{"id":47313,"date":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47313"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","slug":"marito-dominante-10-modi-per-essere-lalfa-nel-vostro-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/marito-dominante-10-modi-per-essere-lalfa-nel-vostro-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Marito dominante: 10 modi per essere l'alfa del vostro matrimonio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si cercano su Google le parole relazione D\/S (che significa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/regole-per-una-relazione-dominante-e-sottomessa\/\">relazione dominante-sottomessa<\/a>), la prima associazione che si ha \u00e8 probabilmente quella di una persona che domina l'altra in camera da letto.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la dominanza nel matrimonio \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 della dominanza sotto le lenzuola.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0 significa molte cose, ma soprattutto che una persona nella relazione ha pi\u00f9 controllo dell'altra.<\/p>\n<p>When we\u2019re talking about the dominant husband, it means that he is the one who is in charge, the one who makes all the decisions, and the one who is listened to.<\/p>\n<p>It means the husband wears the pants and is the head of the household\u2014just like it was in the old days; that his attitudes and points of view are respected and obeyed, without further questioning.<\/p>\n<p>However, a D\/S relationship is in no way an abusive relationship, and it doesn\u2019t mean that men get all the privileges.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratta invece di un lavoro a tempo pieno che comporta pi\u00f9 responsabilit\u00e0 di quanto si possa pensare.<\/p>\n<p>It means that the man is the provider, the protector, the one who takes care of the woman and of the entire family, and that he is the one who carries all the life\u2019s weight on his shoulders alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82313 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"coppia innamorata\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the famous dominant husband quotes says: \u201cA truly submissive woman is to be treasured, cherished, and protected for it is only she who can give a man the gift of dominance.\u201d\u2014Anne Decals.<\/p>\n<p>Contrary to feminist point of views, even today, more women than you might imagine would like to be submissive and dream of paying attention to their husband&#8217;s needs and making sure he is satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>Molti sono alla ricerca di un partner di vita che abbia le carte in regola per dominarli e che permetta loro di essere un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-submissive-wife\/\">moglie sottomessa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>However, finding a dominant husband isn\u2019t all that easy because most modern men don\u2019t have the initiative and strength to take over the leadership position in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>That is why numerous women ask themselves: \u201cHow to encourage my husband to be more dominant?<\/p>\n<p>Come posso ispirare il mio uomo a diventare il maschio alfa di cui ho bisogno?<\/p>\n<p>What can I do to become a submissive wife and to make my man the dominant one?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>La risposta a queste domande si trova qui sotto.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a woman who is looking for ways to transform her man into a strong, power figure, just push him into following this step-by-step guide to building a dominant personality.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Come diventare un marito dominante<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a man looking for ways to gain control and dominance in your marriage, we have a solution for you!<\/p>\n<p>All you have to do is follow this beginner&#8217;s guide for becoming the alpha in your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lavorare sulla propria autostima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82306 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in giacca e cravatta in piedi sulla strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Essere un marito dominante significa molto di pi\u00f9 che essere il leader del proprio matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 molto pi\u00f9 che avere un partner in posizione di sottomissione che fa quello che dite e segue ogni vostro ordine.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, questo processo per diventare un uomo dominante comprende molte cose e la prima di queste \u00e8 l'alta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/50-citazioni-ispirate-allautostima-che-aumenteranno-la-fiducia-in-se-stessi-ogni-giorno\/\">autostima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you necessarily have to turn into an egocentric, selfish asshole in order to take over the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>However, you can\u2019t expect your wife to admire you, trust you, and put her life into your hands if you\u2019re a guy who has no or little confidence.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect her to believe in your skills and abilities if you don\u2019t have faith in yourself in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly , you can\u2019t expect her to respect you until you start respecting yourself,, and you can\u2019t wait for her to start seeing you as an alpha male before you perceive yourself in that way.