{"id":47014,"date":"2020-11-11T16:33:12","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T16:33:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47014"},"modified":"2021-10-29T13:09:39","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T13:09:39","slug":"4-bandiere-rosse-che-indicano-una-relazione-di-tipo-jekyll-e-hyde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-bandiere-rosse-che-indicano-una-relazione-di-tipo-jekyll-e-hyde\/","title":{"rendered":"4 bandiere rosse che indicano una relazione di tipo Jekyll e Hyde"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tutti hanno sentito parlare del Dr. Jekyll e di Mr. Hyde: due facce di una stessa medaglia e due parti di un unico personaggio, dove una \u00e8 il male e l'altra \u00e8 il bene.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, come si fa a capire se il proprio ragazzo \u00e8 affetto da questa patologia? <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/4-segni-di-disturbo-borderline-di-personalita\/\">disturbo di personalit\u00e0<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>What are the warning signs that you\u2019re stuck in a toxic Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde type of personality?<\/p>\n<h2>1. You feel like you\u2019re dating multiple people<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116792\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa con maglione verde di lana \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-woolen-green-sweater-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The main sign that you\u2019re dealing with a man who is both Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde lies in the fact that for most of the time, you feel like you\u2019re actually dating two completely different men who have very little in common.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se all'inizio pu\u00f2 sembrare eccitante, con il tempo inizia a causare pi\u00f9 mal di testa che felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>L'uomo che amate ha due lati opposti e non sapete mai quale lato sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 dominante in un dato momento.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like you have to get to know both of these guys in order to form a real picture regarding his character, but the catch is that they\u2019re so different that rarely anything connects them.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio, queste personalit\u00e0 multiple non sono un grosso problema.<\/p>\n<p>Supponete che il vostro partner abbia avuto una brutta giornata che lo ha portato a reagire in un modo completamente diverso da lui o addirittura vi incolpate di aver svegliato un mostro in quest'uomo perfetto.<\/p>\n<p>However, with time you see that you\u2019re not imagining things.<\/p>\n<p>You see that your man has a kind of a spiritual evil twin and that you\u2019re stuck with the entire package.<\/p>\n<p>So, you learn how to walk on eggshells. You teach yourself how to recognize what personality is present from the very beginning, so you don\u2019t end up doing something wrong.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Non si sa mai cosa aspettarsi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna con capelli neri\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/beautiful-woman-with-black-hair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cosa succeder\u00e0 quando vi incontrerete per un drink stasera?<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro fidanzato sar\u00e0 l'amorevole e premuroso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lui\/players\/7-segnali-che-indicano-che-il-bravo-ragazzo-e-in-realta-uno-stronzo-manipolatore\/\">ragazzo simpatico<\/a> per cui provi dei sentimenti o si trasformer\u00e0 in un mostro e in un abusatore?<\/p>\n<p>Passerete una notte piena di risate e di gioia o finirete per tornare a casa piangendo? Sar\u00e0 gentile o rude sotto le lenzuola?<\/p>\n<p>E domani? Riceverete un dolce messaggio di buongiorno o lui decider\u00e0 semplicemente di ignorarvi per tutto il giorno?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the truth is that you don\u2019t have a clue because you never know what to expect from this guy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest\u2013this uncertainty, the drama, and the turmoil probably attracted you to him in the first place because life next to him is everything but boring.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, siete diventati completamente esausti e stanchi di avere una relazione in cui non sapete mai a che punto siete.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Avete difficolt\u00e0 a identificare i vostri sentimenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116787\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si allontana da sola in una spiaggia deserta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-walking-away-alone-in-a-deserted-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The worst part about being in a relationship with a man who has Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality lies in the fact that most of the time, you can\u2019t even get to the bottom of your own feelings, let alone his.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>There are the days when you literally despise him and can\u2019t even look at his face.<\/p>\n<p>Days when you hate his guts and can\u2019t stand his presence in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Days when you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve gotten yourself in a romantic relationship with a douchebag like this, and days when you just want out.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, ci sono anche giorni in cui si ama quest'uomo pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa al mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Giorni in cui lo vedi come una persona per sempre, un'anima gemella, e giorni in cui vuoi passare il resto della tua vita con lui.<\/p>\n<p>So, you can\u2019t help but wonder who is crazy here? Is it normal for you to have all of this emotional turmoil?<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, lasciatemi dire che si tratta di emozioni perfettamente naturali quando si tratta di un uomo come questo.<\/p>\n<p>Semplicemente si amano le parti buone della sua personalit\u00e0 e si odiano quelle cattive.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Si tiene stretto il ricordo dei bei momenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con l&#039;ombrello in mano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-holding-umbrella-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La domanda logica che sorge da tutto questo \u00e8 perch\u00e9 qualcuno dovrebbe scegliere di rimanere in questa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/13-modi-per-amare-se-stessi-dopo-essersi-liberati-da-una-relazione-tossica\/\">relazione tossica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Well, the truth is that you\u2019re doing it because you\u2019re holding on to the good times and beautiful memories.<\/p>\n<p>You keep telling yourself that this man\u2019s toxic personality is not who he really is, and you keep remembering all those moments in which he behaved like the best boyfriend in the world and treated you like a Princess.<\/p>\n<p>Ti aggrappi alle parti di lui che ti piacciono e che ami, mentendo a te stessa che tutto il resto non \u00e8 altro che una brutta fase che passer\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che vi dica che non \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>This is who this guy is\u2013a mixture of two completely opposite characters, and if you don\u2019t leave him aside right away, you\u2019ll spend the rest of your days miserable being in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-bandiere-rosse-che-indicano-una-relazione-di-tipo-jekyll-e-hyde\/\">relazione tossica<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116785\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/4-Red-Flags-That-Youre-In-A-Jekyll-And-Hyde-Type-Of-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"4 bandiere rosse che indicano una relazione di tipo Jekyll e Hyde\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/4-Red-Flags-That-Youre-In-A-Jekyll-And-Hyde-Type-Of-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/4-Red-Flags-That-Youre-In-A-Jekyll-And-Hyde-Type-Of-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/4-Red-Flags-That-Youre-In-A-Jekyll-And-Hyde-Type-Of-Relationship-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve all heard about Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde\u2013two sides of one coin and two parts of one character, where one is evil and the other is good. However, how can you tell if your boyfriend has this personality disorder? What are the warning signs that you\u2019re stuck in a toxic Dr. Jekyll and Mr&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":116791,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/4-Red-Flags-That-Youre-In-A-Jekyll-And-Hyde-Type-Of-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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