{"id":46312,"date":"2020-10-05T22:33:54","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T22:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46312"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:07:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:07:22","slug":"10-pensieri-che-un-narcisista-tiene-nascosti-prima-di-rivelare-il-suo-vero-io","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-pensieri-che-un-narcisista-tiene-nascosti-prima-di-rivelare-il-suo-vero-io\/","title":{"rendered":"10 pensieri che un narcisista tiene nascosti prima di rivelare il suo vero io"},"content":{"rendered":"

“What\u2019s the best way for me to get attention?”<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Un narcisista \u00e8 sempre a caccia e sempre bisognoso di attenzioni.<\/p>\n

If he isn\u2019t getting it with his current victim, he\u2019s on the lookout for the next one.<\/p>\n

He needs attention for his “emotional supply” and “narcissistic supply.”<\/p>\n

Il loro ego non \u00e8 mai completamente rafforzato, quindi non si riposano mai.<\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 un pensiero che tengono sempre nascosto di fronte a le loro vittime<\/a>anche se \u00e8 proprio questo che li spinge ad agire nel modo in cui agiscono.<\/p>\n

Attention is their number one ego-enhancer, so it\u2019s no shock that they\u2019re forever contemplating it.<\/p>\n

“I don\u2019t give a shit”<\/h2>\n

In case you didn\u2019t already know, a narcissist just doesn\u2019t care<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about his actions, he doesn\u2019t care about what he\u2019s doing to you, and he certainly doesn\u2019t care how it makes you feel.<\/p>\n

He is not capable of empathizing and he doesn\u2019t give a damn about a single person out there.<\/p>\n

As he\u2019s watching you go through your daily motions and pretending to care, all he actually thinks about is how he just couldn\u2019t possibly care less and can\u2019t wait for you to leave so he can stop pretending to fregarsene.<\/a><\/p>\n

“I\u2019m always right”<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto si sbagli, nella sua mente ha sempre ragione.<\/p>\n

He can do so much shit to you and you can be suffering due to his actions, and he\u2019ll still think he was right to do that and you\u2019re merely overreacting.<\/p>\n

Per lui esiste solo la sua strada e quella sbagliata.<\/p>\n

You can try to convince him otherwise all you want, but we both know it\u2019ll be with zero success.<\/p>\n

Your narcissist is “Mr Always Right.”<\/p>\n

E questa \u00e8 la loro abitudine pi\u00f9 tormentosa per coloro che devono sopportarla.<\/p>\n

“Deep down, I have no self-confidence”<\/h2>\n

A narcissist can pretend to be the most self-assured man you\u2019ve ever encountered.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you believe it as well.<\/p>\n

Ma in fondo non ha fiducia in se stesso.<\/p>\n

Si ritiene che i narcisisti abbiano imparato a ricablare il proprio cervello come meccanismo di coping.<\/p>\n

So they can exhibit behavior that presents them as the most powerful man you\u2019ll ever see, but in reality, he\u2019s just overcompensating for his many insecurities that are secretly plaguing him.<\/p>\n

The strangest thing is, he convinces himself of this as well, so you\u2019re not the only one he\u2019s fooling!<\/p>\n

“I\u2019m entitled to everything I want”<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un narcisista \u00e8 davvero come un bambino di cinque anni quando vuole qualcosa.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter that he can\u2019t have it or how hard it is to obtain it. In his mind, he is fully entitled to everything that he wants.<\/p>\n

Un narcisista ha un concetto di merito pari a zero, che lo porta a ritenersi superiore a tutti e quindi ad avere diritto a tutto.<\/p>\n

And he won\u2019t hear no for an answer.<\/p>\n

Sar\u00e0 come avere a che fare con un bambino immaturo che si d\u00e0 il caso sia manipolatore e un po' malvagio.<\/p>\n

“How dare you defy me?”<\/h2>\n

Quando un narcisista viene affrontato, il suo vero io \u00e8 molto vicino a venire fuori.<\/p>\n

On the outside, he\u2019ll seem as this cool, collected man, but when he\u2019s criticized, all he can think about is how anyone dares defy something he said.<\/p>\n

He is very insecure (which is something he\u2019ll never show), so he can\u2019t fathom the concept of being confronted.<\/p>\n

Quello che dice va bene. Non c'\u00e8 altra scelta. <\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di fare sempre a modo suo.<\/p>\n

If you confront, doubt, or criticize him, you\u2019re taking away his power.<\/p>\n

“What an idiot!”<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

\u00c8 risaputo che i narcisisti pensano di essere pi\u00f9 intelligenti di chiunque altro.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve deluded themselves into truly believing this, so they look down on everyone around them.<\/p>\n

You can be saying something that is completely factual, but if he disagrees, he is going to deem you an idiot in his mind (perhaps even out loud if he\u2019s feeling ballsy).<\/p>\n

“I\u2019m in desperate need of something”<\/h2>\n

Hanno bisogno di conferme, potere, denaro e sesso.<\/p>\n

Cercano sempre la vittima pi\u00f9 facile che fornisca loro tutto questo.<\/p>\n

Often, they don\u2019t get every single thing from just one person, so they keep looking for more sources.<\/p>\n

Per loro, le persone sono un'esaltazione dell'ego.<\/p>\n

Se si sente poco potente, trover\u00e0 qualcuno di debole per cambiare le cose.<\/p>\n

If he needs sex, he\u2019s going seduce the next na\u00efve girl he stumbles upon.<\/p>\n

I suoi bisogni sono infiniti, cos\u00ec come la sua ricerca.<\/p>\n

“You\u2019ve just made an enemy”<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Il narcisista \u00e8 un tipo di persona passivo-aggressiva.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t go off on you when he\u2019s mad, but he\u2019ll secretly plan his revenge.<\/p>\n

Unless he is extremely distressed and you happen to be nearby, that may change, but in any other situation, he\u2019s quietly plotting his payback.<\/p>\n

 “I need to find the next victim”<\/h2>\n

When the one he\u2019s using at the moment stops being of use to him, he immediately thinks about his next step.<\/p>\n

Dove cercher\u00e0 il prossimo?<\/p>\n

Come far\u00e0 a farle caduta per<\/a> lui?<\/p>\n

Ci vuole un po' di tempo per organizzare le sue tattiche, quindi pensa sempre in anticipo.<\/p>\n

He may seem like he\u2019s happy with what you\u2019re giving him (or better yet: what he\u2019s taking from you), but he\u2019s already started planning his next quest.<\/p>\n

\"10<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“What\u2019s the best way for me to get attention?” A narcissist is always on the prowl and always in need of attention. If he isn\u2019t getting it with his current victim, he\u2019s on the lookout for the next one. He needs attention for his “emotional supply” and “narcissistic supply.” Their ego is never fully boosted,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":46313,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/neonbrand-MeddGCgzfnQ-unsplash1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46312","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46312"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46312\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46312"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46312"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}