<\/p>\n<p>Non ha senso cercare di costruire una personalit\u00e0 dominante se si permette alle proprie insicurezze e paure di avere la meglio.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you are constantly worried that your wife might leave you for a younger and more handsome guy who earns more than you do, you\u2019ll project your fears on her, and she\u2019ll notice that you see yourself as not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, once she sees that you don\u2019t value yourself, she\u2019ll start questioning your worth, as well.<\/p>\n<p>After a while, you\u2019ll unwillingly convince her that she can really do better, and she\u2019ll go and look for that better.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo \u00e8 necessario iniziare a lavorare sull'immagine di s\u00e9 prima di ogni altra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>You have to reprogram your brain into thinking that you\u2019re the strongest, most capable, and most valuable man in this world.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, se \u00e8 necessario, diventate un po' presuntuosi e altezzosi.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se questo non \u00e8 il tratto di personalit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 desiderabile, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle donne ci casca, che lo ammettano o meno.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially important when you\u2019re meeting a new girl. Show her that you have no doubt you\u2019ll win her over but that you won\u2019t humiliate yourself by begging her to be yours.<\/p>\n<p>When you go out, act like you own the room. Make her realize that you\u2019re perfectly aware of your numerous qualities and that there is nothing she could ever do to destroy your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014not a single person is at the peak of their confidence at all times.<\/p>\n<p>However, the key is to pretend that you have faith in yourself, even when you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean you should invent another personality just to be more likeable to the girls.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just advising you to mask your insecurities. Do your best to act like they don\u2019t exist when talking to the opposite sex, and with time, I assure you that they will really fade away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t let her change you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82301 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sdraiata a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014when a woman enters a new relationship or gets married, she is likely to see it as a fresh project.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente ti vede come un figlio che deve crescere: insegnargli come comportarsi e aiutarlo a diventare l'uomo dei suoi sogni.<\/p>\n<p>La maggior parte degli uomini accetta questi cambiamenti senza nemmeno esserne consapevole.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they\u2019re so crazy in love with their wives that they\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to make them happy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most husbands are convinced that the way to earning their better half\u2019s respect and love is through meeting her every demand.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what they don\u2019t know is that they\u2019re probably making the mistake of their lives and that behaving like this will never make them an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/11-modi-per-conquistare-il-cuore-del-maschio-alfa\/\">maschio alfa<\/a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re a dominant man, you know who you are, and you\u2019re not ready to change your ways to please your woman (because that would mean that you\u2019re the submissive one).<\/p>\n<p>You make it very clear to her that you are not an immature boy she can play with and that you don\u2019t need a mother because you already have one.<\/p>\n<p>You show her that you\u2019re a fully formed individual who won\u2019t allow anyone reshaping him.<\/p>\n<p>Non siete pronti a cambiare le vostre abitudini e ad apportare differenze cruciali nel nucleo della vostra personalit\u00e0 solo per essere pi\u00f9 simpatici e amabili per lei.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she always has the choice of accepting you for who you are or to leave if she thinks you\u2019re too much to handle.<\/p>\n<p>Ha la possibilit\u00e0 di scegliere se amare il vero te o se uscire e trovare un ragazzo che si adatti ai suoi standard.<\/p>\n<p>So che all'inizio questo approccio sembra troppo rischioso.<\/p>\n<p>You might be scared that your wife will really walk away on you if you don\u2019t do as she tells you.<\/p>\n<p>However, I assure you that your fears don\u2019t have any solid ground.<\/p>\n<p>Not only won\u2019t she dump you, she will be impressed by the strength of your character and proud that she has a real man by her side.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere fisicamente pi\u00f9 forti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82312 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo di successo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014physical appearance is the first thing we notice about everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Avete presente quando dovete essere attratti da una donna prima di decidere di provarci con lei?<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, anche per il sesso opposto \u00e8 lo stesso. E questo vale soprattutto quando si parla di dominanza.