{"id":47054,"date":"2019-11-11T20:38:07","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T20:38:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47054"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:39:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:39:02","slug":"7-promemoria-che-danno-forza-a-una-ragazza-che-si-sta-riprendendo-da-una-rottura-tossica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-promemoria-che-danno-forza-a-una-ragazza-che-si-sta-riprendendo-da-una-rottura-tossica\/","title":{"rendered":"7 promemoria che danno forza a una ragazza che sta guarendo da una rottura tossica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avete chiuso una relazione malsana nel recente passato? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you in the middle of the recovery process? In the middle of an emotional crisis from which you think you\u2019ll never manage to get out?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you\u2019re about to read some of the most important reminders <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-ogni-ragazza-che-sta-affrontando-una-rottura-dovrebbe-sentirsi-dire\/\">Ogni ragazza che sta attraversando una dura rottura dovrebbe sentire.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. It\u2019s NOT your fault<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47055\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704.jpg\" alt=\"Primo piano del profilo di una bella donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Honey, no matter what he might be telling you, you\u2019re not to blame for this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You gave your best to the man who didn\u2019t see it as enough and you tried your hardest to repair a relationship that was <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">destinato a fallire<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re not stupid and you\u2019re not a fool. You were just a girl standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E non c'\u00e8 nulla di vergognoso e umiliante in questo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. You\u2019re not alone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47056\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558.jpg\" alt=\"Due donne si abbracciano per consolare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me tell you that almost every woman has been through all of the things you\u2019re going through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Millions and millions of girls have fought the same battle you\u2019re fighting right now and experienced the same pain you\u2019re feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re not alone in your suffering. You have your friends and your family. You have the people who truly love you and&nbsp; will help you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly \u2013 you have yourself. You have a bright future and a better tomorrow that awaits you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hai il tuo cuore premuroso e gentile che ti indicher\u00e0 sempre la strada. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avete la vostra fede e avete Dio che vi tiene per mano e vi guida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E cosa pu\u00f2 desiderare di pi\u00f9 una ragazza?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Perdere questo ragazzo \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che ti sia capitata<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47057\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di donna d&#039;affari in ufficio in piedi davanti alla finestra \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So che in questo momento vedi questa rottura come la pi\u00f9 grande tragedia della tua vita. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re convinced that this overwhelming pain will never end and you\u2019ll never recover.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In questo momento, vedete la perdita di questo ragazzo come la cosa peggiore che vi possa capitare. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I promise you that in no time, you\u2019ll realize that it was actually the best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll understand that this was not a curse but a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/alla-ragazza-che-ha-bisogno-di-capire-che-tutte-le-sue-lotte-sono-in-realta-benedizioni\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una benedizione sotto mentite spoglie<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Che questo \u00e8 stato il momento pi\u00f9 felice della vostra vita e che dovete esserne grati.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t think that I\u2019m telling you all of this just to comfort you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to trust me, but everything does happen for a reason and for some bigger cause, and time will show you that this man leaving your life is for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong man<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597.jpg\" alt=\"Donna bionda felice\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might see this as an empty phrase, but the truth is you\u2019re way better off single than beside a toxic man who keeps dragging you down to his level. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s always better to be alone than with someone who isn\u2019t cut out for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, instead of lamenting the fact that you\u2019re no longer a part of a couple, embrace your single life and make the best out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> S\u00ec, avete capito bene: essere single pu\u00f2 essere il periodo migliore della vostra vita, se decidete di vederla in questo modo.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. He\u2019ll be sorry<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47059\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane uomo in giacca e cravatta seduto su una rotaia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust me when I tell you one thing: this guy will regret all he\u2019s done to you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sooner or later, he\u2019ll try to come crawling back into your life, begging for your forgiveness and asking fora second chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re into revenge or not, I bet it is nice to know that one day, someone who broke your heart will feel everything you felt. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That he\u2019ll cry the same tears you cried because of him and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/messages\/letters-for-him\/one-day-will-sorry-letting-go\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he\u2019ll be sorry<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> once he sees that he can\u2019t have you back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because he\u2019s the one who needed you. He\u2019s the one who lost a lot while losing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Sopravviverete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505.jpg\" alt=\"attraente donna sorridente con i capelli lunghi che cammina sul tempo soleggiato in citt\u00e0 autunno indossando sexy abito blu, stile di moda di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter the hell you\u2019re going through right now, tomorrow morning, the sun will shine \u2013 I can guarantee you that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter the despair you\u2019re feeling, the light at the end of the tunnel always exists, even if you don\u2019t see it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that you will survive. This will pass and you\u2019ll make it on your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will move on from your previous relationship, you will get over your toxic ex, you will stop loving him, you will forgive him for all the harm he\u2019s done, and you will forget him.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. Ed essere pi\u00f9 forti che mai<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47061\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514.jpg\" alt=\"donna ricca e lussuosa vestita con un elegante completo blu che cammina in citt\u00e0 in una soleggiata giornata autunnale con in mano una borsa, tendenza moda \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that \u2013 this experience will change you forever and in a good way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll never again be the weak, vulnerable girl who got hurt so easily, and your heart will no longer be as fragile as it used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After learning some painful yet valuable lessons, you\u2019ll grow to become a strong woman who isn\u2019t afraid of anything. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E questa sar\u00e0 la vostra pi\u00f9 grande vittoria.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47063\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 promemoria che danno forza a una ragazza che sta guarendo da una rottura tossica\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ended an unhealthy relationship any time in the recent past? 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