{"id":47253,"date":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47253"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","slug":"un-uomo-che-fa-queste-5-cose-non-merita-una-seconda-possibilita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-uomo-che-fa-queste-5-cose-non-merita-una-seconda-possibilita\/","title":{"rendered":"Un ragazzo che fa queste 5 cose non merita una seconda possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le cose succedono, le relazioni attraversano prove dolorose e le persone commettono errori. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s the course of life. So it\u2019s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sono cose che capitano nella vita e imparare a lasciarle andare e ad andare avanti \u00e8 la chiave per una vita sana, felice e di successo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quante volte vi \u00e8 capitato di fare qualcosa di cui vi siete pentiti subito dopo? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s what I\u2019m talking about here. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ci sono persone che commettono errori e che in seguito provano un vero e proprio rimorso che indica la loro consapevolezza di avervi ferito profondamente e di essere sinceramente dispiaciuti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E queste persone sono meritevoli di <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/la-sincera-verita-sul-dare-una-seconda-possibilita-a-un-traditore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who\u2019ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persone che vi feriranno profondamente e vi faranno sentire come se ve la foste cercata. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persone che vi faranno sentire in colpa per il loro comportamento di merda ed egocentrico.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don\u2019t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don\u2019t buy into their \u2018\u2019sorry\u2019\u2019, knowing they actually don\u2019t give a shit about what they did.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L'unica cosa che dovrebbe ottenere da te sono le indicazioni per raggiungere la tua porta e un addio a vita!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Non si assume mai la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_412945732.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna che si annoia mentre l&#039;uomo usa il telefono sullo sfondo. Bella donna giovane che si sente infastidita mentre l&#039;uomo manda messaggi al telefono. Giovane donna dopo una discussione con il fidanzato nel loro salotto.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_412945732.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_412945732-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_412945732-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he\u2019s faultless, and any shit he\u2019s ever done to you \u2013 you had it coming.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he\u2019s saying is true\u2014like you DID bring it upon yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But guess what? No, you didn\u2019t. If you were at fault in any way, you\u2019d know it and own up to it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Egli \u00e8 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/self-love\/girl-power\/essere-abbastanza-forti-da-allontanarsi-da-un-manipolatore-tossico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">un manipolatore tossico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e voi dovreste aprire gli occhi e vedere attraverso le sue bugie!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. He NEVER says he\u2019s sorry<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47256\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_330647654.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato con la donna dopo aver litigato, seduto in auto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_330647654.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_330647654-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_330647654-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you\u2019re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se non lo dice mai, sapete quanto questo lo renda narcisista? Chi al mondo non ha mai commesso un errore? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there\u2019s no such thing!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if your guy can\u2019t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing\u2019s for sure. You don\u2019t want to be anywhere near that.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Non manca mai di menzionare tutti i vostri difetti.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47257\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_74106787.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che litiga in casa \" width=\"800\" height=\"566\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_74106787.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_74106787-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_74106787-768x543.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he\u2019s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re human. You have feelings. Don\u2019t let him walk all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questa \u00e8 una chiara indicazione di quanto sia disposto ad abbassarsi e di quanto poco vi apprezzi, quindi restituite il favore e <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-il-vostro-uomo-non-e-ossessionato-da-queste-4-cose-su-di-voi-lasciatelo-andare\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lasciarlo andare.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. He doesn\u2019t make you feel good in your own skin<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_342002957.jpg\" alt=\"Disperata. Piacevole e attraente giovane lunatica seduta sul davanzale della finestra e appoggiata sulle gambe mentre rimugina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_342002957.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_342002957-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_342002957-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re near him\u2026 you just can\u2019t relax. You don\u2019t feel like your authentic self. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He doesn\u2019t let you be <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/se-non-ti-avesse-spezzato-il-cuore-non-saresti-quello-che-sei-ora\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">chi sei<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he\u2019d scold you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019s not supportive of your actions. He doesn\u2019t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It\u2019s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don\u2019t like it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So don\u2019t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know you deserve much better, and you\u2019ll sure as hell find it!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Invalida i vostri sentimenti<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47259\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1289075416.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia africana sconvolta seduta sul divano che si ignora a vicenda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1289075416.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1289075416-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1289075416-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quanto \u00e8 nauseante tutto questo? Far sentire una persona sbagliata per aver provato certi sentimenti. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Far sentire la sua donna bassa e inutile per aver espresso i suoi pensieri e problemi. Cosa vi dice con questo?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He tells you that your feelings don\u2019t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not enough that he\u2019s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can\u2019t even have feelings?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Honey, don\u2019t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your emotions are your own, and you\u2019re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it\u2019s his only way to control you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I KNOW you\u2019re not the type of woman who will let this fly.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sentite i vostri sentimenti e prendetelo a calci in testa dopo avergli mostrato la porta. Ragazzo, ciao!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47262\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-4-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Un ragazzo che fa queste 5 cose non merita una seconda possibilit\u00e0\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-4-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-4-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-4-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shit happens, relationships go through painful ordeals, and people make mistakes. That\u2019s the course of life. So it\u2019s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily. These things happen in life, and learning how to let go and move on is the key to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":47260,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47253","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_87897889.jpg",800,527,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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