<\/p>\n<p>For a woman to see you as a dominant man, you have to show her that you\u2019re able to physically dominate her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should ever think of having an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-modi-in-cui-e-cambiata-dopo-una-relazione-emotivamente-offensiva\/\">relazione abusiva<\/a> per dimostrare la propria superiorit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 senza dubbio la cosa pi\u00f9 vile che un uomo possa fare.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just telling you that you need to be physically stronger than her, so she can be able to perceive you as emotionally and mentally stronger as well.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, the best case scenario would be if you\u2019re already taller and physically bigger than your woman.<\/p>\n<p>In questo modo, il suo istinto primario le invier\u00e0 il segnale che siete in grado di proteggerla e che pu\u00f2 contare su di voi.<\/p>\n<p>However, if this is not already the case and if you\u2019re shorter than your wife (which is something you can\u2019t work on), there is still hope that one day, you will become a dominant man.<\/p>\n<p>Potete comunque migliorare e lavorare sul vostro aspetto. Innanzitutto, andate in palestra e lavorate sui vostri muscoli.<\/p>\n<p>Fate del vostro meglio per sviluppare la vostra forza e fate in modo che anche lei se ne accorga.<\/p>\n<p>Start with the little things: open a jar for her, always carry the bags when you\u2019re going grocery shopping, change her tire, and do other things which require physical strength.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio potrebbe sentirsi offesa dal fatto che la consideriate incapace e potrebbe anche provare a fare tutte queste cose da sola solo per dimostrarvi che \u00e8 una donna indipendente, autosufficiente e che non ha bisogno di un'altra persona. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-ho-bisogno-di-un-uomo-che-risolva-i-miei-problemi-ho-bisogno-di-un-uomo-che-non-lo-diventi\/\">doesn\u2019t need a man<\/a> per aiutarla.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, questo non \u00e8 un segnale di rinuncia.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014before you know it, she\u2019ll slowly start perceiving you as a dominant man, and she\u2019ll subconsciously start taking over the submissive position and give you the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere dominanti in camera da letto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82311 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia sexy che si coccola sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When they hear words like submissiveness, dominance,&nbsp; submissive positions, and D\/S relationship, alot of people connect it an abusive relationship where the man hits the woman and where she doesn\u2019t have a say in any decision making process or they connect it only with sex.<\/p>\n<p>Immaginano una coppia sposata che pratica il BDSM, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/frasi-per-il-turpiloquio\/\">linguaggio sporco<\/a>, other kinky stuff and remember the movie \u201cFifty Shades of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, \u00e8 a questo che punta la maggior parte dei risultati di Google: BDSM e dominazione sotto le lenzuola.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is in no way true\u2014because dominant relationship is much more than one person being subordinate in the bedroom\u2014sex is a crucial part of this type of arrangement as well.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se avete intenzione di assumere un ruolo dominante nel vostro matrimonio, dovete assumere un ruolo dominante anche nella vostra vita sessuale.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete essere il partner attivo, quello che detta le regole e il ritmo.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is in no way a green light for you to do anything your submissive wife is not OK with because submissiveness doesn\u2019t equal rape.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you\u2019re husband and wife is irrelevant, and just because you\u2019re a married couple, it doesn\u2019t mean that you have the right to do anything she doesn\u2019t feel like doing or that you are entitled to force her into having sex with you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/top-30-kinky-sex-ideas-for-reaching-ultimate-pleasure\/\">Idee di sesso perverso<\/a> sono una cosa, ma l'abuso sessuale \u00e8 qualcosa di completamente diverso e bisogna sempre avere in mente di non oltrepassare questa linea.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that consent is always crucial and that you can\u2019t start doing anything without that.<\/p>\n<p>Having a dominant-submissive sex doesn\u2019t only mean BDSM and being cruel.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean one side being a sadist and the other being a masochist, like you\u2019ve seen it in \u201c50 Shades Of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Essere dominanti in camera da letto significa prendere il comando.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you shouldn\u2019t ask your submissive wife if she wants to have sex, can you have a blowjob or even can you kiss her because that is a huge turn off.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, potete includere un sacco di discorsi sporchi prima dell'azione.<\/p>\n<p>You can tell her things like: \u201cI want you to wait for me in the bed completely naked; Prepare to be wetter than ever before; Come here and suck my dick right now!; You are not allowed to cum until I say so.