{"id":47078,"date":"2019-11-11T20:59:59","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T20:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47078"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:59:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:59:36","slug":"alluomo-che-si-e-presentato-quando-non-stavo-guardando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alluomo-che-si-e-presentato-quando-non-stavo-guardando\/","title":{"rendered":"All'uomo che \u00e8 apparso quando non stavo guardando"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My walls were up, I wasn\u2019t about to let anyone in ever again. I was so hurt and so broken in the past that I swear I couldn\u2019t handle one more crappy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A volte la solitudine mi tormentava, ma nel profondo sapevo che stavo meglio da sola. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I rebuilt my life brick by brick. In my mind, a new relationship was out of the question. It didn\u2019t fit in with my new and improved life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Because of my exes, the idea of being in a relationship was connected with hurt. They really did a number on me, didn\u2019t they?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that\u2019s beside the point now. What matters is that you knew how to approach me. You found the way to get close to me, to my heart and soul.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We started out as friends. Hanging out, sharing stories of each other\u2019s lives; we bragged about our accomplishments and laughed through our embarrassments.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You were always there, you always wanted to spend time with me. If we hadn\u2019t <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/romantic-love-messages-for-him-and-her\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">si sono sentiti reciprocamente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> per tutto il giorno, qualcosa non andava.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mai nei miei sogni pi\u00f9 sfrenati avrei pensato che ne sarebbe venuto fuori qualcosa. Eri un mio amico, uno dei migliori.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Sei entrato nella mia vita, entrando in punta di piedi tra le pareti del mio cuore, e queste hanno cominciato a crollare, lentamente ma inesorabilmente.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47079\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia romantica e appassionata in maglione che trascorre il tempo insieme prima del nuovo anno a casa. Tenera coppia che si abbraccia sullo sfondo di una ghirlanda lucente.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi sono innamorata di te quando non avevo intenzione di innamorarmi di nessuno. Mi \u00e8 venuto naturale, senza sforzo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come hanno sempre detto che dovrebbe essere l'amore. Diverso da qualsiasi cosa abbia mai avuto prima.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because of you, I started believing in that clich\u00e9, that \u2018love finds you when you aren\u2019t looking\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho sempre alzato gli occhi al cielo quando l'ho sentita e questa \u00e8 sempre stata l'unica verit\u00e0.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Sembra che mentre ero impegnata a trovare me stessa, l'amore abbia trovato me.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mentre ero concentrato sui miei amici, sulla famiglia, sulla vita, sul lavoro, sugli interessi e sul rendermi una persona migliore, Dio ha deciso che era il momento giusto per mandarmi una persona come te.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qualcuno di genuinamente buono, affidabile e leale. Qualcuno di reale dopo tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 falso nella mia vita. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qualcuno che sapeva cosa voleva e quello che volevi tu ero io.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Hai cancellato tutte le cicatrici del passato che pensavo fossero permanenti.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You taught me that you don\u2019t have to beg anyone to be in your life. When someone cares, they make an effort. Like you did.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You made more effort than was necessary and it seemed like you didn&#8217;t have to think twice about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050.jpg\" alt=\"Amore vero. Bella coppia giovane che si lega e sorride mentre \u00e8 seduta in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi hai fatto sentire al sicuro e protetta. Mi hai fatto sentire tua.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sono davvero grato e ora capisco perch\u00e9 tutto \u00e8 dovuto andare in questo modo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I understand why it didn\u2019t work out with anyone before you came into my life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>C'\u00e8 solo una persona che pu\u00f2 essere il tuo per sempre e solo Dio pu\u00f2 metterla nella tua vita. L'ho capito solo quando ci ha messo insieme.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I could have saved myself a lot of heartache and pain if I had known that earlier. But I guess if we had met each other earlier, we wouldn\u2019t be ready for what we have now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> We simply weren&#8217;t the same people. I know I wasn\u2019t the same a year ago, heck, even a few months ago.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avrei dovuto sapere che <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/fidati-che-dio-ha-sempre-un-piano\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dio ha un piano<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for me and that it\u2019s better than anything I could have imagined. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I just want you to know how glad I am that you were His plan for me. I\u2019ll be grateful forever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47084\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"All&#039;uomo che si \u00e8 presentato quando non stavo guardando\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My walls were up, I wasn\u2019t about to let anyone in ever again. I was so hurt and so broken in the past that I swear I couldn\u2019t handle one more crappy relationship. The loneliness would get to me at times but I knew deep down that I was better off on my own. 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