{"id":47353,"date":"2019-11-13T12:47:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T12:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47353"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:53:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:53:44","slug":"la-lista-di-controllo-della-coppia-che-puo-fare-o-distruggere-la-vostra-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-lista-di-controllo-della-coppia-che-puo-fare-o-distruggere-la-vostra-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"La lista di controllo della coppia che potrebbe far nascere o distruggere la vostra relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve got a really cool thing over here for all couples who\u2019d like to assess their relationship and see how much they actually &#8220;click&#8221;!<\/p>\n<p>Certo, tutte le coppie sono diverse, ma il succo \u00e8 lo stesso!<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono cose e aspetti di una relazione in cui \u00e8 necessario essere in sintonia per farla funzionare.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no going around it.<\/p>\n<p>And isn\u2019t it actually so cool being able to check all of these things off your list and figure out how compatible you two really are?<\/p>\n<p>Questa lista di controllo delle relazioni ha onestamente il potere di fare o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/7-frasi-che-psicopatici-e-manipolatori-usano-per-farvi-crollare-in-una-relazione\/\">romperti<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47358\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che chiede alla fidanzata di sposarlo\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After carefully going through all these points, you\u2019ll either realize how great you and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/state-davvero-ascoltando-il-vostro-partner\/\">il vostro partner <\/a>o di rendersi conto che ci sono alcune cose che hanno bisogno di essere migliorate nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Be warned \u2013 you\u2019re reading at your own risk!<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just joking\u2026 but honestly, what you find here might honestly affect your entire relationship.<\/p>\n<p>So be willing to work on it if that\u2019s what it takes. After all, that\u2019s the whole point!<\/p>\n<p><b>So\u2026 are you ready to see what you\u2019re made of?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Three, two, one\u2026 let\u2019s go!<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1. <i>Neither of you ever tries to change the other, but you\u2019re also completely comfortable voicing your strong opinions, no matter the outcome.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481.jpg\" alt=\"donna in ufficio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una cosa molto importante da spuntare dalla lista perch\u00e9 dimostra il rispetto reciproco, l'attenzione e la capacit\u00e0 di essere aperti, onesti e crudi l'uno con l'altro.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no walking on eggshells and speaking half-truths.<\/p>\n<p>You respect each other and wouldn\u2019t dream of changing anything about your partner.<\/p>\n<p>But when the need comes, you\u2019ll put your foot down and it won\u2019t be weird.<\/p>\n<h2><i>2.<\/i> <i>La vostra comunicazione nella relazione \u00e8 sana, aperta e fiduciosa, senza aggressivit\u00e0 passiva e senza frecciatine.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>A volte la comunicazione pu\u00f2 essere davvero impegnativa.<\/p>\n<p>Feelings get hurt and having strong urges to be passive-aggressive about it aren\u2019t uncommon.<\/p>\n<p>But with you two, it\u2019s not like that at all.<\/p>\n<p>Potete essere aperti, onesti e non sentirvi in imbarazzo nel dire la dura verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t try to diminish each other and you never take subtle digs.<\/p>\n<p>You say it like it is and you don\u2019t go to bed angry.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s bothering you is worked out on the same day and life truly is peaceful because of it.<\/p>\n<h2><em>3. Litigate, proprio come qualsiasi altra coppia, ma con una differenza fondamentale. Non ci sono colpi bassi. Voi due combattete sempre lealmente, con tutte le carte in tavola.<\/em><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47367\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no denying that fighting on occasion is inevitable in any relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody agrees on everything at all times, so it\u2019s really okay \u2013 as long as the fight is fair and nobody tries to resort to low blows.<\/p>\n<p>E voi due non lo fate mai. Vi apprezzate troppo l'un l'altro per litigare in modo sporco e crudele.<\/p>\n<p>You never hold your partner\u2019s past mistakes against them.<\/p>\n<p>Lavorate sui problemi in questione e non cercate mai di allontanarvi da essi.<\/p>\n<p>L'onest\u00e0 e la trasparenza sono il collante che vi mantiene forti!<\/p>\n<h2>4. <i>Ci sono sempre alti e bassi nella relazione, ma con voi due gli alti superano di gran lunga i bassi!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019ve been through your fair share of trials and tribulations.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve weathered some harsh storms and moved past all the previous issues.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you can honestly say that you\u2019ve been having a wonderful time with each other where the good days are much more frequent than bad ones.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody says it\u2019s always going to be sunshine and rainbows, but you know that for any bad day, there are a hundred good ones.<\/p>\n<p>E i tuoi giorni buoni rendono tutti quelli cattivi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/true-love\/finding-the-one\/so-che-innamorarsi-fa-paura-ma-con-luomo-giusto-ne-varra-la-pena\/\">ne vale la pena<\/a>e non solo!<\/p>\n<h2>5. <i>You laugh with each other more than with anyone else in your life. Laughter is your favourite pastime and you\u2019re never lacking in that department!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47368\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che ride e si abbraccia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo dovrebbe essere il caso di tutte le coppie che vogliono davvero resistere alla prova del tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Ridere con il proprio partner fa sentire cos\u00ec bene, senza stress e innamorati!<\/p>\n<p>And you two can\u2019t contain yourselves most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve got your private jokes and your sense of humor is on the same level, so laughter is truly ever so present in your lives!<\/p>\n<p>And you wouldn\u2019t have it any other way.<\/p>\n<h2>6. <i>I vostri piani per il futuro sono allineati ed entrambi sapete cosa vuole l'altro a lungo termine, perch\u00e9 lo volete anche voi!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>There are no worries that you might realize your partner doesn\u2019t share the same goals and dreams as you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve already discussed all of these important issues and you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete esattamente qual \u00e8 la posizione del vostro partner su matrimonio, figli e situazione abitativa.<\/p>\n<p>Conoscete il loro piano quinquennale e viceversa.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve discussed it all and your goal is to make it all happen in the years to come, and most importantly \u2013 do it with each other and nobody else.<\/p>\n<h2><i>7. Il vostro partner \u00e8 il vostro porto sicuro e la vostra casa. Con lui il mondo smette di esistere, le preoccupazioni scompaiono e una sensazione di tranquillit\u00e0 invade tutto il vostro essere.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47369\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che beve vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro partner \u00e8 la vostra casa.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nowhere else you\u2019d go when you need to feel safe.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no one else you\u2019d turn to when in crisis.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re your person and your rock.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re with them, everything becomes okay for that moment.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever\u2019s going on in your life, it stops bothering you when they\u2019re near.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all peace, security, and tranquillity.<\/p>\n<p>E in quei momenti ci si rende conto di quanto questa persona sia incredibilmente rara, speciale e unica.<\/p>\n<p>Senza di loro, nulla \u00e8 pi\u00f9 lo stesso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47365\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La lista di controllo della coppia che potrebbe far nascere o distruggere la vostra relazione\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve got a really cool thing over here for all couples who\u2019d like to assess their relationship and see how much they actually &#8220;click&#8221;! Sure, all couples are different, but the gist is the same! There are certain things and aspects of a relationship where you simply need to be in sync in order for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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