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, il contatto visivo e il tono della voce sono importanti.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t show her that you\u2019re scared of her rejection, and you need to act like you won\u2019t accept \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, siate voi a dare il via al sesso. Inoltre, se avete voglia di cambiare posizione sotto le lenzuola, fatelo in modo da farla girare come volete voi.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 niente di male a tirarle i capelli o a sculacciarla.<\/p>\n<p>You can also put her hand behind her back or above her head, so she feels like you\u2019re in total control of everything that is about to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno di questi consigli deve causare dolore fisico al vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they have a psychological effect which\u2014besides helping you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-regole-in-camera-da-letto-per-ravvivare-la-vostra-vita-sessuale\/\">vivacizzare la vostra vita sessuale<\/a>\u2014will help you become the dominant man you are.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere finanziariamente stabili<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82309 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sorridente che indossa una camicia blu e digita su un computer portatile in ufficio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se volete avere una donna sottomessa, dovete provvedere a lei e questo include mostrarle che pu\u00f2 contare su di voi quando si tratta di finanze.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that a submissive wife has to necessarily quit her job or that she can&#8217;t work, but she needs to feel in the heart like you could maintain her if she ever decides to be a stay-at-home mum.<\/p>\n<p>This way, if she doesn&#8217;t have to worry about the money, she&#8217;ll spend more time paying attention to your needs and finding ways to please you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Once a woman sees that you have a full-time job and that you\u2019re capable of keeping her fed and dressed, she\u2019ll be more willing to take over the submissive role which belongs to her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean you should <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/horoscope\/will-marry-according-zodiac-sign\/\">sposarsi<\/a> una cacciatrice di dote interessata solo ai vostri soldi.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, girls don\u2019t actually look for a sugar daddy (despite what many people might think).<\/p>\n<p>They look for a mature man who invests in his career and who doesn\u2019t expect his woman to solve his financial problems.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to even be a businessman or extremely successful in what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Just show her that you have a work ethic, that you\u2019re not lazy, and that you\u2019re capable of being the breadwinner of your family.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you\u2019re not afraid of taking an extra job for example if it happens that you two run out of cash.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, dimostratele che pu\u00f2 dormire tranquillamente, sapendo che ci si prender\u00e0 cura di tutto e che non finir\u00e0 mai per strada finch\u00e9 avr\u00e0 voi.<\/p>\n<p>Iniziate con il ritirare sempre il conto quando uscite, come un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-il-vostro-uomo-fa-queste-10-cose-e-un-vero-gentiluomo\/\">vero gentiluomo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Continuate a organizzare le vostre finanze domestiche e ad assumervi la responsabilit\u00e0 di far quadrare i conti fino alla fine del mese.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014this is not about the money.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di far sentire la vostra moglie sottomessa al sicuro accanto a voi.<\/p>\n<p>It is about her listening to you when you say that you need to cut costs this month because she knows you\u2019re saying it for the good of both of you and because she knows you\u2019ve taken financial responsibility.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di vedervi come una figura dominante che si occupa di tutti gli aspetti della vita.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere responsabili<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82305 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in camicia che scrive su un computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa fondamentale: non si pu\u00f2 diventare dominanti senza assumersi le proprie responsabilit\u00e0 e senza avere la capacit\u00e0 di prendere decisioni.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect your wife to be a submissive woman if she sees you as an immature brat who needs her hand to guide him through life.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, cosa significa davvero essere responsabili? Significa che il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/pay-attention-to-his-deeds-not-to-his-words\/\">i fatti devono corrispondere alle parole<\/a>. Significa mantenere le promesse fatte.<\/p>\n<p>Significa avere un carattere fermo. Significa non trovare scuse per i propri errori e non giustificarsi in ogni occasione possibile.<\/p>\n<p>Being responsible means standing behind everything you preach. It means taking responsibility for all the things you\u2019ve done wrong and trying to make them right.