn\u2019t be wiser and more careful when it comes to your future selection of potential boyfriends. <\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t know when to correre per la propria vita<\/a> e quando cercare di salvare la vostra futura relazione.<\/b><\/p>\n

And you certainly wouldn\u2019t have the ability to tell the difference between a good guy and an asshole who\u2019ll hurt you.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t experienced this heartbreak, <\/span>you\u2019d never have gotten the chance to see who your <\/b>amici veri<\/b><\/a> sono.<\/b><\/p>\n

Chi erano quelli che erano costantemente disponibili per voi, che non si sono mai preoccupati di ascoltarvi e che hanno continuato a offrirvi la loro spalla su cui piangere? <\/span><\/p>\n

And who were the ones who were always too busy to talk about your problems and couldn\u2019t care less about helping you feel better?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t had your heart broken, you would never know how strong and powerful you actually can be.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have realized that this is not the worst case scenario of your story and  you can survive it \u2013 the same way you can survive anything life throws at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have known that being single is not the worst thing that can happen to you, and embracing your alone time can be the best decision of your life, if you just play your cards right. <\/span><\/p>\n

You would\u2019ve never found out that you can make it on your own and don\u2019t need a man to complete you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Most importantly \u2013 if this guy had never shattered your heart, you\u2019d never have seen the importance of loving yourself more than you love anyone else, and especially your romantic partner. <\/span><\/p>\n

You would\u2019ve never realized how wrong it is to put a guy in front of yourself, nor learned the importance of prioritizing yourself without considering it a selfish act.<\/span><\/p>\n

So yes, some people break your heart into a million pieces when you don\u2019t even see it coming. <\/b><\/p>\n

That said, instead of cursing them for doing so, consider yourself lucky for crossing paths with them because they actually helped you out \u2013 they cleared your vision, made you take your rose tinted sunglasses off, and taught you more than you could\u2019ve imagined.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Alcune<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every heartbreak is, to say the least, a pain in the ass. You don\u2019t only feel the emotional pain that\u2019s been eating you alive, you\u2019re angry. You\u2019re angry at this other person who crushed you, without giving it a second thought or minding the consequences of his actions. You\u2019re upset at yourself for your bad…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":46201,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-close-up-eyes-873065.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46194","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46194"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46194\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46194"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46194"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46194"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}