perch\u00e9 la chiusura \u00e8 cos\u00ec importante<\/a>t.<\/p>\nQuando si ottiene la chiusura, si ottiene una sorta di rimorso da parte della persona che ci sta lasciando o che ci ha ferito.<\/p>\n
You get a \u2018sorry\u2019, you get a reason.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s scientifically proven that people who are shown remorse are more likely to forgive.<\/p>\n
In other words, forgiveness won\u2019t represent that much of a problem.<\/p>\n
La persona che vi ha fatto del male si sta, in un certo senso, assumendo la responsabilit\u00e0 di ci\u00f2 che ha fatto.<\/b><\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s so much easier to get past it.<\/b><\/p>\n
Also, realizing a person is sorry for what they did doesn\u2019t leave a dark cloud over your experience.<\/p>\n
On the contrary, it gives you hope and a ray of light shining upon what\u2019s to come.<\/p>\n
Ti lascia pensare che le cose andranno meglio. <\/p>\n
Cosa succede quando il dolore vi viene procurato deliberatamente?<\/b><\/p>\n
Of course, it\u2019s not the same.<\/p>\n
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There are people out there who enjoy pain\u2014they enjoy causing pain and being surrounded by it.<\/p>\n
Li fa sentire potenti e al comando.<\/p>\n
Dovreste perdonare quelle persone?<\/p>\n
Of course not. Forgiveness doesn\u2019t work that way. <\/p>\n
It\u2019s one thing forgiving a person who is unaware they harmed you; it\u2019s completely something else forgiving a person who is out to get you, just to make you suffer. <\/b><\/p>\n
Quindi vi chiedo: c'\u00e8 bisogno di perdonare?<\/p>\n
Do you feel you need to forgive or do you just think you have to because it\u2019s the right thing to do?<\/p>\n
You see\u2026 that is exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n
No, you don\u2019t always have to forgive.<\/p>\n
Devi elaborare quello che ti \u00e8 successo.<\/p>\n
Bisogna comprenderlo e guarire.<\/p>\n
You have to hold that person responsible for what they did to you and you don\u2019t even have to let them know.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important you share your pain with someone, a therapist or a friend.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important to let everything you\u2019re feeling out and never hold those feelings bottled deep down.<\/p>\n
Forgiveness is always welcome but it\u2019s not essential.<\/p>\n
If you don\u2019t have the power to forgive in you, make sure you always learn from your mistakes and most importantly…<\/p>\n
No, you don\u2019t always have to forgive but you always have to move on.<\/b><\/p>\n
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