<\/p>\n<p>It means having a plan for the future and always knowing what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>Significa raggiungere i propri obiettivi e lavorare sodo per migliorare la propria vita.<\/p>\n<p>Significa sapersi impegnare e dedicare alle cose che ci si prefigge.<\/p>\n<p>Significa accettare tutte le conseguenze delle proprie azioni. Significa essere un uomo d'affari responsabile, un figlio responsabile, un padre responsabile, un amico responsabile e un marito responsabile.<\/p>\n<p>Significa essere un uomo e un essere umano responsabile.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014these are all the qualities every woman admires and the things they look for in a life partner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere decisivi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82307 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man.jpg\" alt=\"uomo maturo con barba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando si cerca di reinventarsi come uomo dominante, la capacit\u00e0 di prendere decisioni \u00e8 una delle prime cose su cui lavorare.<\/p>\n<p>Prima di ogni altra cosa, bisogna sapere cosa si vuole e non avere paura di ottenerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Non solo, anche la vostra moglie sottomessa deve esserne pienamente consapevole.<\/p>\n<p>She has to see that your decisions are always thoroughly thought through, that you\u2019re a wise and intelligent man who is not just led by the heart or by his impulse,s and that she\u2019ll never go wrong when she listens to you.<\/p>\n<p>She needs to know that your decisions are never spontaneous and that you know what you\u2019re doing at every given moment.<\/p>\n<p>That your point of view is rarely wrong and even if you make a mistake-that you\u2019ll be better and make things right, without her having to suffer any consequences whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, \u00e8 importante che sia chiaro che tutte le vostre decisioni sono definitive e che non c'\u00e8 spazio per cambiarle.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you\u2019re doing you\u2019re doing it for the good of the both of you, and your submissive wife shouldn\u2019t even try changing your mind or manipulating you to make a different decision regarding anything.<\/p>\n<p>Pu\u00f2 sembrare crudele, ma dovete dimostrarle che sapete fare di meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, at first you\u2019ll probably have to explain your moves to her, and she won\u2019t accept the fact that you\u2019re making all the decisions regarding your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, una volta constatato che avete le carte in regola e che avete la capacit\u00e0 di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/entertainment\/puo-dire-che-il-leader-assomiglia\/\">essere un leader<\/a>, she will be more than happy to not have to \u2018crack open her mind\u2019 about every little detail.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Diventa il suo eroe<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82310 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"moglie mano marito abbracciati fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che piaccia o meno ammetterlo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la maggior parte delle donne ha bisogno di essere salvata e che gli uomini hanno bisogno di essere i loro salvatori, in un modo o nell'altro.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since they were little girls, they\u2019ve dreamt of their Prince Charming, coming on his white horse to their rescue.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve dreamt of being Princesses who have a handsome and rich warrior next to them.<\/p>\n<p>Passavano giornate intere a cercare di essere il pi\u00f9 belle possibile per lui e aspettavano pazientemente che tornasse a casa.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, questo \u00e8 un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-voglio-una-favola-voglio-la-realta\/\">fiaba<\/a> e molte cose sono diverse quando si tratta di appuntamenti e matrimoni moderni, ma tutto questo \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec lontano dalla realt\u00e0?<\/p>\n<p>Aren\u2019t the Prince and Princess a married couple? Isn\u2019t it true that the Prince is the breadwinner?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t the Princess a submissive wife who waits for him to make the first move, to win her over.<\/p>\n<p>And to rescue her from all the evil? Don\u2019t the two of them become husband and wife and isn\u2019t the husband the alpha in their marriage?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this ancient fabrication actually mirrored in today\u2019s dominant man?<\/p>\n<p>So, that is actually what you need to become in your wife\u2019s eyes if you want to be an alpha man: her hero.<\/p>\n<p>The one who will help her get out of all troubles life throws at her, the one who will be there to hold her hand while she\u2019s overcoming all her challenges and difficulties, and the one who will not only wipe away her tears but also make sure she never cries.<\/p>\n<p>Siate il suo eroe in tutti i sensi: la prima persona a cui si rivolge quando ha bisogno di protezione fisica, la persona a cui chiede sempre consiglio e qualcuno che in qualche modo riesce sempre ad arrivare al momento giusto con una bacchetta magica per risolvere tutti i suoi problemi.<\/p>\n<p>Fatela sentire protetta, siate la sua roccia e la sua forza, e vi assicuro che vi lascer\u00e0 prendere la vostra posizione dominante in men che non si dica.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Dimostratele che pu\u00f2 fidarsi di voi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82308 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente che si guarda in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se una persona \u00e8 l'alfa di una relazione, l'altra deve avere una fiducia illimitata in lui.<\/p>\n<p>Significa che vostra moglie deve credervi e credere in voi. Deve essere certa della vostra competenza per essere la guida della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t doubt whether you\u2019ll make the right choice or whether you\u2019ll abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n<p>She has to know that you\u2019re trustworthy at all times and no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>That you don\u2019t chicken out at the first sign of trouble and that you won\u2019t turn your back on her.<\/p>\n<p>She has to see you as more than a lover\u2014you have to be this woman\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tutto-cio-che-voglio-davvero-e-un-amante-che-sia-anche-il-mio-migliore-amico\/\">migliore amico<\/a>, angelo custode e protettore.<\/p>\n<p>However, you can\u2019t accomplish all of this by just asking her to trust you and put her life in your hand.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you have to prove that you\u2019re worthy of this limitless trust you\u2019re demanding, and that is a process which takes time and doesn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, you have to show your wife that you really are there for her, that you\u2019ll never do anything that might harm her, and that you would never, under no circumstances violate her trust.<\/p>\n<p>She needs to feel comfortable around you; she has to know that you won\u2019t ever judge her and that you\u2019ll always stand by her side in front of others.<\/p>\n<p>Deve essere sicura di potervi rivelare i suoi segreti pi\u00f9 profondi senza il timore che voi li condividiate con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019ll be honest about her errors in the privacy of your own home but that you\u2019ll always defend her in front of the world, no matter how powerful a force you have to stand up against.<\/p>\n<p>You have to show her you meant everything you said in your wedding wows: that you\u2019ll have her back through thick and thin, through sickness and health, and through good and bad days.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta raggiunto questo obiettivo, lei capir\u00e0 che vi meritate davvero il ruolo di maschio dominante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Prendere in mano la situazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82360 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che parla in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All of the steps mentioned above are of no use for you if you don\u2019t learn how to take charge in every moment of your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente \u00e8 fondamentale che sviluppiate la capacit\u00e0 di prendere decisioni rapide ma intelligenti nei momenti di rischio, ma ci sono centinaia di altre situazioni in cui \u00e8 importante che siate voi a comandare.<\/p>\n<p>For example, when you two are deciding about what to eat, don\u2019t wait an hour for her to pick what she feels like having. Instead, suggest something right away.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t tell her: \u201cWhat do you think about having pizza?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Instead, just tell her \u201cWe\u2019ll have pizza.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry\u2014you\u2019re not endangering her in any way with this because she\u2019ll surely protest if that is something she doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re just helping her decide and showing her that you\u2019re in control.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re taking her out or buying her a birthday present, don\u2019t wait for her to tell you where she\u2019d like to go or what she\u2019d like to get.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, sorprendetela con un tavolo gi\u00e0 prenotato e con l'acquisto di qualcosa che sapete che le piacerebbe avere.<\/p>\n<p>Lo stesso vale per la pianificazione delle vacanze, degli hobby o del tempo libero.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, make sure she knows you&#8217;re serious about it and that your decisions are final.<\/p>\n<p>Siate sempre fermi quando parlate con lei e mantenete un atteggiamento forte. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/che-cosa-significa-un-contatto-visivo-prolungato-tra-un-uomo-e-una-donna\/\">contatto visivo<\/a> because that will show her you\u2019re confident and secure.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo un po', vostra moglie si accorger\u00e0 che siete voi a portare i pantaloni in casa.<\/p>\n<p>And guess what: she\u2019ll like it more than anything!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82303 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest.jpg\" alt=\"Marito dominante: 10 modi per essere l&#039;alfa del vostro matrimonio\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you google the words D\/S relationship (meaning dominant-submissive relationship), the first association you have is probably one person dominating the other in the bedroom. However, dominance in the marriage is much more than dominance under the sheets. It actually means a lot of things, but most importantly, that one person in the relationship has&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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